"ENTIRELY HONEST"
We must be entirely honest with somebody if we expect to live long or
happily in this world.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 73-74
Honesty, like all virtues, is to be shared. It began after I shared ".
. .
[my] whole life's story with someone . . . " in order to find my place
in
the Fellowship. Later I shared my life in order to help the newcomer
find his place with us. This sharing helps me to learn honesty in all my
dealings and to know that God's plan for me comes true through honest
openness and willingness.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
When I was drinking, I always tried to build myself up. I used to tell
tall
stories about myself. I told them so often that I half believe some of
them
now, even though I know they aren't true. I used to hang around the
lowbrow barrooms so I could feel superior to the other customers. The
reason I always tried to build myself up was that I knew deep down
in my heart that I really didn't amount to anything. It was a kind of
defense against my feeling of inferiority. Do I still build myself up?
Meditation For The Day
God thought about the universe and brought it into being. His thought
brought me into being. I must think God's thought after Him. I must
often keep my mind occupied with thoughts about God and meditate on
the way He wants me to live. I must train my mind constantly in quiet
times of communion with God. It is the work of a lifetime to develop to
full stature spiritually. This is what I am on earth for. it gives
meaning to
my life.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may think God's thoughts after Him. I pray that I may live
as He wants me to live.
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As Bill Sees It
Freedom to
Choose, p. 124
Looking back, we see that our freedom to choose badly was not,
after all, a very real freedom.
When we chose because we "must," this was not a free choice,
either. But it got us started in the right direction.
When we chose because we "ought to," we were really doing better.
This time we were earning some freedom, making ourselves ready
for more.
But when, now and then, we could gladly make right choices without
rebellion, hold-out, or conflict, then we had our first view of what
perfect freedom under God's will could be like.
Grapevine, May 1960
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Walk in Dry Places
Secrets of the New Happiness____ Success
in living.
Most of us know whether other people are truly happy. What's odd,
however, is that we don't often try to practice the things that bring
happiness to others. Often, the happiness we're striving for is
really
a form of excitement____ trying to be continuously
stimulated so as
not to be bored or depressed.
Excitement does not create happiness. We find true happiness when
we
learn to serve others in right ways; that is, without demanding their
gratitude or some other recognition. We also find true happiness in
self-acceptance___ being generally satisfied with our lot in life
and
grateful for the self-improvement we've found. We find happiness, too,
in keeping occupied with useful activities that place demands on our
energies and abilities.
There is no such thing as a happy alcoholic who is still drinking.
There are also recovering people who have not yet found happiness.
But
the program unlocks the happiness, and we do have members whose
happiness is an example to others.
I can be happy one day at a time. I will make the choice to be happy
today, and to let tomorrow come in its own time. Nothing can
interfere
with today's happiness.
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Keep It Simple
I am the greatest.---Muhammad Ali
We need to believe in ourselves. we're sober. We're honest. We're
trustworthy. We're not making so many problems for other people anymore
We do our share. We can even help others sometimes.
We're glad that others help us. We thank our Higher Power every day.
But
we also give ourselves credit. We're working our program. We can
handle life as best we can. And as long as we ask our Higher Power to
work through us, we are the greatest.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, help me feel proud of the
changes in
my life.
Action for the Day: Today, I'll talk with my sponsor about pride.
What
is good pride? What
should I watch out for?
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Each Day a New Beginning
The rare and beautiful experiences of divine revelation are moments of
special gifts. Each of us, however, lives each day with special gifts
which are a part of our very being, and life is a process of
discovering and developing these God-given gifts within each one of
us. --Jeane Dixon
Have we discovered what our gifts are? We assuredly have them, and now
that we are abstinent we have opportunities, daily, to share them with
others. Sharing them knowingly will bring joy to us, but more than
that, we will grow in appreciation of ourselves. And we do need to
realize how very important we are to others.
Many of us came into this program nearly feet first. Most of us were
filled with rage, shame, or both. Life had dumped on us. We had
survived only minimally. The knowledge that we had something to offer
the human race was not ours, then. It may still be knowledge that
escapes us, from time to time. But we can learn to acknowledge it.
We have many talents that are ours alone to offer the world. Perhaps we
express ourselves adroitly; maybe we write particularly well. Listening
when it's most needed by a friend may be our finest talent today. We
might have gifts as a musician or a manager. Our inner self knows our
strengths. We can listen for that voice.
