GIVING UP CENTER STAGE,
p.202
For without some degree of humility, no alcoholic can stay sober at all.
. . Without it, they cannot live to much useful purpose, or, in
adversity, be able to summon the faith that can meet any emergency.
12 & 12, p.70
Why do I balk at the word "humility"? I am not humbling myself
toward other people, but toward God, as I understand Him.
Humbly means "to show submissive," and by being humble I
realize I am not the center of the universe. When I was drinking, I
was consumed by pride and self-centeredness. I felt the entire world
revolved around me, that I was master of my destiny. Humility
enables me to depend more on God to help me overcome obstacles, to
help me with my own imperfections, so that I may grow spiritually. I
must solve more difficult problems to increase my proficiency and, as
I encounter life's stumbling blocks, I must learn to overcome them
through God's help. Daily communion with God demonstrates my
humility and provides me with the realization that an entity more
powerful than I is willing to help me if I cease trying to play God
myself.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
Today is ours. Let us live today as we believe God wants us to
live. Each day will have a new pattern which we cannot foresee.
But we can open each day with a quiet period in which we say a little
prayer, asking God to help us through the day. Personal contact with
God, as we understand Him, will from day to day bring us nearer
to an understanding of His will for us. At the close of the day, we
offer Him thanks for another day of sobriety. A full, constructive
day has been lived and we are grateful. Am I asking God each day
for strength and thanking Him each night?
Meditation For The Day
If you believe that God's grace has saved you, then you must believe
that He is meaning to save you yet more and keep you in the way that
you should go. Even human rescuers would not save you from
drowning only to place you in other deep and dangerous waters.
Rather, they would place you on dry land, there to restore you.
God, who is your rescuer, would certainly do this and even more.
God will complete the task He sets out to do. He will not throw you
overboard, if you are depending on Him.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may trust God to keep me in the way. I pray that I may
rely on Him not to let me go.
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As Bill Sees It
The Spiritual Alibi, p. 193
Our first attempts at inventories are apt to prove very unrealistic. I
used to be a champ at unrealistic self-appraisal. On certain occasions,
I wanted to look only at the part of my life which seemed good. Then I
would greatly exaggerate whatever virtues I supposed I had attained.
Next I would congratulate myself on the grand job I was doing in A.A.
Naturally this generated a terrible hankering for still more
"accomplishments," and still more approval. I was falling straight
back into the pattern of my drinking days. Here were the same old
goals--power, fame, and applause. Besides, I had the best alibi
known--the spiritual alibi. The fact that I really did have a spiritual
objective made this utter nonsense seem perfectly right.
Grapevine, June 1961
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Walk In Dry Places
Pats on the back
Self-esteem
Recovery from a compulsive illness such as alcohoism often brings "pats
on the back." This praise is a welcome change from the criticism our
problems once raised.
We should accept such pats on the back graciously, but without taking
the personal credit this sort of praise implies. We can become addicted
to praise seeking, and we may even invite it as a way of building up
self-esteem.
Moreover, much of our challenge is still ahead of us. The real victory
may be in learning how to live after we've established our initial
freedom. We learn that all human beings must face issues such as
boredom and pain, which we tried to avoid with our drinking. We may get
few pats on the back for our success in this everyday living, but our
healthier lifestyle is reward enough.
If I receive praise today, I'll acknowledge it graciously, knowing that
such praise is not necessary for my well-being.
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Keep It Simple
Just because everything is different doesn't mean anything has
changed.---Irene Peter
Our life changed a lot when we stopped drinking and using other drugs.
But this is only a start. We need to go further.
Our old attitudes can kill us, even if we aren't drinking or drugging
any more. This is called a "dry drunk." If we're on a dry drunk, we've
changed the way we act without changing the way we think.
Our program shows us how to change the way we think. And we change how
we treat ourselves and others. We learn to live a new life based on
love and care.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, help me guard against my old
attitudes. Help me keep changing.
Action for the Day: I'll list four ways I've changed because I'm sober.
I'll list four ways I haven't changed yet.
