MAKING A. A.
YOUR HIGHER POWER
". . . . . You can . . . make A. A. itself your 'higher power.'
Here's a very large group of people who have solved their
alcohol problem. . . . .many members . . . . have crossed the
threshold just this way. . . . .their faith broadened and
deepened. . . . transformed, they came to believe in a
Higher Power. . . . ."
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 27-28
No one was greater than I, at least in my eyes, when I was
drinking. Nevertheless, I couldn't smile at myself in the
mirror, so I came to A.A. where, with others, I heard talk
of a Higher Power. I couldn't accept the concept of a Higher
Power because I believed God was cruel and unloving. In
desperation I chose a table, a tree, then my A.A. group,
as my Higher Power. Time passed, my life improved, and I
began to wonder about this Higher Power. Gradually, with
patience, humility and a lot of questions, I came to believe
in God. Now my relationship with my Higher Power gives me
the strength to live a happy, sober life.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
In A.A. we have three things: fellowship, faith, and service.
Fellowship is wonderful, but its wonder lasts just so long.
Then some gossip, disillusionment, and boredom may come in.
Worry and fear come back at times and we find that fellowship
is not the whole story. Then we need faith. When we're alone,
with nobody to pat us on the back, we must turn to God for
help. Can I say "Thy will be done" - and mean it?
Meditation For The Day
There is beauty in a God-guided life. There is wonder in the
feeling of being led by God. Try to realize God's bounty and
goodness more and more. God is planning for you. Wonderful are
His ways - they are beyond your knowledge. But God's leading
will enter your consciousness more and more and bring you ever
more peace and joy. Your life is being planned and blessed by
God. You may count all material things as losses if they
prevent your winning your way to the consciousness of God's
guidance.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may earn the rewards of God's power and peace.
I pray that I may develop the feeling of being led by God.
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As Bill Sees It
Fear No Evil,
p. 166
Though we of A.A. find ourselves living in a world characterized by
destructive fears
as never before in history, we see great areas of faith, and tremendous
aspirations
toward justice and brotherhood. Yet no prophet can presume to say
whether the
world outcome will be blazing destruction or the beginning, under God's
intention, of
the brightest era yet known to mankind.
I am sure we A.A.'s will comprehend this scene. In microcosm, we have
experienced
this identical state of terrifying uncertainty, each in his own life.
In no sense pridefully,
we can say that we do not fear the world outcome, whichever course it
may take.
This is because we have been established to deeply feel and say, "We
shall fear no
evil--Thy will, not ours, be done."
Grapevine, January 1962
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Walk in Dry Places
Keeping Sobriety Rolling
Continuing to Follow
A child learning to ride a bicycle discovers that it only takes gentle
pedaling to keep the bike in motion. The more difficult task was
getting on the bike and maintaining a straight course in the right
direction.
Staying sober in AA seems to be the same kind of thing. It may take a
lot of effort and self-honesty to establish sobriety, but a routine of
simple steps can keep it going on a daily basis. For most people, daily
meditations and regular attendance at meetings are enough to maintain a
straight course in the right direction.
The danger comes when people become too lazy or careless to take even
these simple steps. Then, like a bike losing forward momentum, they can
wobble and fall.
Even at the point of wobbling, one can get a bike up to speed again and
gain stability. This is something to remember if we find our own
sobriety becoming wobbly.
Nothing can be so important today that it keeps me from doing the
simple things needed for continuous sobriety. I'll remember the bike.
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Keep It Simple
He who laughs, last.---Mary Pettibone Poole
It feels good to laugh again! Our disease took away our sense of humor.
Recovery gives it back. That's why there's so much laughter at our
meetings. By seeing the funny side of things, we ease up.
A person in treatment was talking about the Higher Power he had come to
believe in. The counselor asked, “Does God have a sense of humor?"
The group had fun talking about this idea for a while. The next day,
the
counselor came to work and found a note on her door. It read: “Of
course
God has a sense of humor. He made you, didn't He? Laughter helps us
heal.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, help me ease up today. Let me
see the funny side of things.
