WITHOUT RESERVATION
When brimming with gratitude, one's heartbeat must surely
result in outgoing love, . . . .
AS BILL SEES IT, p.37
While practicing service to others, if my successes give
rise to grandiosity, I must reflect on what brought me to
this point. What has been given joyfully, with love, must
be passed on without reservation and without expectation.
For as I grow, I find that no matter how much I give with
love, I receive much more in spirit.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
Continuing the consideration of the term "spiritual experience":
"What often takes place in a few months could seldom have been
accomplished by years of self-discipline. With few exceptions,
our members find that they have tapped an unsuspected inner
resource which they presently identify with their own conception
of a Power greater than themselves. Most of us think this
awareness of a Power greater than ourselves the essence of
spiritual experience. Some of us call it God-consciousness.
In any case, willingness, honesty, and open-mindedness are
the essentials of recovery." Have I tapped that inner resource
which can change my life?
Meditation For The Day
God's power in your life increases as your ability to understand
His grace increases. The power of God's grace is only limited by
the understanding and will of each individual. God's miracle-working
power is only limited in each individual soul by the lack of
spiritual vision of the soul. God respects free will, the right
of each person to accept or reject His miracle-working power.
Only the sincere desire of the soul gives Him the opportunity
to bestow it.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may not limit God's power by my lack of vision.
I pray that I may keep my mind open today to His influence.
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As Bill Sees It
When Infancy
Is Over, p.269
"You must remember that every A.A. group starts, as it should,
through
the efforts of a single man and his friends--a founder and
his
hierarchy. There is no other way.
"But when infancy is over, the original leaders always have to make
way
for that democracy which springs up through the grass roots and
will
eventually sweep aside the self-chosen leadership of the past."
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Letter to Dr. Bob:
"Everywhere the A.A. groups have taken their service affairs into
their
own hands. Local founders and their friends are now on the side
lines.
Why so many people forget that, when thinking of the future of
our
world services, I shall never understand.
"The groups will eventually take over, and maybe they will squander
their inheritance when they get it. It is probable, however, that they
won't.
Anyhow, they really have grown up; A.A. is theirs; let's give it
to them.
Letters
1. 1950
2. 1949
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Walk In Dry Places
The Test Of My
Ideas
Change
Early in its existence, the AA fellowship tended to
resist new ideas, yet did
accept many good purpose, because it screened
out practices that could have
destroyed the fellowship.
But other, new ideas have been accepted and have benefited the
fellowship.
How can we test a new idea before we decide to accept it?
Whatever the idea, it should be beneficial in promoting personal
recovery.
If it is somehow harmful to those seeking recovery, it should
not be accepted.
If this simple test is applied honestly and with fairness, new ideas
can be
considered on their own merits and can usually be discussed in
an atmosphere
of reason and understanding. The AA
traditions will support most sound ideas.
Knowing that God is the source of new ideas, we can be open to
additional guides
that can help us along the way. I'll be on the
lookout today for any helpful ideas.
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Keep It Simple
Honesty is the backbone of our recovery program. Honesty opens us up.
It
breaks
down the walls we had built around our secret world. Those walls
made a prison for
us. But all of that is now changed. We are free.
Honesty has made us wise. We aren’t sneaking drinks anymore. We don’t
have a
stash to protect.
People who didn’t trust us now depend on our honesty. People who worked
hard to
avoid us, now seek us out. Self-honesty is the greatest gift we
can give ourselves.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, You are truth. I pray that I
may not turn away
from truth.
I will not lie. My life depends on honesty.
Action For the Day: For twenty or thirty minutes, I will think
about how learning to
be
honest has changed my life.
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Each Day a New Beginning
The wisdom of all ages and cultures emphasizes the tremendous power our
thoughts
have over our character and circumstances. --Liane Cordes
"As we think, so we are." We are gifted with the personal power to make
thoughtful
choices and thus decide whom we are. Our actions and choices
combine to create our
character, and our character influences the
circumstances of our lives.
Our personal mind power will work to our advantage when we think
positively, or it
will contribute to our disadvantage. Imagining our
good fortunes will prepare us for
them. Imagining the successful
completion of a task heightens and strengthens the
commitment we must
make daily to it. Imagining the steps necessary to the successful
accomplishment of any goal directs our efforts so we don't falter along
the way. Our
minds work powerfully for our good. And just as powerfully
to our detriment, when
fears intrude on all our thoughts.]