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Each Day a New Beginning
... those interested in perpetuating present conditions are always in
tears about the marvelous past that is about to disappear, without
having so much as a smile for the young future. --Simone de
Beauvoir
Hanging on to any moment, once it's gone, deadens us to the joys and
lessons of the present. We must learn to let go, to let go of persons,
painful situations, and even meaningful experiences. Life goes on, and
the most fruitful lesson before us is to move with the vibrations, be
in tune with them.
Being open to the present is our only chance for growth. These
experiences today in our lives beckon us forward along the path meant
for us. We are not guaranteed only joy today. But we are promised
security. We may not be free of twinges of fear or confusion, but we
can learn to trust even in the midst of adversity. We can remember that
power greater than ourselves whenever and wherever our steps are
uncertain.
Dwelling, as we are wont to do, on our rebuffs, our rejections, invites
further criticism. But neither should we dwell on past joys. Attention
to now and to the persons here, now, is the only rightful response to
life. Not being here, now, invites others to turn away, just as we have
turned away.
I will celebrate the thrill of the present, squeeze the moments of
today, and trust the outcome to God.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 10 - To Employers
This is not to say that all alcoholics are honest and upright when not
drinking. Of course that isn’t so, and such people may often impose on
you. Seeing your attempt to understand and help, some men will try to
take advantage of your kindness. If you are sure your man does not want
to stop, he may as well be discharged, the sooner the better. You are
not doing him a favor by keeping him on. Firing such an individual may
prove a blessing to him. It may be just the jolt he needs. I know, in
my own particular case, that nothing my company could have done would
have stopped me for, so long as I was able to hold my position, I could
not possible realize how serious my situation was. Had they fired me
first, and had they then taken steps to see that I was presented with
the solution contained in this book, I might have returned to them six
months later, a well man.
p. 141
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
The Missing Link
He looked at everything as the
course of his unhappiness---except alcohol.
The next morning I went to see my therapist. I told him I'd
decided to quit therapy, because after eight years, it wasn't
working. But I decided to tell him how I had been searching
through my life for that missing link and had come up with only one
thing I had never told him: that I drank. He began adding
me questions---he asked about quantities, frequency, what I
drank. Before he was even halfway through, I broke down and began
sobbing, I cried, "Do you think I have problem with drinking?" He
replied, "I think that is quite obvious." I then asked, "Do you
think I'm an alcoholic?" He pulled a list of Alcoholics Anonymous
meetings out of his desk drawer; he had already highlighted the young
people's meetings.
pp. 284-285
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Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions
Tradition Four - "Each group should be
autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or A.A. as a whole."
When A.A.'s Traditions were first published, in 1946, we had become
sure that an A.A. group could stand almost any amount of battering. We
saw that the group, exactly like the individual, must eventually
conform to whatever tested principles would guarantee survival. We had
discovered that there was perfect safety in the process of trial and
error. So confident of this had we become that the original statement
of A.A. tradition carried this significant sentence: "Any two or three
alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A.
group provided that as a group they have no other affiliation."
pp. 146-147
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"It is a rough road that leads to the heights of greatness."
--Seneca
"If one asks for success and prepares for failure, he will get the
situation he has prepared for."
--Florence Shinn
Blessed are they that have not seen and yet have believed.
--American Proverb
Faith is a knowledge within the heart, beyond the reach of proof.
--Kahil Gibran
"When we surrender to God, we let go of our attachment to how
things happen on the outside, and we become more concerned with
what happens on the inside."
--Marianne Williamson
Change your thoughts and you change your world.
--Vincent Norman Peale
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
VIOLENCE
"Violence is counter-productive
and produces changes of a sort
you don't want. It is a very
dangerous instrument and can
destroy those who wield it."
--John Gardner
I believed I wasn't violent when I drank but that is not true; I
wasn't physically violent but I used emotional and mental violence. I
did not hit, fight or mutilate people with my hands, but I could tear a
person apart with my tongue. My sarcasm and criticism made people
cry, feel demoralized and useless. Violence always removes the
"dignity" from man -- and I did this with my mouth!