Action for the Day:
I'll let myself laugh today.
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Each Day a New Beginning
For many years I was so flexible I didn't know who I was, and now that
I'm discovering who I am, I think "OK, I know where I stand on that
issue. Now on to the next one." But I have to remind myself that all
issues are interrelated--no one is separate.
--Kathleen Casey Theisen
Today flows from yesterday, the day before, the day before that.
Tomorrow repeats the pattern. What we are given on any one day will
have its beginning in the past and its finale in the future. No
incident is isolated entirely; no issue is self-contained.
Maturity is being able to let go of outgrown attitudes, stifling
opinions, no matter how good and right they were at one time. Our egos
often get too attached to some of our opinions, and new ideas can't
filter in. Some will try to get our attention today. We are ready for
new growth. The choice not to hamper it is ours to make.
The opinions we held certain yesterday may not be adequate to the
problems of today. They need not be. They served us well. They are not
for naught.
Today's issues need today's fresh responses. I will be unafraid. Today
flows from yesterday, the day before, and the day before that. Tomorrow
follows suit.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 9 - The Family Afterward
We have been speaking to you of serious, sometimes tragic things. We
have been dealing with alcohol in its worst aspect. But we aren’t a
glum lot. If newcomers could see no joy or fun in our existence, they
wouldn’t want it. We absolutely insist on enjoying life. We try not to
indulge in cynicism over the state of the nations, nor do we carry the
world’s troubles on our shoulders. When we see a man sinking into the
mire that is alcoholism, we give him first aid and place what we have
at his disposal. For his sake, we do recount and almost relive the
horrors of our past. But those of us who have tried to shoulder the
entire burden and trouble of others find we are soon overcome by them.
p. 132
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
The Keys Of The Kingdom
This worldly lady helped to develop
A.A. in Chicago and thus passed her keys to many.
Nothing in their lives took precedence
over their response to a call for help from some alcoholic in
need. They would travel miles and stay up all night with someone
they had never laid eyes on before and think nothing of it. Far
from expecting praise for their deeds, they claimed the performance a
privilege and insisted that they invariably received more than they
gave. Extraordinary people!
p. 274
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition
Two - "For our group purpose, there is but one ultimate authority - a
loving God as He may express Himself in our group conscience."
Now comes the election. If the founder and his friends have served
well, they may - to their surprise - be reinstated for a time. If,
however, they have heavily resisted the rising tide of democracy, they
may be summarily beached. In either case, the group now has a so-called
rotating committee, very sharply limited in its authority. In no sense
whatever can its members govern or direct the group. They are servants.
Theirs is the sometimes thankless privilege of doing the group's
chores. Headed by the chairman, they look after public relations and
arrange meetings. Their treasurer, strictly accountable, takes money
from the hat that is passed, banks it, pays the rent and other bills,
and makes a regular report at business meetings. The secretary sees
that literature is on the table, looks after the phone-answering
service, answers the mail, and sends out notices of meetings. Such are
the simple services that enable the group to function. the committee
gives no spiritual advice, judges no one's conduct, issues no orders.
Every one of them may be promptly eliminated at the next election if
they try this. And so they make the belated discovery that they are
really servants, not senators. These are universal experiences. Thus
throughout A.A. does the group conscience decree the terms upon which
its leaders shall serve.
p. 134
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Adventure is not outside a man. It is within.
--David Grayson
"Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and
not giving it."
--William Arthur Ward
"When fate hands you a lemon, make lemonade."
--Dale Carnegie
Very little is needed to make a happy life. It is all within yourself,
in
your way of thinking.
--Marcus Aurelius
Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have
the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it
shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just
one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it."
--Groucho Marx
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
FEAR
"Nothing is so much to be feared
as fear. "
--Henry David Thoreau
Fear is a killer. It stops the God-given spirituality in our lives from
taking shape and making life enjoyable. Fear is connected with doubt -
doubt of self. Low self-esteem develops along with fear and in order
for confidence to develop, the fear must be faced, confronted and
talked about.
