"A.A.
REGENERATION"
Such is the paradox of A.A. regeneration: strength arising
out of complete defeat and weakness, the loss of one's old
life as a condition for finding a new one.
A.A. COMES OF AGE, p. 46
A thousand beatings by Barleycorn did not encourage me to
admit defeat. I believed it was my moral obligation to
conquer my "enemy-friend." At my first A.A. meeting I
was blessed with a feeling that it was all right to admit
defeat to a disease which had nothing to do with my
"moral fiber." I knew instinctively that I was in the
presence of a great love when I entered the doors of A.A.
With no effort on my part, I became aware that to love
myself was good and right, as God had intended. My feeling
set me free, where my thoughts had held me in bondage. I
am grateful.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
We have this choice every day of our lives. We can take the
path that leads to insanity and death. And remember, our
next drunk could be our last one. Or we can take the path
that leads to a reasonably happy and useful life. The choice
is ours each day of our lives. God grant that we take the
right path. Have I made my choice today?
Meditation For The Day
Your real work in life is to grow spiritually. To do this you
must follow the path of diligently seeking good. The hidden
spiritual wonders are revealed to those who diligently seek
this treasure. From one point to the next, you have to follow
the way of obedience to God's will until finally you reach
greater and greater spiritual heights. Work on the material
plane should be secondary to your real life's work. The
material things that you need most are those that help you
to attain the spiritual.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may keep growing spiritually. I pray that I
may make this my real life's work.
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As Bill Sees It
Whose Will?
p. 170
We have seen A.A.'s ask with much earnestness and faith for God's
explicit guidance
on matters ranging all the way from a shattering domestic or financial
crisis to a
minor personal fault, like tardiness. A man who tries to run his life
rigidly by this kind of
prayer, by this self-serving demand of God for replies, is a
particularly
disconcerting individual. To any questioning or criticism of his
actions, he instantly
proffers his reliance upon prayer for guidance in all matters great or
small.
He may have forgotten the possibility that his own wishful thinking and
the human
tendency to rationalize have distorted his so-called guidance. With the
best of
intentions, he tends to force his will into all sorts of situations and
problems with the
comfortable assurance that he is acting under God's specific direction.
12 & 12, pp. 103-104
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Walk In Dry Places
Open minded but concerned.
Responsibility
Open-mindedness is a quality that helps us attract new ideas for our
self-imporovement. Oddly, many of us though we were open-minded long
before we ever considered a 12 Step program.
We learned that what we considered open-mindedness was really
indifference based on self-justification. It follow that people who are
deep into selfish, compulsive behavior will appear to be open-minded
and even very tolerant. This attitude is really the result of a desire
to be accepted in spite of questionable behavior. It reflects no
concern for others.
In living the program, we seek to cultivate true open-mindedness. This
means being open to new ideas and opportunities, but also being
concerned about others and taking care not to harm them.
Today I'll be open to what people are thinking and saying. I will be
careful not to let my own prejudices keep me from viewpoints that will
help me and others.
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Keep It Simple
If you tell the truth, you don't need to remember anything.---Mark
Twain
One thing is a lot easier in life now is this---we can keep our story
straight! We are learning that there's one really good way to get along
with people. Keep It Simple. Just tell the truth.
It's hard to do at first. We might think, "If people see the real
me, what will happen?" We might be afraid of what will happen if we
don't lie or make excuses.
But telling the truth works! We find out we never did fool anyone
anyway!
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, make me honest.
Action for the Day: I'll list all the ways honesty will help me
in
recovery. I'll sign-up to
give a meeting on honesty.
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Each Day a New Beginning
There were deep secrets, hidden in my heart, never said for fear others
would scoff or sneer. At last I can reveal my sufferings, for the
strength I once felt in silence has lost all its power. --Deidra
Sarault
There is magic in sharing ourselves with someone else. We learn from
Steps Four and Five that what we thought were heinous acts are not
unusual. Our shameful acts are not unique, and this discovery is our
gift when we risk exposure.
Realizing how much we are like others gives us strength, and the
program paves the way for us to capture that strength whenever and
wherever we sense our need. Secrets block us from others and thus from
God too. The messages we need to hear, the guidance offered by God,
can't be received when we close ourselves off from the caring persons
in our lives. They are the carriers of God's message.