God is trying to get my attention today, to direct my energies to make
the most of my special talents. I will be aware.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 5 - HOW IT WORKS
Resentment is the “number one” offender. It destroys more alcoholics
than anything else. From it stem all forms of spiritual disease, for we
have been not only mentally and physically ill, we have been
spiritually sick. When the spiritual malady is overcome, we straighten
out mentally and physically. In dealing with resentments, we set them
on paper. We listed people, institutions or principle with who we were
angry. We asked ourselves why we were angry. In most cases it was found
that our self-esteem, our pocketbooks, our ambitions, our personal
relationships (including sex) were hurt or threatened. So we were sore.
We were “burned up.”
p. 64-65
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
ME AN ALCOHOLIC? -
Alcohol's wringer squeezed this author--but he escaped quite whole.
Of course I drank. Everybody
did in the set which I regarded as the apex of civilization. My
wife loved to drink, and we tied on many a hooter in the name of
marital bliss. My associates, and all the wits and literary
lights I so much admired, also drank. Evening cocktails were as
standard as morning coffee, and I suppose my average daily consumption
ran a little more or less than a pint. Even on my rare (at first)
binge nights, it never ran over a quart.
p. 383
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step
Eleven - "Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious
contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of
His will for us and the power to carry that out."
As the day goes on, we can pause where situations must be met and
decisions made, and renew the simple request: "Thy will, not mine, be
done." If at these points our emotional disturbance happens to be
great, we will more surely keep our balance, provided we remember, and
repeat to ourselves, a particular prayer or phrase that has appealed to
us in our reading or meditation. Just saying it over and over will
often enable us to clear a channel choked up with anger, fear,
frustration, or misunderstanding, and permit us to return to the surest
help of all--our search for God's will, not our own, in the moment of
stress. At these critical moments, if we remind ourselves that "it is
better to comfort than to be comforted, to understand than to be
understood, to love than to be loved," we will be following the intent
of Step Eleven.
pp. 102-103
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It's
easy
to
feel
grateful
when we receive a raise, meet
the love of our life
or watch our children succeed, but spiritual gratitude is not
circumstantial. It arises from a true knowing that God is our Source.
We can feel thankful for every day, even in the middle of life's
challenges.
--Mary Manin Morrissey
"Life Is A Challenge - Meet it!
Life Is A Song - Sing It!
Life Is A Dream - Realize It!
Life Is A Game - Play It!
Life Is Love - Enjoy It!" --
--Bhagawan Sri Sathya Sai Baba
God's love freely gives me, blessings, wonders, joys.
--SweetyZee
Money is not required to buy one necessity of the soul.
--Henry David Thoreau
Praise the young and they will flourish.
--Irish Proverb
"Action eradicates fear. No matter what you fear, positive,
self-affirming action can diminish or completely cancel that which you
are fearful of."
--Mark Victor Hansen
"All of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical
rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are
blooming outside our windows today."
--Dale Carnegie
"You had better live your best and act your best and think your best
today; for today is the sure preparation for tomorrow and all the other
tomorrows that follow."
--Harriet Martineau
My drunkalog can be summed up very simply . . . "Nothing went the way
I planned."
--unknown
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
WAR
"War is only a cowardly escape
from the problems of peace."
--Thomas Mann
Sometimes it is easier to attack than it is to discuss and seek
harmony. It
is easier to lash out, hurt, maim or destroy than it is to listen,
forgive,
understand and reconcile. Violence is so often the cowardly way out.
The sadness for our society is that war and violence are often presented
as manly or heroic. Our modern heroes so often carry weapons rather
than the olive branch. Surrender is seen as cowardice. Gentleness is
seen as weakness. The diplomat is seen as the schemer.
My recovery teaches me that nothing is gained by acts of violence,
whereas in the atmosphere of peace, God and man can be reconciled.
Give me the courage to surrender on a daily basis and bring harmony
into my world.
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"He
has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD
require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with
your God."
Micah 6:8
A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
Proverbs 15:1
"This is the day which the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in
it."
Psalms, 118:24
"For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against
principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of
this
age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places.
Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to
withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand."
Ephesians 6:12 -13
The steadfast love of the LORD is from everlasting to everlasting.
Psalm 103:17
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Daily Inspiration
It takes far less effort to concentrate on one
thought at a time and usually eliminates the confusion we often create
for ourselves. Lord, I pray for clarity of thought and the wisdom that
it brings.