The program has given me positive personal power; it lies in the
relationship I have
with my higher power. My outlook and attitude
toward life reveals the strength of my
connection to God. I will work
with God and imagine my good fortune today.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Foreword to First Edition
This is the Foreword as it appeared in the first printing of the first
edition in 1939
It is important that we remain anonymous because we are too few, at
present to handle the overwhelming number of personal appeals which may
result from this publication. Being mostly business or professional
folk, we could not well carry on our occupations in such an event. We
would like it understood that our alcoholic work is an avocation.
p. xiii
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition - Stories
My Chance To Live
A.A. gave this teenager the tools
to climb out of her dark abyss of despair.
The voices in my head became even more and more
vicious. With each failed attempt, my head said: See, you
failed again. You knew you wouldn't feel better. You're a
loser. You're never going to beat this. Why are you even
trying? Just drink until you're dead.
p. 312
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition
Twelve - "Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions,
ever reminding us to place principles before personalities."
THE spiritual substance of anonymity is sacrifice. Because A.A.'s
Twelve Traditions repeatedly ask us to give up personal desires for the
common good, we realize that the sacrificial spirit--well symbolized by
anonymity--is the foundation of them all. It is A.A.'s proved
willingness to make these sacrifices that gives people their high
confidence in our future.
p. 184
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Come,
let
us
give
a
little
time
to folly... and even in a melancholy
day let us find time for an hour of pleasure.
--Saint Bonaventura
"Good habits are as addictive as bad habits, and a lot more rewarding."
--Harvey Mackay
It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is
invisible to the eye.
--Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Real success requires respect for and faithfulness to the highest
human values - honesty, integrity, self-discipline, dignity, compassion,
humility, courage, personal responsibility, courtesy, and human service.
--Michael DeBakey, M.D.
Hope never abandons you, you abandon it.
--George Weinberg
Each day, and the living of it, has to be a conscious creation in which
discipline and order are relieved with some play and pure foolishness.
--May Sarton
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
ACHIEVEMENT
"Do not mistake activity for
achievement."
-- Mabel Newcomber
Often I am running in circles and not getting anywhere. I spend
forever "doing" things and yet I know I am not achieving anything. I
am going nowhere in my life!
"Be still and know that I am God." I need to stop. I need to listen to
the pain that is within. I need to relax in my gratitude. I need to
rest in
myself. Tomorrow has not yet come -- today I take time for me.
Lord, I hear Your still small voice. Today I rest in me and discover
Thee.
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"We
ought to obey God rather than men."
Acts 5:29
He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools
shall be destroyed.
Proverbs, 13:20
"I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has given me strength, that he
considered me faithful, appointing me to his service."
I Timothy 1:12
"To the man who pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge and
happiness, but to the sinner he gives the task of gathering and storing
up wealth to hand it over to the one who pleases God. This too is
meaningless, a chasing after the wind."
Ecclesiastes 2:26
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Daily Inspiration
Get rid of the excuses for not doing those things that make you happy.
Lord,
Your peace within me calms my spirit and opens my heart to
recognize the joy
of this day.
Forget the useless and unhealthy things of your past that clutter your
mind so
that you can live a life that is alive and vibrant. Lord, help
me to discard all
that clouds my day so that I am able to live the life
that You intend me to live.
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NA Just For Today
Right Back Up
"There is something in our
self-destructive personalities that cries for failure."
Basic Text, p.77
"Poor me; woe is me; look at me, my
life is such a mess! I've fallen, and no matter how hard I try, I
continue to fail!" Many of us came to NA singing this sad refrain.
Life isn't like that anymore. True,
sometimes we still stumble; at times we even fall. Sometimes we feel
like we can't move forward in our lives, no matter how hard we try. But
the truth of the matter is that, with the help of other recovering
addicts in NA, we find a hand to pull us up, dust us off, and help us
start all over again. That's the new refrain in our lives today. No
longer do we say, "I'm a failure and I'm going nowhere!" Usually, it's
more like, "Rats! I hit that same bump in the road of life again.
Pretty soon I'll learn to slow down or avoid it entirely!" Until then,
we may continue to fall down occasionally, but we've learned that
there's always a helping hand to set us on our feet again.
Just for today: If I begin to cry
failure, I'll remember there is a way to move forward. I will accept
the encouragement and support of NA.
pg. 281
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
Let me fly, says little birdie,
Mother, let me fly away.
--Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Don't we all want to fly away? Isn't
there a better place out there away from home? The boy can't fly, but
he can climb a tree and ride the wind. The girl, high on imaginary
wings, flies to her own land of dreams. Even mothers and fathers,
together and alone, need to fly--away from work, house, and the
everyday same old things. But we all need to return as well. We need to
know that home is the one safe place to land, that there we can rest,
recover our strength, tell our tales to family and friends.
Our home is safe and comfortable, but
if we never leave, even for a short while, we will never take the
action necessary to bring our dreams to life.
What small comfort might I give up for
today in order to make a dream come true?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
What I have wanted is consistency,
ever since the day back in Wyncote when my mom and dad split. I have
wanted to be liked. I have wanted to be loved. I have wanted to be in a
family type atmosphere. --Reggie Jackson
How many of us gave ourselves away
trying to fix painful childhood longings? We thought if we were good
boys, good men, caretakers, we would have the love we wanted. Sadly,
our remedies for childhood pain have often been childish solutions. Our
need for security may have become a self centered obsession and blocked
our ability to hear our loved ones. We may have become so fervent about
accepting others that we failed to stand up for ourselves and lost
their respect.
Most of us reach adulthood with
leftover pain no person could ever fix. We learn grown up responses by
accepting our load of pain and by asking others for help. Intimacy and
companionship reduce the weight. We tell our friends about our burdens,
and we learn what they are carrying. In the process we grow in wisdom
and maturity.
Today. I will remember I do not have
to be alone with my pain.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
The wisdom of all ages and cultures
emphasizes the tremendous power our thoughts have over our character
and circumstances. --Liane Cordes
"As we think, so we are." We are
gifted with the personal power to make thoughtful choices and thus
decide whom we are. Our actions and choices combine to create our
character, and our character influences the circumstances of our lives.
Our personal mind power will work to
our advantage when we think positively, or it will contribute to our
disadvantage. Imagining our good fortunes will prepare us for them.
Imagining the successful completion of a task heightens and strengthens
the commitment we must make daily to it. Imagining the steps necessary
to the successful accomplishment of any goal directs our efforts so we
don't falter along the way. Our minds work powerfully for our good. And
just as powerfully to our detriment, when fears intrude on all our
thoughts.]
The program has given me positive
personal power; it lies in the relationship I have with my higher
power. My outlook and attitude toward life reveals the strength of my
connection to God. I will work with God and imagine my good fortune
today.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Temporary Setbacks
Sometimes, after we begin recovery,
things in our life seem to get worse for a time. Our finances, our
relationships, or our health may seem to deteriorate.
This is temporary; this is a normal
part of recovery and healing. It may be the way things will be for a
time, but not for long.
Keep working at recovery, and the
trend will reverse. Before too long, things, and us, will be better
than they were before. This time, the foundation will be solid.
God, help me trust You and recovery,
even when I have setbacks. Help me remember that the problems are
temporary, and when they are solved, I will be on more solid ground.
Today I'm living according to my
truth, knowing that freedom and happiness are the result. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Freeze Negative Energy
Police officers often say “Freeze!”
when they want someone to stop, when they want to protect themselves.
We can do the same thing. We can learn to freeze unwanted energy that
comes to us from others.
Health professionals agree there are
many causes of stress in our lives, from toxins in the air to problems
related to love, money, self-esteem, or work. One subtle problem that
can cause undesirable stress– an area we often overlook– is when people
direct negative energy at us. We can learn to become aware of, and
protect ourselves from, undesirable negative energy that others may
unconsciously, or even consciously, be directing toward us– whether
they’re feeling angry, resentful, jealous, or downright hateful. We
don’t have to absorb the impact of that energy, and let it harm us.
We can freeze negative energy. We can
mentally tell it to stop and refuse to take it in and make it ours. If
something is really bothering us, try this trick one healer taught me.
Draw a picture of the person or write a description of the problem,
then stick it in the freezer underneath the bottom tray.
People are energy. Thoughts are
energy. Part of loving ourselves is not ingesting toxins. Negative
energy is toxic. Don’t stress others.
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more language of letting go
Own your life
Are you willing to take responsibility
for this mat, to own it? That doesn't mean it isn't everybody else's
mat,too. If you're big enough to own the mat as yours, you're big
enough to let it be theirs,too.
--George Leonard
In his book The Way of Aikido, George
Leonard wrote about the concept of owning the mat. He was talking about
aikido. He was referring to an air of ownership, a certain presence he
learned to demonstrate both on the mats while practicing martial arts
and in his life.