How freeing to know we share the same fears, the same worries. Offering
our story to someone else may be the very encouragement she needs at
this time. Each of us profits from the sharing of a story. We need to
recognize and celebrate our "sameness." When we share ourselves, we are
bonded. Bonding combines our strength.
Silence divides us. It diminishes our strength. Yet all the strength we
need awaits us. I will let someone else know me today.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 9 - The Family Afterward
But this does not mean that we disregard human health measures. God has
abundantly supplied this world with fine doctors, psychologists, and
practitioners of various kinds. Do not hesitated to take your health
problems to such persons. Most of them give freely of themselves, that
their fellows may enjoy sound minds and bodies. Try to remember that
though God has wrought miracles among us, we should never belittle a
good doctor or psychiatrist. Their services are often indispensable in
treating a newcomer and in following his case afterward.
p. 133
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
The Keys
Of The Kingdom
This
worldly lady helped to develop A.A. in Chicago and thus passed her keys
to many.
A.A. is not a plan
for recovery that can be finished and done with. It is a way of
life, and the challenge contained in its principles is great enough to
keep any human being striving for as long as he lives. We do not,
cannot, outgrow this plan. As arrested alcoholics, we must have a
program for living that allows for limitless expansion. Keeping
one foot in front of the other is essential for maintaining our
arrestment. Others may idle in a retrogressive groove without too
much danger, but retrogression can spell death for us. However,
this isn't as rough as it sounds, as we do become grateful for the
necessity that makes us toe the line, and we find that we are
compensated for a consistent effort by the countless dividends we
receive.
p.
275
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition Two
- "For our group purpose, there is but one ultimate authority - a
loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience."
"Although I asked Charlie for a little time to consider it, my own mind
was about made up. Racing back to Brooklyn on the subway, I had a
seeming flash of divine guidance. It was only a single sentence, but
most convincing. In fact, it came right out of the Bible - a voice kept
saying to me, `The laborer is worthy of his hire.' Arriving home, I
found Lois cooking as usual, while three drunks looked hungrily on from
the kitchen door. I drew her aside and told the glorious news. She
looked interested, but not as excited as I thought she should be.
p. 137
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"Praying
is asking God for help, meditating is listening for God's answer."
"Keep trying" is the rule that must be followed to become successful in
anything."
It isn't "me" and "you" anymore; it's "we" and "us." I get drunk. We
stay sober! It's a we program.....
"The way to develop the best that is in a man is by appreciation and
encouragement."
--Charles Schwab
As thou valuest thyself, others will esteem thee.
--Gaelic Proverb
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
PREJUDICE
"A great many people think they
are thinking when they are only
rearranging their prejudices."
--William James
An aspect of prejudice in my life is my refusal to listen. I tend to
stay
with my own thinking and I "shut off" people or ideas I do not want to
hear. The problem with this attitude is that it does not lead to
discussion, growth or change.
Spirituality is having the capacity to hear what others are saying, even
people you may not like or respect, and also being prepared to live
with and alongside confusion and "difference". Truth is a many-sided
diamond, and it cannot be comprehended from one viewpoint. I need to
remove my prejudices if I am ever to move towards an understanding
of God's truth.
I need to learn in my heart that there is that "image" of God in every
person I meet.
Teach me to listen so that I may hear, so that I may grow.
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For by
grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it
is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.
Ephesians 2:8-9
"So don't be afraid, little flock. For it gives your Father great
happiness to give you the Kingdom."
Luke 12:32
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Daily Inspiration
Trust yourself more than you trust the pressures of
society and the ways other people try to influence you. Lord,
strengthen me and continue to bless me with wisdom so that I can stand
firm on my beliefs and know that how I feel is very important to me.
It is not making a mistake, but repeating it that is cause for concern.
Lord, may I use my mistakes to guide me to better choices.
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NA Just For Today
A Sense Of Humor
"We find that when we lose
self-obsession, we are able to understand what it means to be happy,
joyous, and free."
Basic Text, p.103
The laughter in our meetings often
surprises the newcomer. As a group, we appreciate the healing that
healthy laughter brings. Even if we are deeply troubled, the joy that
often fills the meeting rooms allows us, for a time, to have some fun
with our recovery. Through humor, we can be temporarily relieved of our
obsession with self.
Life on life's terms is often anything
but funny. But if we can keep a sense of humor about us, things that
might overwhelm us can be made bearable. How often have we allowed
ourselves to be upset by incidents that, taken with a bit of humor, are
not all that intolerable? When we become annoyed with people and
events, a search for the humor in the situation can put things in a
brighter perspective. An ability to find humor in a difficult situation
is a gift to develop.