When we become aware that we possess all the spiritual treasures
necessary for a productive and happy life, we will never want for
anything. Lord, You are a limitless source of abundance and love.
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NA Just For Today
"What About The Newcomer?"
"Each group has but one primary
purpose - to carry the message to the addict who still suffers."
Tradition Five
Our home group means a lot to us.
After all, where would we be without our favorite NA meeting? Our group
sometimes sponsors picnics or other activities. Often, home group
members get together to see a movie or go bowling. We have all made
good friendships through our home group, and we wouldn't trade that
warmth for the world.
But sometimes we must take inventory
of what our group is doing to fulfill its primary purpose—to carry the
message to the still-suffering addict. Sometimes when we go to our
meetings, we know almost everyone and get caught up in the laughter and
fun. But what about the newcomer? Have we remembered to reach out to
the new people who may be sitting by themselves, lonely and frightened?
Do we remember to welcome those visiting our group?
The love found in the rooms of
Narcotics Anonymous helps us recover from addiction. But once we have
gotten clean, we must remember to give to others what was so freely
given to us. We need to reach out to the addict who still suffers.
After all, "the newcomer is the most important person at any meeting."
Just for today: I'm grateful for the
warm fellowship I've found in my home group. I will reach out my hand
to the still-suffering addict, offering that same fellowship to others.
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
A person can grow only as much as his
horizon allows. --John Powell
Should you be a doctor or perhaps an
astronaut? Maybe being a writer or an athlete appeals to you. Dreaming
of what to be can be useful. It helps us set our goals and learn our
values. Also, using our imagination lets us "try on" a future role. We
learn about our life's direction through our dreams of where to go and
what to do.
Not all dreams are helpful, however.
Sometimes we daydream about other things when we really do need to
listen. Learning how to use our imagination to guide our plans for
growing up takes practice.
Imagining ourselves happy and brave
will help us feel both. Imagining ourselves as failures can be just as
powerful. Let's respect the power of the imagination and use it to form
good images of our future.
How can I build goodness and success
into my future today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
What if the interests of the self were
expanded to ... a God's eye view of the human scene ... accepting
failure as being as natural an occurrence as success in the stupendous
human drama... as little cause for worry and concern as having to play
the role of a loser in a summer theater performance. --Huston Smith
Detachment is a mature and wise way of
dealing with life experiences. It is sometimes difficult because it
challenges our maturity. How can we take failure lightly when we have
been taught all our lives to be winners and to accept every dare? How
can we stand back from a loved one who is anxious and in pain, still be
supportive, but not take charge as if it were our problem?
We can question some of our old ideas.
Maybe we were wrong to think we should always be Prince Charming who
rescues maidens in distress. Maybe our ideas about being winners have
been compulsions that stood in our way of having true friends.
As my perspective is changed, I will
get stronger in maintaining a healthy detachment
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
The rare and beautiful experiences of
divine revelation are moments of special gifts. Each of us, however,
lives each day with special gifts which are a part of our very being,
and life is a process of discovering and developing these God-given
gifts within each one of us. --Jeane Dixon
Have we discovered what our gifts are?
We assuredly have them, and now that we are abstinent we have
opportunities, daily, to share them with others. Sharing them knowingly
will bring joy to us, but more than that, we will grow in appreciation
of ourselves. And we do need to realize how very important we are to
others.
Many of us came into this program
nearly feet first. Most of us were filled with rage, shame, or both.
Life had dumped on us. We had survived only minimally. The knowledge
that we had something to offer the human race was not ours, then. It
may still be knowledge that escapes us, from time to time. But we can
learn to acknowledge it.
We have many talents that are ours
alone to offer the world. Perhaps we express ourselves adroitly; maybe
we write particularly well. Listening when it's most needed by a friend
may be our finest talent today. We might have gifts as a musician or a
manager. Our inner self knows our strengths. We can listen for that
voice.
God is trying to get my attention
today, to direct my energies to make the most of my special talents. I
will be aware.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Freedom from Compulsive Disorders
Thank you for keeping me straight
yesterday. Please help me stay straight today. -- paraphrased from
Alcoholics Anonymous
When I first began my recovery from
codependency, I was furious about having to begin another recovery
program. Seven years earlier, I had begun recovery from chemical
dependency. It didn't seem fair that one person should have to address
two major issues in one lifetime.