Today I try to practice tolerance and patience, I count to ten, and
when I do lose my temper and hurt a person unfairly or unnecessarily,
I apologize. In my sobriety the anger, hate and need to hurt is
slowly going. I am progressively getting better a day at a time.
Teacher, let me offer the hand of peace, not the fist of violence.
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"For by grace you have been saved through faith; and this is not your
own doing, it is the gift of God."
Ephesians 2:8
Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith.
1 Corinthians 16:13
"Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should
always pray and not give up..."
Luke 18:1
"Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be
filled with the Spirit."
Ephesians 5:18
"My soul is weary with sorrow; strengthen me according to your
word."
Psalm 119:28
"Turn my eyes away from worthless things; preserve my life
according to your word."
Psalm 119:37
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Daily Inspiration
Turn to God's love when you become doubtful or discouraged. Lord, Your
love for me is so great that with this knowledge I am able to face my
biggest challenges without stress.
Never forget that home is Heaven and life on earth is only temporary.
Lord, may I live with deep awareness of my spiritual nature and live a
life of truth.
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NA Just For Today
Patience
"We were trapped by our need for the
instant gratification that drugs gave us."
Basic Text, pp.24-25
"I want what I want, and I want it
now!" That's about as patient as most of us ever got in our active
addiction. The obsession and compulsion of our disease gave us a
"one-track" way of thinking; when we wanted something, that's all we
thought about. And the drugs we took taught us that instant
gratification was never more than a dose away. It's no wonder that most
of us came to Narcotics Anonymous with next to no patience.
The problem is, we can't always get
what we want whenever we want it. Some of our wishes are pure fantasy;
if we think about it, we'll realize we have no reason to believe those
wishes will be fulfilled in our lifetimes. We probably can't even
fulfill all our realistic desires; we certainly can't fulfill them all
at once. In order to acquire or achieve some things, we will have to
sacrifice others.
In our addiction we sought instant
gratification, squandering our resources. In recovery we must learn to
prioritize, sometimes denying the gratification of some desires in
order to fulfill more important long-term goals. To do so requires
patience. To find that patience, we practice our program of recovery,
seeking the kind of full-bodied spiritual awakening that will allow us
to live and enjoy life on life's terms.
Just for today: Higher Power, help me
discover what's most important in my life. Help me learn patience, so
that I can devote my resources to the important things.
pg. 202
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You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
We love the things we love for what
they are. --Robert Frost
Once there was a little girl who had a
stuffed frog named Jeremy. Jeremy went everywhere with the girl--to
imaginary picnics with her other dolls, to school, on trips, and, once,
even into the bathtub! Every night, Jeremy slept cradled in her arms.
Over time, Jeremy grew old and
tattered. He had lost an eye, and he limped because the girl used to
use one of his legs as a handle, and it had gotten crushed. His nose
was a little mangled too, from being dragged on the ground.
But the girl loved that frog, no
matter how bedraggled he looked. And he never did anything. He was just
always there. He was just Jeremy, and she loved him for that.
Today, that girl is a young woman and
has outgrown childish things. But in her bedroom, you'll still find
Jeremy, tattered and repaired, asleep on her bed. She still loves him
dearly, for what he is.
Who do I love, and why?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
If you keep on saying things are going
to be bad, you have a good chance of being a prophet. --Isaac Bashevis
Singer
Many of us have the habit of taking a
negative outlook on whatever comes along. We don't believe things will
work out for us; we don't think we will have a good day; we can't
accept our friends' warm feelings. To follow this gloomy path is a
strange distortion of faith - it is faith in the negative. Any
forecast, whether hopeful or pessimistic, is a step into the unknown.
So why do we choose the dark one?
We get a payoff for our pessimism,
which keeps us hooked. It creates misery, but serves our demand for
control. There is more risk in being open to something positive because
we cannot force positive things to occur. We can only be open to them
and believe in the possibility. But when we predict the negative and
expect only bad things, we squelch many good things or overlook them.
