"DEEP DOWN
WITHIN US"
We found the Great Reality deep down within us. In the last
analysis it is only there that He may be found. . . . search
diligently within yourself . . . With this attitude you
cannot fail. The consciousness of your belief is sure to come
to you.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 55
It was out of the depths of loneliness, depression and despair
that I sought the help of A.A. As I recovered and began to
face the emptiness and ruin of my life, I began to open myself
to the possibility of the healing that recovery offers through
the A.A. program. By coming to meetings, staying sober, and
taking the Steps, I had the opportunity to listen with
increasing attentiveness to the depths of my soul. Daily I
waited, in hope and gratitude, for that sure belief and
steadfast love I had longed for in my life. In this process,
I met my God, as I understand Him.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
We in A.A. have the privilege of living two lives in one
lifetime. One life of drunkenness, failure, and defeat. Then,
through A.A., another life of sobriety, peace of mind, and
usefulness. We who have recovered our sobriety are modern
miracles. And we're living on borrowed time. Some of us might
have been dead long ago. But we have been given another chance
to live. Do I owe a debt of gratitude to A.A. that I can never
repay as long as I live?
Meditation For The Day
Thinking about God in love and worship drives away evil. It is
the thought before that the hosts of evil flee. The thought of
a Power greater than yourself is the call for a life-line to
rescue you from temptation. The thought of God banishes
loneliness and dispels gloom. It summons help to conquer your
faults. Think of God as often as possible. Use the thought
prayerfully and purposefully. It will carry your thoughts away
from material things and toward the spiritual things that make
life worthwhile.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may think of God often. I pray that I may rest in
peace at the thought of His love and care.
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As Bill Sees It
Accepting
God's Gifts, p. 168
"Though many theologians hold that sudden spiritual experiences amount
to a special
distinction, if not a divine appointment of some sort, I question this
view. Every
human being, no matter what his attributes for good or evil, is a part
of the divine
spiritual economy. Therefore, each of us has his place, and I cannot
see that God
intends to exalt one another.
"So it is necessary for all of us to accept whatever positive gifts we
receive with a
deep humility, always bearing in mind that our negative attitudes were
first necessary
as a means of reducing us to such a state of that we would be ready for
a gift of the
positive ones via the conversion experience. Your own alcoholism and the
immense deflation that finally resulted are indeed the foundation upon
which your
spiritual experience rests."
Letter, 1964
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Walk In Dry Places
Is the Golden Rule Applicable?
Inventory
Some people say the Golden Rule is impractical or believe it can work
only if everybody begins following it at the same time.
We learn in 12 Step programs that the Golden Rule does work. We
start
by taking our own inventory, whether nor not others do. We make
amends
for our own wrongs, even when amends are not made to us. We think
rightly about others, no matter how they think about us.
>From time to time, we also receive a cosmic hint that the Golden
Rule
is far more than a mere human ideal expressed in an ancient time. It
really appears to be one way of stating a law of life. We should
treat
others as we want to be treated because, in time, this is how we will
be treated.
Nothing will help me more with my program today than to practice
the Golden Rule, even in the face of trying situations. This will
show
me, more than word ever can, that God is really in charge of my life.
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Keep It Simple
Each day provides its own
gifts. ---Ruth D. Freedman
Life is full of wonderful gifts. Recovery is life's greatest gift to
us.
If we're not excited about being sober, we need to check ourselves. Are
we keeping something secret? Is there a sadness we need to talk about?
Are we stuffing anger? These things eat away at our excitement for
life.
Many addicts never get the gift of recovery. Those of us in recovery
are
special. We've been given a new life. There will be hard times. But the
joy of getting a second chance will be stronger. Am I grateful that
I've
been given recovery?
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, help me see recovery as a gift.
I deserve this gift because
I'm human. Help me to always accept this gift.
Action for the Day: At the end of the day, I'll list three gifts
that this day has given
me.