Fear is not going to go away because we wish it away or hope it sway
or even pray it away. Fear needs to be identified, located and seen for
what it is - or, as in most cases, what it isn't. Fear of people,
things,
tomorrow or life itself grows so long as we forge that we are creatures
of God. There is nothing that cannot be faced or overcome - as long as
we remain drug-free. God is on our side - but we need also to be on
our side. Fear is never stronger than our spirituality. We need to bring
our fear into the light; then it can be overcome.
I ask to stay in the light of sobriety, not the darkness of alcoholism.
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"The
Lord is gracious and full of compassion, slow to anger and great
in mercy."
Psalms 145:8
"He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, so that we might die
to sins and live for righteousness; by his wounds you have been
healed."
I Peter 2:24
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Daily Inspiration
Ask yourself if what you are spending your thoughts
and energy on will matter in a week, a month, or a year. Lord, help me
select my priorities wisely and use my time in ways that will make my
life and those around me better and happier.
The more cheer you give, the more that remains. Lord, may I show my
love for You through a happy face and may my presence be a joyful
experience to all that I encounter.
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NA Just For Today
Resistance To Change
"Many of us cling to our fears,
doubts, self-loathing, or hatred because there is a certain distorted
security in familiar pain. It seems safer to embrace what we know than
to let go of it for the unknown."
Basic Text, p.33
We have often heard it said that "when
the pain of remaining the same becomes greater than the pain of
changing, we will change" Our fear can keep us from growing, afraid to
end relationships, change careers, attend new meetings, begin new
friendships, or attempt anything out of the ordinary. We stay in
situations that are no longer working far longer than we have to simply
because what is familiar feels safer than the unknown. Any change
involves overcoming fear. "What if I'm alone forever?" we might think
if we consider leaving our lover. "What if I find out I'm incompetent?"
we may wonder when we contemplate changing careers. We may balk at
attending new meetings because we will have to reach out. Our minds
manufacture a hundred excuses for remaining right where we are, afraid
to try something new.
We find that most of our pain comes
not from change but from resistance to change. In NA, we learn that
change is how we move forward in our lives. New friends, new
relationships, new interests and challenges will replace the old. With
these new things in our lives, we find new joys and loves.
Just for today: I will release the
old, embrace the new, and grow.
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You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
Bad moments, like good ones, tend to
be grouped together. --Edna O'Brien
Once in a while, we have days when we
think the whole world is against us. A parent has reprimanded us, a
brother broke our new game, or the teacher at school disciplined the
whole class. We sometimes let our thoughts center on a cluster of bad
moments and forget the good moments of the day.
We shouldn't forget about the two
ducks we fed part of our sandwich to, the friend who made us laugh, or
the gym teacher who praised the whole class. Deciding to think about
these good moments can allow our spirits to rise and make the bad
moments fade away.
After all, if life were all good
moments, we would take them for granted. Let us accept the bad ones
gratefully, then, as opportunities to appreciate the good.
What good moments can I remember right
now?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
A father is a thousand schoolmasters.
--Louis Nizer
We carry our fathers within us in ways
we may not notice. When we do notice this in our thoughts and actions,
we can use this relationship as a source of strength. When we hear a
critical mental message saying we didn't perform well enough, is it a
father's voice? When we feel a sense of strength and peace, are we in
touch with our childhood knowledge of fatherly love? When we doubt our
ability to get along with any woman, are we relying on what we learned
in our childhood homes?
Perhaps we can recast our father-son
relationship in adult terms. Were our fathers too removed from our
lives for us to know them? Maybe we can see now that a father's love
was there but was overshadowed by the demands of survival or by a
misguided life. If we are forever seeking our fathers' approval, we may
need to find the ways in which they are truly human and imperfect like
us. Making peace with them - whether face to face or in the memory of a
relationship - empowers us with their strengths and grants us the
adulthood we deserve.
I will make peace with my father in my
mind, and his strength and that of his father will be a well-spring, in
my life.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
For many years I was so flexible I
didn't know who I was, and now that I'm discovering who I am, I think
"OK, I know where I stand on that issue. Now on to the next one." But I
have to remind myself that all issues are interrelated--no one is
separate.