Then we say, "I knew it would be this way," and in our misery we
satisfy our self-centered craving to be in charge. When we surrender
our need to be in control, we are more open and welcoming of the good
things that come our way.
Today. I will be open to the good that
is around me.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
... those interested in perpetuating
present conditions are always in tears about the marvelous past that is
about to disappear, without having so much as a smile for the young
future. --Simone de Beauvoir
Hanging on to any moment, once it's
gone, deadens us to the joys and lessons of the present. We must learn
to let go, to let go of persons, painful situations, and even
meaningful experiences. Life goes on, and the most fruitful lesson
before us is to move with the vibrations, be in tune with them.
Being open to the present is our only
chance for growth. These experiences today in our lives beckon us
forward along the path meant for us. We are not guaranteed only joy
today. But we are promised security. We may not be free of twinges of
fear or confusion, but we can learn to trust even in the midst of
adversity. We can remember that power greater than ourselves whenever
and wherever our steps are uncertain.
Dwelling, as we are wont to do, on our
rebuffs, our rejections, invites further criticism. But neither should
we dwell on past joys. Attention to now and to the persons here, now,
is the only rightful response to life. Not being here, now, invites
others to turn away, just as we have turned away.
I will celebrate the thrill of the
present, squeeze the moments of today, and trust the outcome to God.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Letting Go of Fear of Abandonment
"Where are you, God? Where did you go?"
So many people have gone away. We may
have felt so alone so much. In the midst of our struggles and lessons,
we may wonder if God has gone away too.
There are wondrous days when we feel
God's protection and presence, leading and guiding each step and event.
There are gray, dry days of spiritual barrenness when we wonder if
anything in our life is guided or planned. Wondering if God knows or
cares.
Seek quiet times on the gray days.
Force discipline and obedience until the answer comes, because it will.
"I have not gone away child. I am
here, always. Rest in me, in confidence. All in your life is being
guided and planned, each detail. I know, and I care. Things are being
worked out as quickly as possible for your highest good. Trust and be
grateful. I am right here. Soon you will see, and know."
Today, I will remember that God has
not abandoned me. I can trust that God is leading, guiding, directing,
and planning in love each detail of my life.
I am at choice today. I accept
responsibility of my life with a new sense of maturity, confidence and
even excitement. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Let the Universe Lead the Way
Feel and see how the life force, the
heartbeat of the universe, leads you on, guides you, takes you on the
way. Yes, there are times when we need to march forward, muster up our
willpower, and grind through the motions. But those times are
transitory. And that’s not the magical way we’re living now. Even when
we stop, doubt, wonder, get tired and confused, the universe is there
to revitalize us, move us along our path and lead the way.
If you’re tired, rest. If you’re
sad,cry. If you’re thirsty, take a long cold drink of water. If you
feel hopeless, feel that. But know it’s just for the moment. If you
feel confused, feel that. Feel it until clarity, desire, hope, and
meaning break through. You don’t have to trudge through on willpower,
not any longer. You do not have to push your way through.
Rest until you feel healed, then
gently go forward. Let the universe assist you. Open your eyes, the
eyes of your soul, and see where to go. Feel where to go. Sense what to
do next. See how the magical power of the universe carries you along,
even when you get tired, even when you get confused. You are connected–
to yourself, to the universal force, to God.
Quiet the chatter of your mind. Renew
your body. Replenish your soul. Take in all the healing energy of the
world around you.
Then let the universe lead the way.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Honor your emotions
Inside me is a wheel, constantly
turning from sadness to joy, from exultation to depression, from
happiness to melancholy. Like the flowers, today’s full bloom of joy
will fade and wither into despondency, yet I will remember that as
today’s dead flower carries the seal of tomorrow’s bloom, so, too, does
today’s sadness carry the seed of tomorrow’s joy.
–Og Mandino, The Greatest Salesman in
the World
Honor your emotions, they are an
important part of you. They hold your connection to love, passion, joy,
healing, and intuition.
Not having emotions would make us cold
robots. Emotions are part of the glory of being human, and they’re our
connection to our hearts.