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Each Day a New Beginning
. . . we could never learn to be brave and patient
if there were only joy in the world. --Helen Keller
We chase after joy, like a child after a firefly, being certain that in
joy all problems are solved, all questions are answered. Joy has its
rewards, and we deserve them. But life has more to teach us.
We need to learn patience; through patience we come to respect time and
its passage, and we are mellowed. We need to learn tolerance; through
tolerance our appreciation of another's individuality is nurtured. We
need to learn self-respect; self-respect prepares us to contribute more
freely to our experiences, and we find wholeness.
Life's travails are our opportunities for lasting, enriching joy. The
rough spots deepen our understandings. And these help us to bring joy
to the lives of the friends near and dear.
I need not turn my back on joy. But I will be glad for all life's
experiences. The panorama will sustain me more fully.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 9 - The Family Afterward
Everybody knows that those in bad health, and those who seldom play, do
not laugh much. So let each family play together or separately as much
as their circumstances warrant. We are sure God wants us to be happy,
joyous, and free. We cannot subscribe to the belief that his life is a
vale of tears, though it once was just that for many of us. But it is
clear that we made our own misery. God didn’t do it. Avoid then, the
deliberate manufacture of misery, but if trouble comes, cheerfully
capitalize it as an opportunity to demonstrate His omnipotence.
pp. 132-133
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
The Keys
Of The Kingdom
This
worldly lady helped to develop A.A. in Chicago and thus passed her keys
to many.
Shortly after I returned to Chicago, my doctor, encouraged by the
results of my contact with A.A., sent us two more of his alcoholic
patients. By the latter part of September 1939, we had a nucleus
of six and held out first official group meeting.
p.
274
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition Two
- "For our group purpose, there is but one ultimate authority - a
loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience."
When A.A. was only three years old, an event occurred demonstrating
this principle. One of the first members of A.A., entirely contrary to
his own desires, was obliged to conform to group opinion.
Here is the story in his words. "One day I was doing a Twelfth Step job
at a hospital in New York. The proprietor, Charlie, summoned me to his
office. `Bill,' he said, `I think it's a shame that you are financially
so hard up. All around you these drunks are getting well and making
money. But you're giving this work full time, and you're broke. It
isn't fair.' Charlie fished in his desk and came up with and old
financial statement. Handing it to me, he continued, `This shows the
kind of money the hospital used to make back in the 1920's. Thousands
of dollars a month. It should be doing just as well now, and it would -
if only you'd help me. so why don't you move your work in here? I'll
give you and office, a decent drawing account, and a very healthy slice
of the profits. Three years ago, when my head doctor, Silkworth, began
to tell me of the idea of helping drunks by spirituality, I thought it
was crackpot stuff, but I've changed my mind. some day this bunch of
ex-drunks of yours will fill Madison Square Garden, and I don't see why
you should starve meanwhile. What I propose is perfectly ethical. You
can become a lay therapist, and more successful than anybody in the
business.'
pp. 135-136
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When you come to the end of all the light you know, and it's time to
step into the darkness of the unknown, faith is knowing that one of
two things shall happen: Either you will be given something solid to
stand on or you will be taught to fly.
--Edward Teller
Take time each day to seek out stillness, to find that sacred spot. Let
your mind and soul be at ease. Don't grasp and grab for the magic and
miracles. When you reside in that place of stillness, the joy, miracles,
and magic you're seeking will find you.
--Melody Beattie
"Give what you have. To someone, it may be better than you dare to
think."
--Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
I only have to be what I am, no more, no less.
--Robbie Rocheford
Higher Power, help me to be open, flexible, and accepting in my
recovery.
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
SELF-LOVE
"Only a person who can live
with himself can enjoy the gift of
leisure."
--Henry Greber
As an addict I could not tolerate my own company for long. I was
forever telephoning somebody, going over to a friend's house, inviting
people in, creating an "occasion" so I did not have to think or, at
least,
think about myself. Being alone terrified me. I was terrified because I
would begin to think about what was happening in my life and I did not
want to face it.