I've gotten over my anger. I've
learned that my recoveries aren't isolated from one another. Many of us
recovering from codependency and adult children issues are also
recovering from addictions: alcoholism, other drug dependency,
gambling, food, work, or sex addiction. Some of us are trying to stay
free of other compulsive disorders - ranging from caretaking to
compulsively feeling miserable, guilty, or ashamed.
An important part of codependency
recovery is staying clean and free of our compulsive or addictive
behaviors. Recovery is one big room we've entered called healthy living.
We can wave the white flag of
surrender to all our addictions. We can safely turn to a Power greater
than ourselves to relieve us of our compulsive behavior. We know that
now. Once we begin actively working a program of recovery, God will
relieve us of our addictions. Ask God each morning to help us stay free
of our addictions and compulsions. Thank God for helping us the day
before.
Today, God, help me pay attention to
all my recovery issues. Help me know that before I can work on the
finer points of my recovery, such as my relationships, I must be free
of addictive behaviors
Today I am letting a power greater
than myself remove all my fear. I am now free to look within for my
answers. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey to the Heart
Cherish Each Moment
Stop waiting for the one moment in
time that will change your life. Instead, cherish all the moments. A
desert cactus that blooms briefly only once a year does not consider
all the moments it is not in bloom wasted. It considers them necessary
and important. It knows the rest of the year, the rest of its life, it
is beautiful,too.
All the moments count. The quiet
moments. The moments of boredom and solitude. The moments of sharing.
The exciting moments of discovery. The moments of grandeur. The
agonizing moments when we feel sad, angry, and upset. Each moment in
time is equally important. Don’t wait and hope for the one thing, the
one person, the one event, that will change your life, plummet you into
the future and the life you desire. Instead remember that each moment
in time brings change, evolution, and transformation.
Most of us relish the magnificent
spiritual experiences, those tremendous discoveries, those important
times of change. But those moments don’t happen that often. The truth
is, each moment in time is a spiritual experience, an important time of
change. Cherish all your moments. Soon you will see the beauty and
power of each.
Let each moment have value. Let each
day of your life be the spiritual experience you seek. The power to
change and evolve lies within you. The life you desire is happening
right now. Your destiny is here.
Cherish all your moments. Embrace the
beauty and importance of each one.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Know when to say no
Saying no is another way of saying
when. For some of us, the hardest word in the language to speak is the
short, simple word no. Instead of saying no, we toil on. What will he
think if I say no? Mary won’t be my friend if I don’t do this. The
project won’t get done unless I do it. I’m not a team player when I say
no. A good Christian needs to sacrifice himself. Saying no is selfish.
And the list goes on. We abuse ourselves, take on more than we want,
and find ourselves bitter and resentful. And we’ve done it to ourselves.
Know your limits. Know when to say no.
There may be a few people who are offended by the limits that you set,
but usually those are the ones trying to control or manipulate you.
Some well-meaning colleagues may tell you that you’re being selfish,
but your ultimate responsibility is to yourself. That responsibility
includes knowing how and when to set limits.
Look at your schedule. Are you so
overloaded or booked that you can’t see when you could have any time
for fun, relaxing, or your own personal growth? It may be time for you
to start setting limits. Remember, you get to decide what’s best for
you.
Learn to say no and stand by your
choice.
God, help me to have the strength to
set reasonable limits for myself and to tell others when I cannot help
them. Help me learn to say no.
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Noticing Synchronicity
Interconnected Experiences
Things happen in our lives for a
reason, even if that reason is not clear to you right away.
When events appear to fit together
perfectly in our lives it may seem at first that they are random
occurrences, things that are the result of coincidence. These
synchronous happenings, though, are much more than that, for, if we
look at them more closely they can show us that the universe is
listening to us and gently communicating with us. Learning to pay
attention to and link the things that occur on a daily basis can be a
way for us to become more attuned to the fact that most everything
happens in our lives for a reason – even when that reason is not clear
right away.