--Kathleen Casey Theisen
Today flows from yesterday, the day
before, the day before that. Tomorrow repeats the pattern. What we are
given on any one day will have its beginning in the past and its finale
in the future. No incident is isolated entirely; no issue is
self-contained.
Maturity is being able to let go of
outgrown attitudes, stifling opinions, no matter how good and right
they were at one time. Our egos often get too attached to some of our
opinions, and new ideas can't filter in. Some will try to get our
attention today. We are ready for new growth. The choice not to hamper
it is ours to make.
The opinions we held certain yesterday
may not be adequate to the problems of today. They need not be. They
served us well. They are not for naught.
Today's issues need today's fresh
responses. I will be unafraid. Today flows from yesterday, the day
before, and the day before that. Tomorrow follows suit.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Competition Between Martyrs
"Yes, I know your spouse is an
alcoholic, but my son is an alcoholic, and that's different. That's
worse!"
My pain is greater than yours!
What an easy trap that can be for us.
We are out to show others how victimized we have been, how much we
hurt, how unfair life is, and what a tremendous martyr we are. And we
won't be happy until we do!
We don't need to prove our pain and
suffering to anyone. We know we have been in pain. We know we have
suffered. Most of us have been legitimately victimized. Many of us have
had difficult, painful lessons to learn.
The goal in recovery is not to show
others how much we hurt or have hurt. The goal is to stop our pain, and
to share that solution with others.
If someone begins trying to prove to
us how much he or she hurts, we can say simply, "It sounds like you've
been hurt." Maybe all that person is looking for is validation of his
or her pain.
If we find ourselves trying to prove
to someone how much we've been hurt or if we try to top someone else's
pain, we may want to stop and figure out what's going on. Do we need to
recognize how much we've hurt or are hurting?
There is no particular award or reward
for suffering, as many of us tricked ourselves into believing in the
height of our codependency. The reward is learning to stop the pain and
move into joy, peace, and fulfillment.
That is the gift of recovery, and it
is equally available to each of us, even if our pain was greater, or
less, than someone else's.
God, help me be grateful for all my
lessons, even the ones that caused me the most pain and suffering. Help
me learn what I need to learn, so I can stop the pain in my life. Help
me focus on the goal of recovery, rather than the pain that motivated
me into it.
It is exciting to know I am in charge
of my life today. God gives me all the faith and courage I need to be
present and aware in each moment and the wisdom to see what needs to be
done. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
It’s Okay to Not Know
Sometimes we don’t know what we want,
what’s next, or what we think our lives will look like down the road.
That’s okay. If the answer is I don’t know, then say it. Say it
clearly. And be at peace with not knowing.
Sometimes the reason we don’t know is
that what’s coming is going to be very different from anything we’ve
experienced before. Even if we knew, we couldn’t relax to it because
it’s that new and that different. It’s a surprise.
Sometimes the reason we don’t know is
that it would be too difficult, too confusing for us right now. It
would take us out of the present moment, cause us to worry and fuss
about how we could control it or what we have to do to make it happen.
Knowing would make us afraid. Put us on overload. Take us away from now.
Sometimes our souls know, but it’s
just not time for our conscious minds to know yet. Sometimes knowing
would take us out of the very experience we need to go through to
discover the answer we’re looking for. And sometimes the process of
learning to trust, the process of going through an experience and
coming to trust that we will ultimately discover our own truth, is more
important than knowing.
The process of moving from what we
don’t know to what we are to learn is a process that can be trusted.
It’s how we grow and change. It’s okay to not know. It’s okay to let
ourselves move into knowing. The lesson is trusting that we’ll know
when it’s time.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Live in harmony
When I began practicing aikido– a
martial art based on nonresistance and harmony– I discovered how much
resistance I still had. The more I tried to relax and practice, the
more resistance I experienced. I lived, moved, breathed, worked, lived,
and loved from a place that was not relaxed.
My immediate reaction to any feeling I
had was, “Oh no. I can’t feel that.”
My first reaction to any problem that
arose was, “No, this can’t be taking place.”