Spirituality is reality. Some years ago I decided to encounter the
"real" me, painful but necessary. I began to develop an awareness of
who I am. Acceptance followed: I am an alcoholic.
Today I know me; today I like me; today I can love me - and this
awareness brings with it a knowledge of God, self and my neighbor.
Today I can be alone without feeling lonely.
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Children,
obey
your
parents
because
you
belong to the Lord, for this is
the right thing to do. "Honor your father and mother." This is the first
of the Ten Commandments that ends with a promise. And this is the
promise: If you honor your father and mother, "you will live a long
life, full of blessing." And now a word to you fathers. Don't make your
children angry by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with
the discipline and instruction approved by the Lord.
Ephesians 6:1-4
"Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I
will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My
righteous right hand."
Isaiah 41:10
The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,
goodness,
faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no
law.
Galatians 5:22, 23
"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were
called in one body; and be thankful."
Colossians 3:15
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Daily Inspiration
The best thing to let go of is your past. Lord, the
goodness of my past is part of whom I am now, but the rest only serves
to pull me away from You. Help me to keep my thoughts only on this
moment.
Imagine that you were paid for every kindness and charged for every
unkindness. Would you be rich or poor? Lord, I often pray for material
wealth. Let me not neglect my soul by now praying for the ability to
build my spiritual wealth also.
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NA Just For Today
Walls
"Reaching out is the beginning of the
struggle that will set us free. It will break down the walls that
imprison us."
Basic Text, p.80
Many of us came to NA emotionally
shattered. Years of using people and allowing them to use us had taken
their toll on our ability to trust anyone, ourselves included. But the
love and acceptance we found in Narcotics Anonymous encouraged us to
reach out and get close to others.
The longer we stayed clean, the more
we began to long for greater intimacy with our loved ones. We began
reaching out in deeper, more meaningful ways, even though we might get
hurt. Despite our fears of rejection, we decided to risk revealing
ourselves, our beliefs, and our needs. We decided to let down our
defensive walls.
The freedom we've found has been worth
the risk involved. We know there is still work to do before we will be
completely free of the barriers built by years of active addiction. But
by reaching out to other addicts and allowing them to reach out to us,
despite our human failings, we have come to know that we have a great
capacity for love and intimacy. When set free of their restraining
walls, our hearts hold great power.
Just for today: I will let down my
personal walls and reach out to others. I will allow my heart the
freedom to love and be loved.
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
You will jump to it someday. Then
you'll fly. You'll really fly. After that you'll quite simply, quite
calmly make your own stones, your own floor plan, your own sound.
--Anne Sexton
A young man sat beside a whispering
creek all day for years, never moving. The townsfolk who watched him
wondered whether he heard the gurgling creek sounds, or felt the sting
of insects, or saw the raccoons when they came at night to sip from the
cool, dark waters.
One day the young man rose and dashed
up the hill above the creek. There, using all the healing strength of
the stream which he had quietly absorbed over the years, he gathered
stones. He arranged them layer by layer to fit the plan he had thought
out by the creek, and feverishly he built his home. When done, he let
out a brassy, booming holler of joy. Imagine the townsfolk's surprise
when they turned their eyes to that lonely spot by the creek and saw a
huge castle of stone above the place where the young man once rested.
What plans can I make during my idle
hours today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
The loneliness each man feels is his
hunger for life itself.... It is the yearning that makes fulfillment
possible. --Ross Mooney
Many different journeys have been
taken by the men who finally entered this program in search of hope.
Most of us have known our own brand of desperation, but we have one
thing in common - the loneliness we felt. Some of us felt left out of
our families and other groups. We were appalled by what was happening
in our lives, alone with our secrets, as if no one truly knew us. Some
of us even romanticized our loneliness as a form of heroism.
As we gave up our controlling
behaviors, false pride over-competitiveness, and striving for power, we
made our weak spots and secrets more obvious. We became more accessible
to friends. As we count the blessings of recovery, high on our list is
that we are no longer lonely.