When we realize that things often go
more smoothly than we can ever imagine, it allows us to take the time
to reflect on the patterns in our lives. Even events that might not at
first seem to be related to each other are indicators that the universe
is working with, not against, us. This idea of synchronicity, then,
means that we have to trust there is more to our lives than what we
experience on a physical level. We need to be willing to look more
closely at the bigger picture, accepting and having confidence in the
fact that there is more to our experiences than immediately meets the
eye. Being open to synchronicity also means that we have to understand
that our lives are filled with both positive and negative events. Once
we can recognize that one event is neither more desirable nor better
than the other – they all have an overall purpose in our lives -- then
we are truly ready to listen to the messages the universe gives us.
While we may not be able to see
everything in our lives as being synchronous, we can certainly use
hindsight to be more aware of how the universe guides us. This sense of
wonder at the mysteries of the universe and the interconnectedness
present in our lives will help us see our overall ways of being and
will in turn make it easier to work more consciously towards our
spiritual evolution. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
Many people pray as though to overcome
the will of a reluctant God, instead of taking hold of the willingness
of a loving God. In the late stages of our addiction, the will to
resist has fled. Yet when we admit complete defeat, and when we become
entirely ready to try the principles of The Program, our obsession
leaves us and we enter a new dimension — freedom under God as we
understood Him. Is my growth in The Program convincing me that God
alone can remove obsessions?
Today I Pray
May I pray not as a complaining child
to a stern father, as though “praying” must always mean “pleading,”
usually in moments of helpless desperation. May I pray, instead, for my
own willingness to reach out to Him, since He is ready at all times to
reach out to me. May I regard my Higher Power as a willing God.
Today I Will Remember
God is Willing.
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One More Day
. ..I was the breadwinner.
Only I didn’t WIN the bread,
I worked hard, and earned it …
– Elise Maclay
When poor health slightly alters the
way we live our lives, the adjustment is difficult but feasible. But
when poor health alters the way we live our lives and wrenches away
even our financial livelihood, the adjustment is far more difficult.
Sufferers of chronic medical
conditions often must discontinue working and may have to depend upon
loved ones or disability payments for income. It may take some time to
regain perspective, to realize that whether we are working or not, we
still have personal worth. What matters most is what kind of person we
are, not what job we do.
Life has handed me a portion I did
not choose and do not welcome, but I can choose my own response.
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Food For Thought
Food Is Not Enough
Food is fine, as far as it goes, but it doesn't go far enough. We need
our three meals a day, planned according to the requirements for
healthy nutrition, but we do not live by food alone.
We need close contacts with friends. We need to be involved in
productive work and stimulating activities. We need to serve in the
areas where we are best qualified. We need to use our God given talents
and abilities rather than sitting on them. Especially, we need the
spiritual qualities of faith, hope, and love.
In the past, we may have given up on "religion." Through the OA
program, we have found that our Higher Power did not give up on us. He
has led us to this plan of recovery and is offering each of us the
possibility of a richer, fuller life. God never intended us to be
satisfied with physical food and material things. He daily offers us
much more.
Fill my spirit, I pray.
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One Day At A Time
LIGHT
It's better to light a candle
then to curse the darkness.
Old Chinese Proverb
I have been living with this disease
of compulsive eating for as long as I can remember. I remember stealing
money out of my mother’s purse to buy sugar-filled soft drinks and
candy, and sneaking food out of the cupboard and trying to make it look
like nothing was missing. I hid food and ate in isolation, pretending
on the outside that nothing was wrong. But I carried this terrible
secret -- I lived to eat.
As my disease progressed, I acted out
in other compulsive ways, and surrounded myself with people who cared
nothing for my welfare. I kept running faster and faster, and eating
more and more, as my disease sucked all of the energy from my spirit. I
sank deeper into the darkness of despair and depression, cursing all
those I blamed for my unhappiness.
Through the grace of my Higher Power,
my life became so painful that I had to seek help outside of myself. I
found this program, and a candle was lit. While my recovery has been
rocky over the last 10 years, that candle of progress and hope
continues to light my way. No matter how bad things get now, I know
that I have my Higher Power and my program friends to lean on. The
wonderful people I have met through the program have saved my life, and
have shown me the path to peace and abstinence. While I don’t always
choose to follow that path perfectly, I continue to recover, and to
find everyday joys that make life worth living.
One day at a time . . .
I will keep the light of recovery
burning.
Suzanne
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
Resentment is the 'number one'
offender. It destroys more alcohlolics than anything else. From it stem
all forms of spiritual disease, for we have been not only mentally and
physically ill, we have been spiritually sick. - Pg. 64 - How It Works
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
You will be receiving many gifts from
people in the programs: gifts of help, time, energy, possibly money,
talents, and knowledge. You will never be able to pay them all back.