Many subtle attitudes and past
conditioning can affect our sense of ownership of our lives and of the
world we live in-- guilt, a haunting sense of victimization, laziness,
living with repressive, angry, or abusive people may have tamed our
sense of ownership of our lives.
One day, I was at my daughter's house.
She had recently acquired a new dog, Stanley. Stanley huddled in the
corner timidly instead of scampering over to greet me like her other
dog did.
"We got Stanley from the pound,"
Nichole explained. "His previous owners abused him real badly. He's
afraid to move around too much. He's afraid he'll get hit. So he sits
real quietly, hoping not to make anyone mad."
I thought, That dog reminds me of me.
Let go of negative conditioning. No
matter what happened, today is a new day. And it's your lucky day.
You've just received an inheritance. You now own your world-- your
life, your emotions, your finances, your relationships, your decisions.
Walk onto the mat of your life with an air of confidence. Welcome
others graciously because it's their world,too. Whether you're walking
into your cubicle at work or pushing a shopping cart down the aisle at
the grocery store, stand tall, move from your center, and walk with an
open heart.
Welcome to your world.
God, teach me what it means to live
and let live.
Activity: Review each of these areas
of your life: work, relationships, finances, leisure time, emotions,
your body, and your spiritual growth. Have you forfeited or given up
ownership in any of these areas? If you have, today's a good day to
take it back.
*****
Seasons of Beauty
Aging Gracefully by Madisyn Taylor
As we cultivate our life, our beauty
becomes as much about what we are creating and doing as it is about our
appearance.
We tend to associate youth with
beauty, but the truth is that beauty transcends every age. Just as a
deciduous tree is stunning in all its stages—from its full leafy green
in the summer to its naked skeleton during winter and everything in
between—human beings are beautiful throughout their life spans.
The early years of our lives tend to
be about learning and experiencing as much as we possibly can. We move
through the world like sponges, absorbing the ideas of other people and
the world. Like a tree in spring, we are waking up to the world. In
this youthful phase of life, our physical strength, youth, and beauty
help open doors and attract attention. Gradually, we begin to use the
information we have gathered to form ideas and opinions of our own. As
we cultivate our philosophy about life, our beauty becomes as much
about what we are saying, doing, and creating as it is about our
appearance. Like a tree in summer, we become full, expressive,
beautiful, and productive.
When the time comes for us to let go
of the creations of our middle lives, we are like a tree in autumn
dropping leaves, as we release our past attachments and preparing for a
new phase of growth. The children move on, and careers shift or end.
The lines on our faces, the stretch marks, and the grey hairs are
beautiful testaments to the fullness of our experience. In the winter
of our lives, we become stripped down to our essence like a tree. We
may become more radiant than ever at this stage, because our inner
light shines brighter through our eyes as time passes. Beauty at this
age comes from the very core of our being—our essence. This essence is
a reminder that there is nothing to fear in growing older and that
there is a kind of beauty that comes only after one has spent many
years on earth. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
In times past, even as adults, many of
us childishly insisted that people protect, defend and care for us. We
acted as if the world owed us a living. And then, when the people we
most loved became fed up, pushing us aside or perhaps abandoning us
completely,m we were bewildered. We couldn’t see that our
over-dependence on people was unsuccessful because all human beings are
fallible; even the best of them will sometimes let us down, especially
when our demands are unreasonable. Today, in contrast, we rely upon
God, counting on Him rather than on ourselves or other people. Am I
trying to do as I think God would have me do, trusting the outcome of
His will for me?
Today I Pray
May I know, from the dependencies of
my past, that I am a dependent person. I depended on alcohol,
mood-altering chemicals, food or other addictive pursuits. I was
inclined to “hang” on other people, depending on them for more than
they could give. May I, at last, switch from these adolescent
dependencies to a mature healthy dependency on my Higher Power.
Today I Pray
I have more than one dependency.
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One More Day
…We love persons . . . by reason of
their defects as well as of their qualities.
– Jacques Maritain
There is a freedom in loving and being
loved. The love we have for other special people frees us to
concentrate on them, and we forget ourselves and our problems. Often,
these people — our friends and family members — are loved by us not
because we find perfection in them but because we magically seem to
blend together, and their faults become unimportant.
In being loved, we discover the same
freedom. We don’t have to conceal our defects. We can be open.
Certainly, we continue to work to free ourselves of defects, but we do
it for ourselves; we don’t have to be perfect to deserve love.