In part, what kept me going and led me
to this program was my hunger for life. I'm grateful for the friends
who truly know me now, and still accept me.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
Wisdom never kicks at the iron walls
it can't bring down. --Olive Schreiner
God grant us the serenity to accept
the things we cannot change. Many times--yesterday, last week, today,
and even tomorrow--we'll come face-to-face with a seemingly intolerable
situation. The compulsion to change the situation, to demand that
another person change the situation, is great. What a hard lesson it
is, to learn we can change only ourselves! The hidden gift in this
lesson is that as our activities change, often the intolerable
situations do, too.
Acceptance, after a time, smooths all
the ripples that discourage us. And it softens us. It nurtures wisdom.
It attracts joy and love from others. Ironically, we often try to force
changes that we think will "loosen" love and lessen struggle.
Acceptance can do what our willpower could never accomplish.
As we grow in wisdom, as we grow in
understanding, as we realize the promises of this program, we'll stand
ready, as women, to weather all our personal storms. Like the willow in
the wind, we'll bend rather than break. And we'll be able to help our
sisters become wise through our example.
My lessons are not easy. But they will
ease my way. Better days begin, today.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Surrender
Master the lessons of your present
circumstances.
We do not move forward by resisting
what is undesirable in our life today. We move forward, we grow, we
change by acceptance.
Avoidance is not the key; surrender
opens the door.
Listen to this truth: We are each in
our present circumstances for a reason. There is a lesson, a valuable
lesson that must be learned before we can move forward.
Something important is being worked
out in us, and in those around us. We may not be able to identify it
today; but we can know that it is important. We can know it is good.
Overcome not by force, overcome by
surrender. The battle is fought, and won, inside ourselves. We must go
through it until we learn, until we accept, until we become grateful,
until we are set free.
Today, I will be open to the lessons
of my present circumstances. I do not have to label, know, or
understand what I'm learning; I will see clearly in time. For today,
trust and gratitude are sufficient.
I am learning new ways to deal with
all that comes up in my life today. I am letting go of all negative
ways of dealing with stress and anxiety that are harmful to my mind and
my body. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Learn to Report Instead of Judge
There is a world of difference between
reporting and judging.
When you report, you merely say what
happened. I am going through this. I did this. She did that. I feel
this. But when you judge, attitudes and feelings are added on. I am
going through this; therefore I’m deficient. I did this; therefore I’m
wrong. She did that; therefore there’s something wrong with her. I feel
this; so I must be bad.
Reporting brings clarity and helps
move us forward. Report on what is happening in your life as often as
you like. But try not to judge. Judgment limits, confines, brings
condemnation down on others and ourselves. It says who you are, where
you are, what you are doing is wrong. That leaves little room to move,
and even less space for acceptance. Ir diminishes the freedom to grow
and evolve.
Reporting without judgment doesn’t
mean we approve of what’s going on or that we don’t have feelings about
the situation. Nor does it mean we have to tolerate whatever comes our
way. But when we can report without judgment, we can accept. And
acceptance sets us free. Acceptance is the place from which all growth
and change occurs.
When there is truth and acceptance
without fear of judgement, there is love. Create your own world of love.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Relax when things don’t go as you
planned
So, the boyfriend calls, says he’s
going hiking with his buddies for a week, cancels his date with you,
says he hopes you won’t be mad.
Or the bank calls and says you’re
overdrawn, and you don’t know how that can be. You’ve been trying to
carefully watch your deposits and checks. You’ve gone out of your way
not to mess up. This can’t be right.
What do you do when life seems to
force you to react? You can panic, become anxious, yell, and respond
with a counterattack. But that probably won’t solve the problem. And it
may turn things into a brawl.
Or you can calm down. Breathe deeply.
Tell yourself to relax. Say as little as possible, if that’s possible,
while you’re upset and disturbed. If a problem or disturbance that’s
not fair interrupts your life, try responding by saying “hmmm.” Then
calm down and decide what you need to do.