Just for today: I will look to find
the humor in adversity. When I make mistakes, I will find a way to
laugh at the humor of my imperfections.
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You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
Jealousy is cruel as the grave. --Song
of Solomon
Most bushes and small trees need
trimming every year. They have branches that hang out over the sidewalk
and get in people's way. Sometimes the branches grow so long and low to
the ground that the tree looks weighted down.
Jealousy is like an overgrown
branch--it weighs us down. It is one of those feelings all of us deal
with. We may be jealous of someone's looks or talent, or maybe even
their good luck. Like the overgrown branches, jealousy sticks out all
over and gets in other people's way as well as our own. It is a part of
us we need to keep cutting back.
If we are good gardeners, we will get
out the clippers. Seeing and talking about our jealousy is the best way
to start using those clippers. If we do this, our own leaves will be
healthier, and our blossoms will grow.
Is there someone I am jealous of? Can
I use my clippers today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
Although the world is full of
suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it. --Helen Keller
When a man looks at his life and at
the lives of others, it is clear that pain is part of life. We cannot
escape this tragic truth; our growth and our wholeness must include it
because our recovery stresses honesty. In our old way of living, we may
have been bitter. Many of us felt sorry for ourselves. Some of us
cursed God and wasted time in our self-centeredness, thinking life was
especially unfair to us. Life is not fair; it just is. It is left to us
to choose how we will respond.
People's responses to life inspire us.
We not only acknowledge the pain, but we see the heroic lives of others
around us. They met their limitations and went forward with a willing
spirit and faith. Today we can be grateful for the progress we have
made in overcoming our suffering. We have friends who give us the joy
of human contact. We have choices and possibilities where we never saw
them before. We have a growing self-respect as men.
I accept the reality of life, and I
will respond with faith in the choices I make today.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
One receives only that which is given.
The game of life is a game of boomerangs. Our thoughts, deeds and
words, return to us sooner or later, with astounding accuracy.
--Florence Scovel Shin
Each of us can attest to the truth of
this passage. During the difficult times, however, it is not uppermost
in our minds that "what goes around, comes around." It feels all too
easy to be justifiably resentful or to gossip, or to ignore another's
presence. And the repercussions are seldom immediate. They will come,
though.
Goodness is likewise repaid. Giving
love, attention, respect to the individuals who share our lives and to
the people who cross our paths by chance, will smooth our own passage
day by day. The effects of our goodness will often be felt quickly. A
smile elicits a smile. Kind thoughts bless us as well as the receiver.
Life events do come full circle.
With a bit of effort, I can smile at
someone today, even though I'm frowning inside. Both will be better for
it.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Making Life Easier
Life doesn't have to be hard.
Yes, there are times we need to
endure, struggle through, and rely on our survival skills. But we don't
have to make life, growth, recovery, change, or our day-to-day affairs
that hard all the time.
Having life be that hard is a remnant
of our martyrdom, a leftover from old ways of thinking, feeling, and
believing. We are worthy, even when life isn't that hard. Our value and
worth are not determined by how hard we struggle.
If we're making it that hard, we may
be making it harder than it needs to be, said one woman. Learn to let
things happen easily and naturally. Learn to let events, and our
participation in them, fall into place. It can be easy now. Easier than
it has been. We can go with the flow, take the world off our shoulders,
and let our Higher Power ease us into where we need to be.
Today, I will stop struggling so hard.
I will let go of my belief that life and recovery have to be hard. I
will replace it with a belief that I can walk this journey in ease and
peace. And sometimes, it can actually be fun.
I trust that I have all that I need in
every moment of this day. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Your Heart Will Guide You Through
If you feel confused, alone, unsure of
what to do next, go back to a place you can trust– your heart. In
matters of work, money, love, play, go back to your heart.
The issues that arise in your life can
be dealt with from the heart. You will be guided through gently,
safely, with love and truth, along the path that’s best for you. Are
you feeling upset? Do you wonder why things aren’t working out? Are you
unsure of the map, uncertain of the next step, wondering how to
untangle the mess of the past?
The answer isn’t in your head, it’s in
your heart. It’s not outside of you, although sometimes we receive
guidance from others. The answer you’re seeking, the guidance you’re
looking for needs to feel right to you. It needs to resonate with your
heart. Your heart is the center, the balance point for your emotions,
your intellect, and your soul. Your heart is safe.