If someone disagreed with me, I
responded with an attack or by trying to force my will.
And if I had a task to do, I prepared
myself by getting tense and afraid.
One of the biggest challenges and
biggest rewards we can discover in our lives is to live in harmony with
ourselves and the people in our world. We do this by learning to tell
oursleves, “Just relax.”
From that relaxed place, which some
call surrender, we’ll tap into our true power. We’ll know how to deal
with our feelings. We’ll be guided into what to do next.
God, show me the areas of my life
where I’m in resistance. Help me let go and learn to consciously relax
as I go through my life.
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Day By Day
Being different
Some of us feel so different that we
think no person or group could help us or even understand us. We feel
alone and isolated. Whatever these differences are they can be lessened
by concentrating on the purpose common to us all: we are learning to
live a life free of alcohol or other drugs by connecting with a power
greater than ourselves.
Our Higher Power does not want us to
be alone. It would help if we would accept that we are all more alike
than defferent. It would help if we could recognize the love that is
available to us in our brothers and sisters. Are we looking for what we
have in common, or are we looking for ways to be alone and different?
Do I realize that our common purpose
can outweigh all differences?
Higher Power help me feel connected by
looking for what I share with my fellow members.
Today I will overlook all differences
or look for what we share in…
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In God’s Care
There is nothing the body suffers the
soul may not profit by.
~~George Meredith
Adversity comes in many forms, and it
is sure to come to everyone. This might seem unfair to those of us who
are recovering and trying to live our faith. But it helps us to know
there is some benefit in everything we experience.
God’s help is always available to us,
but sometimes it seems we seek God’s help only when we are in physical
or emotional pain. When we were in the grips of our addictions, we
thought nothing good could come from the suffering. Yet, it is common
to hear our friends in the program say how grateful they are for the
experience because it brought them to where they are now. God always
shows us the way out of adversity and makes it an occasion for growth –
if we are willing to listen to God.
Adversity that comes my way can be an
opportunity to learn.
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Giving Away Power
Repressing the Inner Voice by Madisyn Taylor
We can avoid giving away our power on
a daily basis by listening to our own voice of knowing.
In many ways, we are taught from the
time we are children to give away our power to others. When we were
told to kiss and hug relatives or friends of the family when we didn’t
want to, for example, we were learning to override our inner sense of
knowing and our right to determine for ourselves what we want to do.
This repression continued, most likely, in many experiences at school
and in situations at work. At this point, we may not even know how to
hold on to our power, because giving it away is so automatic and
ingrained.
To some degree, giving our energy to
other people is simply part of the social contract, and we feel that we
have to do it in order to survive. It is possible to exchange energy in
a way that preserves our inner integrity and stability. This begins in
a small way: by listening to the voice that continues to let us know
what we want, no matter how many times we override its messages.
Other examples of how we give away our
power are buying into trends, letting other people always make
decisions for us, not voting, and not voicing an opinion when an
inappropriate joke is made. But with not giving our power away we must
also be aware of the opposite side, which is standing in our power but
being aggressive. Being aggressive is a form of fear, and the remedy is
to let our inner balance come back into play.
As we build a relationship with our
power, and follow it, we begin to see that we don’t always have to do
what we’re being asked to do by others, and we don’t have to jump on
every trend. All we have to do is have the confidence to listen to our
own voice and let it guide us as we make our own decisions in life and
remember the necessity for balance. Published with permission from
Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
Learning how to live in peace,
partnership and brotherhood — with all men and women — is a fascinating
and often very moving adventure. But each of us in The Program has
found that we’re not able to make much headway in our new adventure of
living until we first take the time to make an accurate and unsparing
survey of the human wreckage we’ve left in our wake. Have I made a list
of all persons I have harmed, as Step Eight suggests, and become
willing to make amends to them all?
Today I Pray
May God give me the honesty I need,
not only to look inside myself and discover what is really there, but
to see the ways that my sick and irresponsible behavior has affected
those around me. May I understand that my addiction is not — as I used
to think — a loner’s disease, that, no matter how alone I felt, my lies
and fabrications spread our around me in widening circles of hurt.