There’s a time to get upset, yell,
scream, and shout. But that time isn’t when you’re trying to sort out
problems. Before you take action, get centered, calm, and clear.
You will discover that when you’re
centered and calm, you’re more powerful than you think.
God, help me start sailing through
life with more ease by learning to relax and let life be.
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In God’s Care
One can survive anything these days
except death.
~~Oscar Wilde
Perhaps we remember the pain of
discovering that a loved one had betrayed our trust. The hurt and shame
might have felt unbearable. Maybe we suffered a devastating blow when a
dream of ours was lost forever. At the time, our pain may have consumed
and immobilized us. But it finally went away and we did survive.
We are survivors or we wouldn’t still
be on this journey. All of us have lived through some tragic and
overwhelming circumstances. At times we may have felt we were being
pushed to the edge of sanity. But we didn’t topple over. And we are
still on our journey of recovery. We can continue to find purpose in
every situation that claims us, with the knowledge that our Higher
Power will be there for us.
I will be able to handle even the most
difficult situation today with God’s help.
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A New Level of Mastery
Coming Full Circle by Madisyn Taylor
When we come full circle there is the
feeling that we have come to a familiar place but we are somehow
different.
Life is a circular journey through our
issues and processes, and this is why things that are technically new
often seem very familiar. It is also why, whenever we work to release a
habit, change a pattern, or overcome a fear, we often encounter that
issue one last time, even after we thought we had conquered it. Often,
when this happens, we feel defeated or frustrated that after all our
hard work we are still dealing with the same problem. However, the
reappearance of a pattern, habit, or fear, is often a sign that we have
come full circle, and that if we can maintain our resolve through one
last test, we will achieve a new level of mastery in our lives.
When we come full circle, there is
often the feeling that we have arrived in a familiar place, but that we
ourselves are somehow different. We know that we can handle challenges
that seemed insurmountable when we began our journey, and there is the
feeling that we might be ready to take on a new problem, or some new
aspect of the old problem. We feel empowered and courageous to have
taken on the challenge of stopping a pattern, releasing a habit, or
overcoming a fear, and to have succeeded. At times like these, we
deserve a moment of rest and self-congratulation before we move on to
the next challenge.
Coming full circle is like stepping
into a clearing where, for a moment, we can see where we came from and
where we are standing at the same time. Remembering that we will be
tested again is important, but it’s also important to pause and take a
look at the ground we’ve covered, honoring our courage, our
persistence, and our achievement. Then we can begin the next leg of our
circular journey with a fuller understanding of where we are coming
from. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
Readiness to take the full
consequences of our past acts, and to take responsibility for the
well-being of others at the same time, is the very spirit of Step Nine.
A casual apology, on the one hand, will rarely suffice in making amends
to one we have harmed; a true change of attitude, in contrast, can do
wonders to make up for past unkindness. If I’ve deprived anyone of any
material thing, I’ll acknowledge the debt and pay it as soon as I’m
able. Will I swallow my pride and make the first overtures toward
reconciliation?
Today I Pray
God show me the best ways to make
“direct amends.” Sometimes simply admitting my mistakes may make it up
to someone and unload my own simmering guilt. Other times restitution
may take some creative thought. May I be wholly aware that I cannot
take this Ninth Step unless I develop some caring, some real concern
about how others feel, along with changes in my behavior.
Today I Will Remember
First I care, then I apologize.
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One More Day
Variety is the mother of enjoyment.
– Benjamin Disraeli
Ideally, we anticipate awakening in
the morning, not sure what the day is going to bring, but looking
forward to it anyway. Sometimes this eagerness comes more easily, for
we have places to go and people to see. At other times, we’re unable to
recapture our previous joy. What took away our excitement for life?
What can we do to reclaim it?