Go back to your heart. It will always
lead you home.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Relax enough to face reality when life
twists and turns
Sometimes in life, no matter how
deeply we intend to make the best decisions possible for ourselves,
things happen. Marriages end, jobs turn sour, friends wane. For reasons
outside our control or understanding, the situation twists and turns
into something other than what we bargained for.
Have you been waiting for a situation
to revert to what it originally was–or what you hoped it would be when
you got in? Are you telling yourself that there’s something wrong with
you, when the reality is, the situation has changed into something
other than what you thought it was? Things often don’t go as smoothly
as we planned. Sometimes, we need to endure amd get through the rough
spots. But I’m talking about those grindingly difficult moments when
life suddenly twists on us.
These are the times we need to quit
torturing ourselves. Let go of what you thought would happen. If life
has twisted on you, don’t turn on yourself. Don’t try to make things be
the way they were. Come up to speed. Return to now. Let yourself accept
the new situation at hand.
The road isn’t always a straight
course. Sometimes, even a path with heart unexpectedly twists and turns.
God, help me relax and trust myself
enough to deal with reality, not my fantasy of what I hoped it would be.
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In God’s Care
Our immediate temptation will be to
ask for specific solutions to specific problems, and for the ability to
help other people as we have already thought they shoud be helped. In
that case, we are asking God to do it our way.
~~Bill W.
As much as we say we want God’s will
to be done, we often find ourselves asking God to do what we think is
best. Always, of course, with the best intentions. Who would not want a
sick friend to get well, a spouse to earn a raise in pay? And what
about our own needs? What’s the harm in a specific request? Surely we
all do this. But isn’t it a bit presumptuous of us to decide what is
best for ourselves or anyone else?
Love and compassion may motivate our
prayers, but only God knows what each or us needs to experience and
learn. If we insist on seeing things happen our way we’re not trusting
God’s plan for us. A loving God will see that our needs are supplied
without instructions from us.
Instead of asking for what I want, I
will pray to be open to God’s will.
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Day By Day
Doing the footwork
We often ask our Higher Power for
spiritual assets without recognizing the work we need to do to get
them. To grow strong, we must learn to carry burdens; to gain patience,
we must learn to handle stress; to follow God’s will, we must become
willing to let go. To be courageous, we must practice faith in the face
of fear; to be right, we must learn to admit wrongs; to be loved, we
must learn to be loving.
Our Higher Power gives us
opportunities to grow. The footwork is up to us.
Am I doing my part?
Higher Power, help me to recognize,
and do, my part in recovery.
Today I will do the footwork necessary
to…
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Just for Fun
Remembering Childhood Joys by Madisyn Taylor
Fun isn’t something that is given or
done to you, it is something that you allow yourself to experience.
As adults, we often get so caught up
in “grown up” business that we can forget how to have pure fun. This
isn’t the kind of fun that comes from doing a specific kind of activity
or being in a specific mood for fun. Rather, this is the fun born from
the state of pure being. You see this kind of fun in small children who
are so busy being fully present to their lives and in their own bodies
that the glow of fun radiates from them just because they are alive:
the delight that flashes across the eyes of a child who discovers that
water flows with the turn of the tap knob or the squeal of pleasure
from a young baby whose tongue is being tickled by cold ice cream; then
there’s the full, infectious laughter of a child watching the same hat
trick for the fiftieth time.
Back when we were children, this
experience of pure delight didn’t have to come from a heightened, heady
event in order for us to feel like our day had been made; and it can be
that way for us again - if we are willing to remember and reconnect
with that part of ourselves that knows how to be in the flow of fun.
You can begin this process by reminiscing on what was fun for you as a
child. Think about what caused you to giggle in delight or wriggle in
pleasure or burst into endless laughter that you couldn’t sit up
straight no matter how much you wanted to. Try to spend a few moments
with each memory, and really feel what it was like to be in those
experiences – allowing that feeling of pure fun to wash over you. It
lives, in you – that feeling. It can’t be bottled, manufactured, or
sold. You just have to call it back up in order to experience it again.