Respect and treasure your emotional
self. Learn to cherish your variety of emotions.
God, help me become the passionate,
vibrant human being you created me to be. Help me feel all my emotions,
and embrace the glory of being alive.
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In God’s Care
The man who views the world at fifty
the same as he did at twenty has wasted thirty years of his life.
~~Muhammad Ali
We can be changed, sometimes
profoundly, by seemingly insignificant events – provided we are willing
to be touched by them and the people involved. How we thought and what
we dreamed for in our youth was fitting for that time and place. But
those thoughts and dreams may be too small for us today. Now, each
moment calls for new dreams, shaped daily by the events and people we
open ourselves to.
We’re most fully alive when we’re
learning, changing, and growing. Not a moment passes that isn’t rich
with possibilities for insights and growth. Each encounter with people
who cross our path offers us the chance for a deeper connection with
our Higher Power. When we become entrapped by rigid attitudes, our
spirit withers. God has given us life as a gift that wee must open.
It’s never too late to begin the clebration.
I will think of my life as
celebration today, with me and the people around me as God’s guests of
honor.
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Day By Day
Knowing our Higher Power
A good understanding of our Higher
Power may be necessary for some of us, but we don’t need to get stuck
on any image. All we have to do is become willing to believe that a
power greater than ourselves will help us get clean and sober.
Electricity works the same after a
course in electronics as it did before the course. Like-wise, our
Higher Power works the same for us before we understand how it
operates. It gets down to this simple idea: It’s less important that we
understand God than believe God understands us.
Do I have faith in my Higher Power?
Higher Power, help me accept the fact
that understanding your ways is less important than believing you are
present in my life today.
I will apply my faith in my Higher
Power today by…
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Food for Thought
Growing Up
There is no magic. Nothing – be it
person, place, or thing – is going to give us instant and permanent
gratification. We keep thinking in the back of our mind that there is
some way we can manipulate life into granting us all of our desires,
even when they contradict each other.
When we seriously and with honest
effort work our way through the Twelve Steps, we begin to grow up
emotionally and spiritually. Abstinence from compulsive overeating
makes this growth possible. It is not easy, but it is definitely worth
the effort.
Acceptance and renunciation are
necessary if we are to live with satisfaction in the real world.
Grandiose illusions are of no help. We come to understand that certain
foods, emotions, and attitudes are not for us if we are to maintain our
sanity.
There is no magic, but there is a
Power greater than ourselves. Who is directing our growth.
Grant me the willingness to grow up.
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The Reciprocal Flow of Abundance
Giving without Expectations by Madisyn Taylor
It is in the act of giving that we
find joy, without the expectation of anything in return.
Since giving and receiving are so
intimately intertwined in our lives, we often expect that we can
attract abundance by simply conducting ourselves in an openhanded
fashion. Yet we find ourselves wallowing in disappointment when our
ample generosity is not met with the expected results. The answer to
this quandary lies in the expectations that, in part, initially
prompted us to give. Though our intention is likely pure, we can
unintentionally mar the beautiful experience of giving by focusing on
what we will eventually receive in return. When we let go of the notion
that we deserve to receive gifts based on giving gifts, bounty can once
again flow freely in and out of our lives.
When the gifts you give are laden down
with expectations, they cease to be gifts and become units of exchange
that you are, in effect, trading for some reward. Thus, the reciprocal
laws of the universe err on the side of the giver who shares for the
sake of sharing. You may have seen this simple truth at work in your
own experience, perhaps when life’s busyness prevented you from
spending too much time contemplating the results your charitable
actions would ultimately have on the lives of others. It was likely
then that you received the greatest gifts in return for your kindness.
If you have trouble divesting yourself of your expectations, you may
need to reflect upon the root of your inability to act in the true
spirit of giving. Each time you make a gift, whether spiritual or
tangible, ask yourself if there is something you hope to receive in
return. You may be surprised to discover that you expect to be repaid
with an easy life, financial windfalls, or opportunities.