Today I Will Remember
Lies spread to infinity.
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One More Day
Not the power to remember, but the
power to forget is a necessary condition for our existence.
– Sholem Asch
To live happily in a relationship we
can not repeatedly dredge up the past, using it as a brickbat to pound
another human being into submission. Yet we all have a tendency to do
just that. “I told you so,” and “You should have listened when I gave
you advice,” and “You were wrong” are phrases we may catch ourselves
uttering.
We can learn to give up that final
piece of control, that part which attempts to manipulate another human
being with guilt. We can’t change another human being. Our willingness
to forgive errors, large and small, will mark our own personal growth.
Forgiveness is in our own self-interest; we aren’t free until we
forgive.
Today, I will let go of one grudge. As
I grow in understanding, I will grow in forgiveness.
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Food For Thought
Our
Barometer
When we find
ourselves preoccupied with thoughts of food, we know that something is
wrong. Our obsession acts as a barometer, which measures emotional
pressure. If we are out of tune with our Higher Power, if doubt,
resentment, and egotism are taking over, then our disease symptoms
begin to surface. It is time to stop and take inventory.
The experiences,
which other compulsive overeaters share with us, give insight into our
own behavior. We gain a sharper awareness of our own defects and are
less prone to blame external circumstances for our hurts and
difficulties.
If we are becoming
obsessed with food again, or if we are rationalizing deviations from
our eating plan, we need to carefully examine our emotional and
spiritual life. Something is out of gear. Concentration on Steps Ten
and Eleven is especially important when compulsive thoughts and
behavior indicate that all is not well.
Make me sensitive
to the state of my emotional and spiritual health, I pray.
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One Day At A Time
PERFECTIONISM
"The wise man, the true friend the
finished character
we seek everywhere and only find in
fragments."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Like a spider, perfectionism builds
its web through every fiber of my life. My perfectionism leads me to a
host of other character defects. When I expect people to be perfect, I
can be plagued with self-absorption. When I think of myself as "better
than them," I practice being judgmental towards others ~ especially
when I see behaviors that I'd never do. It also leads to my defects of
self-criticism and self-loathing. I begin to hate myself for all the
things that I can't do perfectly. I'm afraid to try things for fear of
not doing them perfectly and looking like a failure.
Perfectionism leads me to
procrastination and sometimes paralysis. This obsession for my wanting
something to be just right -- or put in just the right place -- causes
all sorts of feelings that can overwhelm me. Mostly it's a fear of what
another might think of me if I owned this thing or put it in that
illogical place. I learned as a child that being perfect meant that I
was validated as a human; therefore my perfectionism is hard for me to
be willing to let God remove.
One day at a time...
I will become willing to let God
remove my defect of perfectionism. I will forgive myself and others for
not being perfect. I will focus on a person's best moment instead of
zeroing in on a person's defects.
~ Pam
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
Drinking isolates most homes from the
outside world. - Pg. 131 - The Family Afterwards
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Whether we choose a treatment
facility, are in a lock up ward, or are using a 12th step program to
begin recovery, we are embarking on the most challenging, but
rewarding, journey of our lives.
May I recognize that whatever doubts I
have now, will dissolve as I work my way toward recovery.
The Mystery
Today, I accept that part of myself
that will never be satisfied, and I comfort and tame it. There is a
place in me that knows it will never necessarily solve the eternal
questions of life: Who am I and where do I come from, and where do I go
when I die? At times, I can get depressed about that and feel that
there's no real point to life. But I am beginning to feel that to
accept and love this side of myself is what also gives life beauty and
meaning. Perhaps meaning is not knowing and understanding, but an
acceptance of mystery, an embracing of the unknown. After all, it is
that mystery that gives even the most ordinary circumstance an eternal
sort of glow - a sense of depth, a feeling that there is more.
I accept that I will never fully
understand - I embrace the mystery.
- Tian Dayton Phd
'The soul is restless and furious; it
wants to tear itself apart and cure itself of being human.'- Ugo Betti
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
In the ups and downs of life, remember
that the most productive ups and downs are getting up for a meeting and
down to the steps.