Pure fun happens when we are fully
engaged with ourselves and our world in each moment. It is the
spontaneous delight that bubbles out of us when we let go long enough
to bring it through; it is the experience of natural, organic pleasure
that springs up from our bellies, through our souls, up through our
faces, and down to our toes. We’ve naturally known how to have pure fun
since we were babies and the flicker of lights caused us to jump to
attention from the sheer enjoyment of being able to see. Approach your
life today with the knowledge that pure fun isn’t something that is
given or done to you; rather, it is something that you allow yourself
to experience. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Refection For The Day
The Program teaches us that only one
consideration should qualify our desire to completely disclose the
damage we’ve done. And that’s where a full revelation would seriously
harm the one to whom we’re making amends. Or, just as important, other
people. We can hardly unload a detailed account of extramarital
misadventures, for example, on the shoulders of an unsuspecting wife or
husband. When we recklessly make the burdens of others wavier, such
actions surely can’t lighten our own burden. Sometimes, in that sense,
“telling all” may be almost a self indulgence for us. So in making
amends, we should be tactful, sensible, considerate, and humble —
without being servile. As a child of God, do I stand on my feet and not
crawl before anyone?
Today I Pray
May God show me that self-hatred has
no role in making amends to others. Neither has the play-acting of
self-indulgence. I ask most humbly for His guidance as I strive to
maintain a mature balance in interpersonal relations, even in the most
casual or fragile ones.
Today I Will Remember
Making amends is mending.
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One More Day
We can either change the complexities
of life… or develop ways to enable us to cope more effectively.
– Herbert Benson
Our illnesses have brought many new
complexities into our lives, and our reactions may become much more
intense as time goes on — especially if we feel helpless or pity
ourselves.
All people have crises in their lives.
Our medical conditions don’t give us immunity from the normal problems,
pains, and disappointments that all of us must face. If anything, we
may have an advantage over people who have never had health problems;
we have learned some coping skills in dealing with our medical
conditions. Also, we have become more open to advice and support from
others. We can be proud of how far we’ve come; we can be optimistic of
how far we can go.
I will gladly exchange help and
support with my friends.
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Food for Thought
Taking Inventory
Blaming circumstances and other people
for our difficulties, including compulsive overeating, is
counterproductive. We cannot control external circumstances or other
people, but we can work on changing ourselves. In order to change, we
first need to be aware of the attitudes and characteristics, which get
us into trouble. If we overeat or have a tantrum when we do not get our
own way, then we need to learn how to function without demanding that
everything should go according to our personal schedule and preference.
We take inventory in Step Four and we
continue to take it in Step Ten. It is a valuable tool for our growth.
The amazing result is that as we recognize and begin to correct
personal defects, our relationships with others improve tremendously.
With a positive change in our attitude and behavior, there is a
corresponding change in the way other people respond to us.
Taking inventory involves recognizing
our good qualities as well as our weaknesses. In OA, we measure our
wealth not by what we have but by what we have given.
Teach me to give.
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One Day At A Time
KIND WORDS
“Kind words can be short and easy to
speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” Mother Teresa
How many times are we gifted with
newcomers to our meetings? They are so easy to see as they huddle in
the back of the room -- usually as close to the exit as possible. Their
oversized coat is a good giveaway, especially in July. Their eyes show
the fear and anxiety that we all felt. Sure, we made it, and so can
they.
I remember the elder who first said
those magical words to me -- those two simple words -- "Welcome Home."
The warmth and safety those words held were immense. I felt that my
body was huge, and I was embarrassed in a room full of people who
looked very similar to me…but my eyes could not see that. They were
filled with tears because of those two words. Welcome home. Whoever
that person was, I have two words for you, "Thank you.”
What can you do to make a newcomer
feel welcome to your meeting? Let us not forget that all-important
first hug. I remember mine; do you remember yours? It felt good, I'll
bet. So welcome the newcomer and let them know they are home.
One day at a time...
I will do my part to welcome the
newcomer into our fellowship.
~ Danny
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
Some day we hope that every alcoholic
who journeys will find a Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous at his
destination. - Pg. 162 - A Vision For You
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
One hour at a time leads to one day at
a time in our recovery program. Each hour is one of 24 building blocks
of each day of our sobriety and clean time.
My current building block is to raise
above fear and practice faith this hour.
Projection
Today, I understand that when I
project my feelings outward and see them as belonging to other people
and not to me, I postpone my own self-awareness. The only way I can
deal with difficult feelings is first to claim them as my own. Sitting
with anxiety, anger, rage and jealousy is not pleasant, but actually
experiencing my own feelings is the only way to get through them.