Life does not end at retirement or
when the children move away or when our good health is diminished. It
just changes. We can develop some new interests and hobbies. We can
reexamine old attitudes and come up with new perspectives. Music
and-good fellowship with others can enrich our lives and strengthen us
to go on. We can turn to our spiritual natures, and we will know joy.
I am aware of the wonders and
opportunities around me. I will share the joy I find.
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Food For Thought
Conflicts
To be alive is to have conflicts. We find ourselves in disagreement
with other people and in conflict with ourselves. Often, the things we
want seem mutually exclusive, such as more money and more free time,
more food and fewer pounds.
Our Higher Power does not promise us freedom from conflict, at any
rate, not in this life. Like all growing organisms, we struggle with
opposing forces. Frequently, our overeating is an attempt to escape the
conflicts, which we should be facing. Sometimes we need to be more
self-assertive with those around us instead of futilely trying to
suppress justifiable indignation with food. There are times when we
need to fight for our legitimate requirements.
We cannot always resolve our internal conflicts without a long and
difficult battle. Time and maturity are often necessary before a
problem is seen in its proper perspective. Some problems we may expect
to wrestle with as long as we live. Having faith in the light, even
when we cannot see it, makes our darkness bearable.
Lighten our darkness, Lord.
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One Day At A Time
VICES AND VIRTUES
"It has been my experience that folks
who have no vices have very few virtues." Abraham Lincoln
In doing a tenth step daily, I am
faced with my character defects -- and yes, even vices. While I may not
be compulsively eating, I may over-indulge in any number of other
things like talking, whining, or frenetic busy-ness. I have been told
that in life I must learn to "take my foot off the gas." I have also
been told that I am "too intense" or just "too much." I guess this
means I am not moderate in all things (by a mile.)
This thought comforts me in all of
this: at least I am in the game. If someone asks for my opinion, he or
she will get it ~ straight from the heart or the hip, as they say. If
someone needs a favor, I am apt to be excessive in performing it. If
someone needs a friend, he or she often gets much more than a casual
acquaintance in me. In essence, my being "too much in general" has its
good side -- at least I am not asleep at the wheel. I am fully engaged
in life.
One day at a time...
I will not forget that my zest for
overindulging and overdoing-it-in-general has its counterpart in my
zest for goodness and service. I am alive and kicking. I will not hate
myself for being fully alive.
~ Q
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
In the early days of our drinking we
occasionally remained sober for a year or more, becoming serious
drinkers again later. Though you may yet be a potential alcoholic. We
think few, to whom this book will appeal, can stay dry anything like a
year. Some will be drunk the day after making their resolutions; most
of them within a few weeks. - Pg. 34 - More About Alcoholism
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
It is a good idea to take five minutes
to reflect on our situation while we go through the beginning stages of
abstinence. For many of us the battle is acute withdrawal, pain and
confusion. 'Taking five to revive' can be very important to our focus
on survival.
As I 'take five' give me the thoughts
necessary to carry me forward.
The Witness
Today, I will become aware of that
part of me that is separate and observes all that I say, do, think and
feel. I have a witness within me that can become a very useful part of
my life. Watching my behavior with a little bit of objectivity will
help me to see myself as I really am. I will look with a compassionate
eye. Just as I know it is not right to hurt others intentionally, it is
equally not right to hurt myself. I recognize the godlike nature within
me and others - we are all a part of the same Higher Power. By allowing
my mind to watch itself with no thought of controlling or
participating, I can learn a great deal about the way I work.
I am an uncritical observer of my own
inner workings.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
There will always be people who did
worse than you and always people who do better. You can use comparison
to prove anything you want: that you lack thus and such or that you are
better than so and so. We learn not to compare our selves and our
stories, but to identify.