Nonjudgmental love is one of the things that frees us to make choices
without fear.
I treasure all the living friendships
I have. They allow me to choose new directions by accepting me where I
am.
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Food For Thought
We Admit
Three of the Twelve Steps have to do
with admitting. We admit that we are powerless over food and cannot
manage our own lives; we admit our wrongs to God, ourselves, and
another person; we continue to take inventory and admit when we are
wrong.
Out of honest admission of our
weakness comes strength. We are able to see ourselves realistically and
with clarity. When we are humble enough to admit our wrongs, we get rid
of the false front we had tried to maintain. This frees us to be who we
are, without pretense.
When we admit our faults, we are
cleansed. We no longer have to try to hide and cover up our weaknesses
and mistakes. Instead of pretending to be perfect, we can be human and
satisfied with progress.
We admit that we have a progressive
disease, and we learn how to control it. We do not pretend to ourselves
or others that we can eat like everyone else, because we are compulsive
overeaters. We cannot manage our own lives, but there is One who can.
I admit that I am powerless, and I am
grateful for Your Power in my life.
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One Day At A Time
Patience
“Patience and perseverance have a
magical effect
before which difficulties and
obstacles vanish.”
John Quincy Adams
When I first walked through the
meeting doors, I wanted recovery and I wanted it now! Give me the magic
wand, I’ll waive it, then get on with my life. At least that’s what I
thought.
One of the most difficult things I’ve
had to learn is the art of patience and allowing God to work within his
own time while I do the footwork to the best of my ability. It is my
belief that the universe and my Higher Power will order the next level
of my physical recovery. Physical recovery does not grow without
spiritual progress. This Program is a journey, not a crash-course in
fad dieting.
When I struggled with bouts of pride
connected to my levels of patience and God’s timing, I knew I was
uncovering yet another character flaw that could delay my spiritual
recovery. Spiritual recovery, as “Old-timers” have told us again and
again, is the actual foundation of the program. The inner-person will
eventually make its way to the outer-person.
One day at a time...
Today I will slow down, take a deep
breath, and just remind myself that my Higher Power is in control and
that my natural pattern will develop under His nurture, care, and
control.
~ January
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
No words can tell of the lonliness and
despair I found in that bitter morass of self-pity. Quicksand stretched
around me in all directions. I had met my match. I had been
overwhelmed. Alcohol was my master. - Pg.8 - Bill's Story
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
There is a fundamental unity that
underlies the fellowship of our programs. It is this unity that can
comfort us and help us hold on when we want a fix, pill, drink, smoke,
or snort more than we want this new unfamiliar life.
God, as I understand You, show me how
to take comfort from the unity of fellowship when drugs call me back.
Help is Not Always Help
I watched those I love sink further
and further into a disease and it was extremely painful to witness. I
watched those I love steep in denial, coming up with a new set of
rationalizations for each manifestation of the disease and I felt deep
frustration and sometimes despair at their unwillingness to see the
reality that was growing like yeast before their eyes. It hurt to hear
them use rationalizations to let themselves off the hook. But those
rationalizations, that denial was their disease. It was infuriating to
watch them go about their day seemingly free of the kinds of anxieties
and worries that I was experiencing because their denial was working so
well for them. It was enraging. It left me feeling completely helpless,
frustrated and alone. It made me want to scream at everyone. But I
fixed instead to make the feeling go away. When I fix to make my own
pain go away, it doesn't work. The 'help' I give is too loaded down
with my own pain and the messages get muffled.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
The difference between self-love and
self-conceit is very important. Self-love is a healthy appreciation of
God's gift to you. Conceit is comparing yourself to others and finding
them lacking.
I do not climb the mountain so that I
can look down on others.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Patience is giving God space.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
I am learning to trust my intuition
and I am willing to act on this inner guidance.
I am taking positive and healthy
actions today and my life is getting better and better.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
You go to a meeting and in ten minutes
you're telling a complete stranger things you wouldn't tell a priest. -
Doug D.
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AA Thought for the Day
September 27
Home Group
This is where the AA member begins to
learn about the how of Alcoholics Anonymous.
By selecting a home group, the
newcomer begins to feel like he belongs somewhere.
He begins to know people and let
people know him.
He feels safe in this meeting because
he knows everyone's story and where they came from.
He gets to watch people come and go,
so he can see what works and what doesn't work.
He develops close friendships and
when the seas get rough, he has people who can see over the swelling
waves.