To integrate this most selfless form
of generosity into your life, you will have to let go of your need to
be in control. Accepting that while like inevitably attracts like, it
typically does so on an unobservable timetable. This can help you stop
weighing the gifts you give against those you have received. Giving
eventually becomes a profound joy that stands alone, separate from any
and all conditions, and you will learn to appreciate the flow of
reciprocal abundance as a gift in and of itself. Published with
permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
In many aspects the Fellowship of The
Program is like a reasonably happy cruise ship or, in time of trouble,
like a convoy. But in the long run each of us must chart his or her own
course through life. When the seas are smooth, we may become careless.
By neglecting Step Ten, we may get out of the habit of checking our
position. If we’re mindful of Step Ten, however, then we rarely go so
far wrong that we can’t make a few corrections and get back on course
again. Do I realize that regular practice of Step Ten can help me
determine what other step is indicated to bring me into a happier frame
of mind and into serenity?
Today I Pray
May step Ten be a sextant by which I
read my whereabouts at sea, so that I can correct my course, re chart
it if I am heading for shallow places. May I keep in mind that, if it
weren’t for an all-knowing Captain, and the vigilance of my fellow crew
members, this ship could be adrift and I could easily panic.
Today I Will Remember
To steer by a steady star.
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One More Day
There is a certain state of health
that does not allow us to understand everything; and perhaps illness
shuts us off from certain truths; but health shuts us off just as
effectively from others.
– Andre Gide
When we were healthy, it was hard
imagining what someone in poor health was going through. We could
sympathize — even empathize — but we were insulated from the reality
because we had no personal experience with illness.
Now, our diminished health allows us
to put ourselves in someone else’s shoes. Many of our friends and
family don’t always know how to act toward us or what to say. They’re
the ones who may be uneasy about facing our world. We can help them
because we know what they are experiencing.
I will be compassionate to my loved
ones as they strive to help and understand.
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One Day At A Time
APATHY
“The world is a dangerous place to
live;
not because of the people who are evil,
but because of the people who don't do
anything about it.”
Albert Einstein
In my life as an addict, I found
myself deteriorating in every way possible. I was spiritually hungry,
emotionally bereft, and physically a mess. I stopped caring about
people, places or things. I was apathetic to such a degree that I no
longer cared about anything.
That gradually changed when I embraced
the Twelve Steps. I began to open my eyes to the world around me ~ the
world I had shut out. The more I worked the Steps, the more I saw the
reality of things. I became less selfish and began to try to make a
difference -- not only in my own life, but also in the lives of those I
cared about. I found myself loving more. I found I was once again
capable of having compassion.
I am no longer afraid to speak out
when I see misdeeds. I don't cower before those who would do harm to
others. I embrace the good and the bad in this world I call home.
One day at a time...
I will do my part in making the world
a better place. I will listen and hear what my Higher Power has in mind
for me.
~ Mari
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
When working with a man and his
family, you should take care not to participate in their quarrels. You
may spoil your chance of being helpful if you do. But urge upon a man's
family that he has been a very sick person and should be treated
accordingly. You should warn against arousing resentment or jealousy.
You should point out that his defects or character are not going to
disappear over night. Show them that he has entered upon a period of
growth. Ask them to remember, when they are impatient, the blessed fact
of his sobriety. - Pg. 100 - Working With Others
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
The world is not consistent, you are
not consistent, and those around you will not always be consistent. We
don't have to be. We only have to remember not to use mind-affecting
chemicals right now and our world will improve.
When inconsistency scares or annoys
me, let me understand that to remain always constant would be like a
plastic plant, never to grow and change!
Inner Hearing, Inner Sight
Today, I will trust my own heart. The
clear message that whispers within me has more to tell me than a
thousand voices. I have a guide within me who knows what is best for
me. There is a part of me that sees the whole picture and knows how it
all fits together. My inner voice may come in the form of a strong
sense, a pull from within, a gut feeling or a quiet knowing. However my
inner voice comes to me, I will learn to pay attention. In my heart I
know what is going on. Though I am conditioned by the world to look
constantly outside myself for meaning, today I recognize that it is
deeply important for me to hear what I am saying from within. I give
myself the gift of listening.