I identify, I don't compare.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
No matter how much sobriety you have,
you will never rise above the level of human being.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
I am learning new ways to deal with
all that comes up in my life today. I am letting go of all negative
ways of dealing with stress and anxiety that are harmful to my mind and
my body.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I'm never going to forget about self,
but the Big Book tells me that I'm supposed to be of maximum service to
God and my fellows - I'm not even mentioned. And in that process, I'm
of maximum service when I'm focused on others; folding chairs, emptying
ashtrays, making coffee, a commitment at my home group. As it says:
'Our very lives as ex problem drinkers depends on our constant thought
of others.' What do they mean by that? They can't possibly mean that
we're supposed to constantly think of others. Could they? Who's going
to think about me? - Chris C.
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AA Thought for the Day
June 17
Changing
I am changing, and there are more like
me starting this process every day,
so AA must be changing.
Yet the process and direction in which
we are moving is the same.
The more it changes, the more it stays
the same. . .
This Fellowship is like a diamond
whose message flashes toward me
every time I hold it up to the light
and turn it around.
- Thank You For Sharing, p. 182
Thought to Ponder . . .
Times change, alcoholism doesn't.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
A A = Aways Awesome.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Neighbors
"Near you, alcoholics are dying
helplessly
like people on a sinking ship.
If you live in a large place, there
are hundreds.
High and low, rich and poor,
these are future fellows of Alcoholics
Anonymous.
Among them you will make lifelong
friends.
You will be bound to them with new and
wonderful ties,
for you will escape disaster together
and you will commence shoulder to
shoulder
your common journey.
Then you will know what it means to
give of yourself
that others may survive and rediscover
life.
You will learn the full meaning of
'Love they neighbor as thyself.' "
1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, pp.
152-3
Thought to Consider . . .
Let us always love the best in others -
and never fear their worst.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
B O G G L E = Bad Or Good, God Loves
Everyone
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Rescued From Shipwreck
From "There Is a Solution:"
"We are people who normally would not
mix.... We are like the passengers of a great liner the moment after
rescue from shipwreck when
camaraderie, joyousness and democracy pervade the vessel from steerage
to Captain's table. Unlike the feelings of the ship's passengers,
however, our joy in escape from disaster does not subside as we go our
individual ways....
"The tremendous fact for every one of
us is that we have discovered a common solution."
Alcoholics Anonymous, 3rd edition: 17
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"I am still arrogant, egocentric,
self-righteous, with no humility, even phony at times, but I'm trying
to be a better person and help my fellowman. Guess I'll never be a
saint, but whatever I am, I want to be sober and in AA."
July 1975
"One of Those Bad Cons Nobody Can
Reach,"
AA Grapevine
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"Though there is no way of proving it,
we believe that early in our
drinking careers most of us could have
stopped drinking. But the
difficulty is that few alcoholics have
enough desire to stop while
there is yet time."
Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
More About Alcoholism, pg. 32
"Once more: The alcoholic at certain
times has no effective mental
defense against the first drink.
Except in a few rare cases, neither
he nor any other human being can
provide such a defense. His defense
must come from a Higher Power."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
More About Alcoholism, pg. 43~
"This dream world has been replaced
by a great sense of purpose, accompanied by a growing consciousness of
the power of God in our lives."
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 130 (The
Family Afterward)
"At these critical moments, if we
remind ourselves that "it is better to comfort than to be comforted, to
understand than to be understood, to love than to be loved," we will be
following the intent of Step Eleven."
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
103 (Step Eleven)
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Though many theologians hold that
sudden spiritual experience amount to a special distinction, if not a
divine appointment of some sort, I question this view. Every human
being, no matter what his attributes for good or evil, is a part of the
divine spiritual economy. Therefore, each of us has his place, and I
cannot see that God intends to exalt one over another.
So it is necessary for all of us to
accept whatever positive gifts we receive with a deep humility, always
bearing in mind that our negative attitudes were first necessary as a
means of reducing us to such a state that we would be ready for a gift
of the positive ones via the conversion experience. Your own alcoholism
and the immense deflation that finally resulted are indeed the
foundation upon which your spiritual experience rests.
Prayer for the Day: Let me turn to my Higher Power throughout
my day today in order to come into regular contact with it.