You are not obligated to pay them back. You are obligated to be of
service to others and give to them what is being so freely given to you
today.
I appreciate the generosity of others
and my only obligation comes in the future, to offer what gifts I can
to someone else in recovery.
Inner Cleansing
I am in a process of healing. I am
taking the time to allow my body to become clean and whole and as I do
that, my mind seems to heal, too. Thoughts arise, thoughts I have
blocked out during normal waking hours. They scare me, sometimes. Where
are they coming from. Me? But as I allow them to come forward a curious
thing happens. They become less threatening. They are, after all, just
thoughts. They only really have power when I fear them and push them
away. If I welcome them into the sun lit rooms of my mind, they sort of
spread out and relax. They are just fears. Anxieties. Parts of me I
don't want to know about. But today I understand that I cannot really
keep secrets from me. Today I let these thoughts have room to breathe
and as they do, a curious thing happens. They dissipate.
I awaken to my inner life
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
'Suit up, Show up, Sit up, Shut up'
is what we used to tell newcomers. We used to say this for darn good
reason. Drunk drunks and newly clean addicts shouldn't be running at
the mouth about recovery when they don't understand recovery.
Unfortunately 'Politically Correct' (or rather, 'Therapeutically
Correct') often hijacks our meetings. Do not be afraid to take our
meetings back.
In order to continue to help the
newcomer, I Suit up, Show up, Sit up, and Speak up!
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Work the program, not the problem.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I choose to think positive and
loving thoughts. I know that if I do this I will feel loving and
positive and create a positive and loving world for those around me.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I looked up 'Willing' in the
dictionary. It said: 'Cheerfully ready' - Cindy F.
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AA Thought for the Day
May 4
Choice
The fact is that most alcoholics, for
reasons yet obscure,
have lost the power of choice in drink.
Our so-called willpower becomes
practically nonexistent.
- Alcoholics Anonymous, p.24
Thought to Ponder . . .
Just for today, I choose not to drink.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
H O W = Honesty, Open-mindedness,
Willingness.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Inventory
"A business which takes no regular
inventory
usually goes broke.
Taking a commercial inventory is
a fact-finding and a fact-facing
process.
If the owner of the business is to be
successful,
he cannot fool himself about values.
We did exactly the same thing with our
lives.
We took stock honestly.
Being convinced that self,
manifested in various ways,
was what had defeated us,
we considered its common
manifestations."
Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 64
Thought to Consider . . .
In order to recover we have to uncover.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
WHO ME?
Willingness,Honesty,
Open-mindedness,Must Exist
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Peace
From "To Handle Sobriety:"
"The more I drank, the more I
fantasized everything....I lived in a dream world. A.A. led me gently
from this fantasizing
to embrace reality with open arms. And
I found it beautiful! For, at last, I was at peace with myself. And
with others.
And with God."
2001, AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics
Anonymous, page 559
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
They say love heals all, and I am
confident the future is bright."
San Diego, Calif., July 1992
"Bottom's Up,"
AA Grapevine
~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N' Twelve
Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"If we were to live, we had to be free
of anger. The grouch and the
brainstorm were not for us. They may
be the dubious luxury of normal
men, but for alcoholics these things
are poison."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
How It Works, pg. 66~
"...with us, to drink is to die."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
How It Works, pg. 66~
We shall want to speak with someone
who is experienced, who not only has stayed dry but has been able to
surmount
other serious difficulties.”
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
61
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Freedom to Choose
Looking back, we see that our freedom
to choose badly was not, after all, a very real freedom.
When we choose because we 'must,' this
was not a free choice, either. But it got us started in the right
direction.
When we choose because we 'ought to,'
we were really doing better. This time we were earning some freedom,
making ourselves ready for more.
But when, now and then, we could
gladly make right choices without rebellion, hold-out, or conflict,
then we had our first
view of what perfect freedom under
God's will could be like.
GRAPEVINE, MAY 1960
Prayer For The Day: Father in Heaven, Thank you for watching
over me as I slept through the night. Your hands of comfort and
strength held me as You watched over me. Father, I love You. You love
me so much and I am in awe of how amazing You truly are. As I begin my
day, I simply pray that you walk with me and lead me where you please.
May Your will be done this day. Amen.