I will trust my inner voice.
- Tian Dayton PhD
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did.
I do not get so spiritual, that I am
of no earthly value.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
If you think you have a good idea you
might want to get second opinion from your sponsor.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
I am at choice today. I accept the
responsibilities of my life with a new sense of maturity, confidence
and even excitement.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I went through life waiting for a
space ship to land and a voice to say: 'Sorry, dropped you on the wrong
planet, time to go home now.' - Trip S.
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AA Thought for the Day
July 12
Anonymity
It should be a privilege, even the
right, of each member or group
to handle anonymity as they wish. . .
Each individual will have to decide
where he ought to draw the line --
how far he ought to carry the
principle in his own affairs,
how far he may go in dropping his own
anonymity
without injury to Alcoholics
Anonymous as a whole.
- The Language of the Heart, p. 15
Thought to Ponder . . .
Anonymity is real humility at work.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
A A = Adventurers Anonymous.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Belief
"Despite contrary indications,
I had little doubt that a mighty
purpose and rhythm
underlay all.
How could there be so much of precise
and immutable law,
and no intelligence?
I simply had to believe in a
Spirit of the Universe,
who knew neither time nor limitation."
- Bill W.
1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 10
Thought to Consider . . .
Faith is not belief without proof;
it's trust without reservation.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
A B C = Acceptance, Belief, Change
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Spirituality
From "The Three Legacies of
Alcoholics Anonymous":
"The liberals were the largest
contingent and they had no objection to the use of the word "God"
throughout the [Big]
book, but they were dead set against
any other theological proposition. They would have nothing to do with
doctrinal
issues. Spirituality, yes. But
religion, no, positively no. Most of our members, they pointed out,
believed in some sort of
deity. But when it came to theology
we could not possibly agree among ourselves, so how could we write a
book that
contained any such matter? There was
no such thing as group opinion in these areas and there never could be.
Alcoholics who had tried the missions
were forever complaining about this very thing. The alcoholic's
unreasoning
rebellion against the specifically
religious approach had severely handicapped the missions. The liberals
said they did
not intend to be critical; they only
wanted us to remember the hard facts. Those contentions could not be
denied. It
was true that we could not agree on a
religious basis for our fellowship and that the straight religious
approach had
worked in relatively few cases."
2001 AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics Anonymous
Comes of Age, pg. 162-63
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"It seems to me that one of the major
purposes of the last three Steps is to keep us from complacency, to
keep us
growing so that we don't fall back
into our old, sick ways and perhaps even into active alcoholism."
West Henrietta, New York, October
2007
"Step Ten: Up Close and Personal,"
Emotional Sobriety II
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"We represent no particular faith or
denomination. We are dealing only
with general principles common to
most denominations."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Working With Others, Page 93~
"We found that as soon as we were
able to lay aside prejudice and
express even a willingness to believe
in a Power greater than
ourselves, we commenced to get
results, even though it was impossible
for any of us to fully define or
comprehend that Power, which is God."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
We Agnostics, pg. 46~
"We grow by our willingness to face
and rectify errors and convert them into assets."
-Alcoholics Anonymous p. 124 (The
Family Afterward)
"Everywhere we saw failure and misery
transformed by humility into priceless assets."
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p. 75 (Step Seven)
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Our first attempts at inventories are
apt to prove very unrealistic. I used to be a champ at unrealistic
self-appraisal. On certain occasion, I wanted to look at the part of my
life which seemed good. Then I would greatly exaggerate whatever
virtues I supposed I had attained. Next I would congratulate myself on
the grand job I was doing in A.A.
Naturally this generated a terrible
hankering for still more accomplishments, and still more approval. I
was falling straight back into the pattern of my drinking days. Here
were the same old goals, power, fame, and applause. Besides, I had the
best alibi known the spiritual objective made this utter nonsense seem
perfectly right.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, thank You for taking my
greatest liabilities and transforming them into my greatest assets.