When I'm down, I take a Step and then
the Step takes me.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
If you come here and are done using,
you can't work the program bad enough; if you're not done using, you
can't work the program good enough.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
It is exciting to know I am in charge
of my life today. God gives me all the faith and courage I need to be
present and aware in each moment and the wisdom to see what needs to be
done.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I'd call him up and say; Norm, my
program ain't working.' He'd say, 'Yea, why don't you try ours.' -
Johnny H.
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AA Thought for the Day
June 15
Miracles
How can they rise out of such misery,
bad repute and hopelessness?
The practical answer is that since
these things have happened among us, they can happen with you.
Should you wish them above all else,
and be willing to make use of our experience,
we are sure they will come.
The age of miracles is still with us.
Our own recovery proves that!
- Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 153
Thought to Ponder . . .
Don't give up before the miracle
happens.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
E S H = Experience, Strength and Hope.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Foundation
"There is a direct linkage among
self-examination,
meditation, and prayer.
Taken separately, these practices can
bring
much relief and benefit.
But when they are logically related
and interwoven,
the result is an unshakable foundation
for life.
Now and then we may be granted a
glimpse of
that ultimate reality which is God's
kingdom.
And we will be comforted and assured
that our own destiny in that realm
will be secure
for so long as we try, however
falteringly,
to find and do the will of our own
Creator."
1952AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions, p. 98
Thought to Consider . . .
Prayer is asking a question.
Meditation is listening for the answer.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
A S A P = Always Say A Prayer
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Future
>From "Heard at Meetings":
"'It is wise to pray for the future,
but not to worry about it, because we can't live it until it becomes
the present. The depth
of our anxiety measures the distance
we are from God.' - Sydney, Australia"
1973 AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe, 30th
printing 2004, pg. 26
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"One day it will be left to the young
people now in our Fellowship to carry on the original spirit and
traditions of AA, even
though the buzz words and trends will
come and go. It will be up to us to teach newcomers how to maintain the
type of
sobriety that achieves the promises of
the Big Book and dispels some of the fables of recovery popular today.
It will be
up to us to help the newcomer from the
street dry out, shakes and pukes and all. We will be left to teach the
little things:
how to sit at the front, not the back
of the room, say hello to the new guy, wash coffee cups and ashtrays.
One day it will
be up to us to uphold the Traditions.
It will be up to us to keep it simple."
Bury St. Edmunds, England, September
1994
"We Who Are Next in Line,"
I Am Responsible: The Hand of AA
~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N' Twelve
Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"For the type of alcoholic who is able
and willing get well, little
charity, in the ordinary sense of the
word, is need or wanted. The men
who cry for money and shelter before
conquering alcohol, are on the
wrong track."
Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Working With Others, pg. 97
We know that while the alcoholic keeps
away from drink, as he may do
for months or years, he reacts much
like other men. We are equally
positive that once he takes any
alcohol whatever into his system,
something happens, both in the bodily
and mental sense, which makes
it virtually impossible for him to
stop. The experience of any
alcoholic will abundantly confirm
this."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
There Is A Solution, pg. 22~
And they have increasingly found a
peace of mind which can stand firm in the face of difficult
circumstances.
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
p. 104
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Though we of A.A. find ourselves
living in a world characterized by destructive fears as never before in
history, we see
great areas of faith, and tremendous
aspirations toward justice and brotherhood. Yet no prophet can presume
to say
whether the world outcome will be
blazing destruction or the beginning, under God's intention, of the
brightest era yet
known to mankind.
I am sure we A.A.'s will comprehend
this scene. In microcosm, we have experienced this identical state of
terrifying
uncertainty, each in his own life. In
no sense pridefully, we can say that we do not fear the world outcome,
whichever
course it may take. This is because we
have been enabled to deeply feel and say, 'We shall fear no evil--Thy
will, not
ours, be done.'
Prayer For The Day: May I go forth filled with the joy and
confidence of your Spirit; and may everything I do this day, in word or
deed, be done in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him
to God the Father. Amen.