- The Home Group: Heartbeat of AA, p.
14
Thought to Ponder . . .
We read about miracles in the Bible,
but we see miracles at AA meetings.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
T L C = Tears, Laughter, Caring.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Right Living
"Service, gladly rendered,
obligations squarely met,
troubles well accepted or solved with
God's help,
the knowledge that at home or in the
world outside
we are partners in a common effort,
the well-understood fact that in
God's sight
all human beings are important,
the proof that love freely given
surely brings a full return,
the certainty that we are no longer
isolated and alone
in self-constructed prisons,
the surety that we need no longer be
square pegs in round holes but can
fit and belong
in God's scheme of things --
these are the permanent and
legitimate satisfactions
of right living for which no amount
of pomp and circumstance,
no heap of material possessions,
could possibly be substitutes."
c. 1952AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions, p. 124
Thought to Consider . . .
We are not living just to be sober;
we are living to learn, to serve, and
to love.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
L O V E = Living Our Valuable
Experiences
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Clubs
>From "The Three Legacies of
Alcoholics Anonymous":
"But like most A.A. clubs this first
one did us far more good than harm, especially after we learned that
the club had to be on the side lines and could not be managed by the
A.A. groups as such. The Old Twenty-Fourth Street Club witnessed much
of A.A.'s early history. Still in busy operation [as of 1957], it is
now a landmark visited by members from all over the world. Similar and
far larger clubs were started in Philadelphia and Minneapolis later in
1940. Scores and scores of clubrooms and clubhouses now dot our
landscape. Some of the more elegant ones, especially those in Texas,
have to be seen to be believed."
2001 AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics Anonymous
Comes of Age, pg. 181
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"I can say no to a lot of things I'm
not interested in. All the people-pleasing activities I used to engage
in, I can cut out now. That gives me time to do the truly helpful,
gut-warming little things, just because they need doing and I truly
care. I have time to work my program."
Houston, Texas, June 1976
"Growth,"
Emotional Sobriety: The Next Frontier
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"Some day we hope that Alcoholics
Anonymous will help the public to
a better realization of the gravity
of the alcoholic problem, but we
shall be of little use if our
attitude is one of bitterness or
hostility. Drinkers will not stand
for it.
After all, our problems were of our
own making. Bottles were only a
symbol. Besides, we have stopped
fighting anybody or anything. We
have to!"
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Working With Others, pg. 103~
"Most of us have been unwilling to
admit we were real alcoholics. No person likes to think he is bodily
and mentally different from his fellows. Therefore, it is not
surprising that our drinking careers have been characterized by
countless vain attempts to prove we could drink like other people. The
idea that somehow, someday he will control and enjoy his drinking is
the great obsession of every abnormal drinker. The persistence of this
illusion is astonishing. Many pursue it into the gates of insanity or
death.
We learned that we had to fully
concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the
first step in recovery. The delusion that we are like other people, or
presently may be, has to be smashed."
Alcoholics Anonymous, page 30
When many hundreds of people are able
to say that the consciousness of the Presence of God is today the most
important fact of their lives, they present a powerful reason why one
should have faith.
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 51
I must quickly assure you that A.A.'s
tread innumerable paths in their quest for faith.
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p. 27
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
In taking an inventory, a member
might consider questions such as these:
How did my selfish pursuit of the sex
relation damage other people and me? What people were hurt, and how
badly? Just how did I react at the time? Did 1 burn with guilt? Or did
I insist that I was the pursued and not the pursuer, and thus absolve
myself?
How have I reacted to frustration in
sexual matters? When denied, did I become vengeful or depressed? Did I
take it out on other people? If there was rejection or coldness at
home, did I use this as a reason for promiscuity?
Let no alcoholic say he cannot
recover unless he has his family back. His recovery is not dependent
upon people. It is dependent upon his relationship with God, however he
may define Him.
Prayer for the Day: My Daily Prayer - God, I will turn my will
and my life over to You this day for Your keeping. Your will, Lord, not
mine. I ask for Your guidance and direction. I will walk humbly with
You and Your fellowman. You are giving me a grateful heart for my many
blessings. You are removing the defects of character that stand in my
way. You are giving me freedom from self-will.
Let love, compassion, and
understanding be in my every thought, word, and deed this day. I
release those to You who have mistreated me. I truly desire Your
abundance of truth, love, harmony, and peace. As I go out today to do
Your bidding, let me help anyone I can who is less fortunate than I.