I own my feelings and am willing to
experience them.
- Tian Dayton PhD
'Self-forgiveness brings your mental
and emotional energy systems back into balance. That's all. No big
deal. It's not necessarily religious or spiritual, it's just good ol'
street sense - the missing link in intelligence that scientists are
looking for. Once you practice forgiving and releasing yourself, you'll
realize the benefits soon in the way you feel overall.'
- Doc Childre
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
Ramana Marhrshi talks about life's
journey and likens it to a train trip. He says that you can carry your
baggage on your head or set it on the floor beside you. Either way,
both you and your baggage arrive at your destination. This is because
the train carries your baggage, not you. If you prefer to carry your
burdens on your head, it doesn't change the destination, it simply
gives you a head ache.
I chose to let my Higher Power carry
my baggage and my burdens.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
You woke up this morning clean and
sober. That's your spiritual awakening.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
I trust that I have all that I need in
every moment of this day.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
A sober alcoholic is like a turtle on
a fence post - You know it had help. - Anon.
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AA Thought for the Day
June 19
Character Defects
If I drew a line between active
alcoholism on one side
and life as God wants me to live and
has equipped me to on the other,
then I'm somewhere in the middle,
striving toward the ideal.
If I allow my character defects to
rule my life again and forget the AA program,
forget where the power to change for
the better comes from,
I will, in the long run, inevitably
drink again.
- The Best of the Grapevine [Vol. 3],
p. 187
Thought to Ponder . . .
I am as sick as my secrets.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
A A = Aways Aware.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Progress
"Day by day, we try to move a little
toward God's perfection.
So we need not be consumed by maudlin
guilt
for failure to achieve His likeness
and image by Thursday next.
Progress is our aim,
and His perfection is the beacon,
light-years away,
that draws us on."
Bill W., Letter, 1966
1967AAWS, As Bill Sees It, p. 15
Thought to Consider . . .
There is no progress without change.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
G O D = Good Orderly Direction
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
It keeps getting better
>From "Getting Active:"
"After our first month's sobriety,
many of us notice a distinct difference. After three months, our minds
seem still clearer. And during our second year of recovery, the change
is striking. More mental energy seems available to us than ever
before."
Living Sober, page 16
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"Sobriety isn't a discrete list of
tasks that you do and then check off; it's a state of being that
pervades every aspect of your life."
Minneapolis, Minnesota, July 2008
"Lost in Translation,"
AA Grapevine
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"We feel that elimination of our
drinking is but a beginning. A much
more important demonstration of our
principles lies before us in our
respective homes, occupations and
affairs."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
There Is A Solution, pg. 19~
Humility...
Humility... is a perpetual quietness
of heart. It is to have no trouble. It is never to be fretted or vexed,
irritable or sore; to wonder at nothing that is done to me, to feel
nothing against. It is to have a blessed home in myself where I can go
in, shut the door, and kneel to my Higher Power in secret. Where I can
be at peace, as in a deep sea of calmness, when all around and about is
seeming trouble.
-- Inscription on Dr. Bob's desk . . .
"In a few seconds he was overwhelmed
by a conviction of the Presence
of God. It poured over and through him
with the certainty and
majesty of a great tide at flood. The
barriers he had built through
the years were swept away. He stood in
the Presence of Infinite
Power and Love. He had stepped from
bridge to shore. For the first
time, he lived in conscious
companionship with his Creator."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, We
Agnostics, pg. 56~
"At last I was released from the
bondage of my uniqueness."
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 450 (He Lived
Only to Drink)
"I insisted that few drunks could ever
get well on their own steam, but that in our groups we could do
together what we could not do separately."
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
152 (Tradition Five)
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
We have seen A.A.'s ask with much
earnestness and faith for God's explicit guidance on matters ranging
all the way from a shattering domestic or financial crisis to a minor
personal fault, like tardiness. A man who tries to run his life rigidly
by this kind of prayers, by this self-serving demand of God for
replies, is a particularly disconcerting individual. To any questioning
or criticism of his actions, he instantly proffers his reliance upon
prayer for guidance in all matters great or small.
He may have forgotten the possibility
that his own wishful thinking and the human tendency to rationalize
have distorted his so-called guidance. With the best of intentions, he
tends to force his will into all sorts of situations and problems with
the comfortable assurance that he is acting under God's specific
direction.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, remove my delusion of
uniqueness and allow me to humbly connect with my fellows.