THE
BEST FOR TODAY
The principles we have set down are guides to progress.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 60
Just as a sculptor will use different tools to achieve desired effects
in
creating a work of art, in Alcoholics Anonymous the Twelve Steps are
used to bring about results in my own life. I do not overwhelm myself
with life's problems, and how much more work needs to be done. I let
myself be comforted in knowing that my life is now in the hands of my
Higher Power, a master craftsman who is shaping each part of my life
into a unique work of art. By working my program I can be satisfied,
knowing that in the doing the best that we can for today, we are
doing all that God asks of us."
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
In following the A.A. program with its twelve steps, we have the
advantage of a better understanding of our problems. Day after day
our sobriety results in the formation of new habits, normal habits. As
each twenty-four-hour period ends, we find that the business of
staying
sober is a much less trying and fearsome ordeal than it seemed in the
beginning. Do I find it easier as I go along?
Meditation For The Day
Learn daily the lesson of trust and calm in the midst of the storms of
life. Whatever of sorrow or difficulty the day may bring, God's
command to you is the same. Be grateful, humble, calm, and loving to
all people. Leave each soul the better for having met you or heard
you. For all kinds of people, this should be your attitude: a loving
desire to help and an infectious spirit of calmness and trust in God.
You have the answer to loneliness and fear, which is calm faith in the
goodness and purpose in the universe.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may be calm in the midst of storms. I pray that I may pass
on this calmness to others who are lonely and full of fear.
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As Bill Sees It
The Reality
of Spiritual Experiences, p. 182
"Perhaps you raise the question of hallucination versus the divine
imagery of a genuine
spiritual experience. I doubt if anyone has authoritatively defined
what a hallucination
really is. However, it is certain that all recipients of spiritual
experiences declare their
reality. The best evidence of that reality is in the subsequent fruits.
Those who receive
these gifts of grace are very much changed people, almost invariably
for the better. This
can scarcely be said of those who hallucinate.
"Some might think me presumptuous when I say that my own experience is
real.
Nevertheless, I can surely report that in my own life and in the lives
of countless others,
the fruits of that experience have been real, and the benefactions
beyond reckoning.
Talk, 1960
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Walk In Dry Places
Are we victimizing ourselves?
Finding the New Happiness
Some believe that people create their own trouble by attracting the
wrong conditions and people in their lives. This may not be entirely
true, but we can find that some element of it was at work with us. Time
and time again during our drinking, we set ourselves up for abuse and
rejection, though our motives seemed right.
Why did we do this? Supposedly to punish ourselves, the theory has it.
If this is true, then we should now call a halt to the process
immediately. If we've emerged from the terrors of alcoholism, we've had
all the punishment anybody needs.
We can change our bad patterns by looking carefully at the people and
situations we seem to attract. Without resentment or condemnation, we
can part company with any problems these have been bringing us. We can
start building new relationships and attracting better conditions that
will be immensely successful in terms of happiness and well-being.
I'll remember today that in the new life I'm seeking, there's no need
for punishment. I will not go out of my way to attract people or
conditions that create problems in my life.
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Keep It Simple
Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.---Step Seven
In Step Six, we got ready to give up our shortcomings. In Step Seven,
we
ask God to remove them. There is one catch. We humbly as God to remove
them.
Being humble means we remember who we are: human beings who need God's
help. Being humble means not pretending we're God. We admit we need
God's
help. Being humble means seeing ourselves as we are. We're a small but
important part of God's plan. We can change much, but only God can
change
some things about us. This is why we ask. Being humble is not a
weakness,
but a true strength.
Prayer for the Day: God, please remove my shortcomings.
Action for the Day: Throughout the day, I'll pray to God to
remove my
shortcomings.
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Each Day a New Beginning
It's quite uncomfortable to be an adolescent at age thirty-two.
--Peggy Cahn
Our lives are in process every moment, which means change is
ever-present. As new information is sorted and acquired, old habits are
discarded. We don't let go of some old behaviors easily, however. They
are like comfortable shoes. They may be worn thin, and they probably
embarrass us in certain company, but we slip them on unconsciously and
then it's too late.
Maturity is an "as if" behavior, initially. Emotional development was
stunted, for most of us, with the onset of our addictive behavior,
thus, we often respond to situations like adolescents. Application of
the "as if" principle will result both in new personal attitudes and
unfamiliar, yet welcome, responses from others. Acting as if we are
capable, strong, confident, or serene will pave the way for making
those behaviors real, after a time. If we believe in ourselves and our
ability to become the women we strive to be, we can then move forward
confidently.
When my behavior embarrasses or shames me, I will accept the
responsibility for changing it. Changing it offers immediate rewards.
The people around me will react in refreshing ways, and I'll feel more
fully alive.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 10 - To Employers
Nearly every modern employer feels a moral responsibility for the
well-being of his help, and he tries to meet these responsibilities.
That he has not always done so for the alcoholic is easily understood.
To him the alcoholic has often seemed a fool of the first magnitude.
Because of the employee’s special ability, or of his own strong
personal attachment to him, the employer has sometimes kept such a man
at work long beyond a reasonable period. Some employers have tried
every known remedy. In only a few instances has there been a lack of
patience and tolerance. And we, who have imposed on the best of
employers, can scarcely blame them if they have been short with us.
pp. 137-138
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
The Missing Link
He looked at everything as the
course of his unhappiness---except alcohol.
When I was eight or nine years old, life suddenly became very
difficult. Feelings began to emerge that I did not
understand. Depression crept into my life as started to
feel alone, even in crowded rooms. In fact, life didn't make much
sense to me at all. It's hard to say what sparked all of this, to
pinpoint one fact or event that changed everything forever. The
fact of the matter was, I was miserable from early on in my life.
p. 281
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Tradition
Three - "The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop
drinking."
At first the elders could look only at the objections. "We deal," they
said, "with alcoholics only. Shouldn't we sacrifice this one for the
sake of the many?" So went the discussions while the newcomer's fate
hung in the balance. Then one of the three spoke in a very different
voice. "What we are really afraid of," he said, "is our reputation. We
are much more afraid of what people might say than the trouble this
strange alcoholic might bring. As we've been talking, five short words
have been running through my mind. Something keeps repeating to me,
"What would the Master do?" "Not another word was said. What more
indeed could be said?
p. 142
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I welcome solitude into my life today. I welcome the peace, serenity,
wisdom and spirituality I find when I take that special time for me.
--Ruth Fishel
Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you
plant.
--Robert Louis Stevenson
"We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we
give."
--Norman MacEwan
We're not invited into relationship with God at a deeper level in the
absence of our challenges, but in the midst of all of life, including
our
challenges. Difficulties provide us a chance for greater closeness.
Every situation in life carries with it an incredible opportunity for
sweetness, depth and wonder. Receive every experience today as an
opportunity and a gift.
--Mary Manin Morrissey
"It is easy enough to be pleasant, When life flows by like a song,
But the man worth while is the one who can smile, When everything
goes dead wrong. For the test of the heart is troubled, And it always
comes with the years. And the smiles that is worth the praises of
earth, Is the smile that shines through tears."
--Ella Wheeler Wilcox
Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold
well.
--Josh Billings
"Character is what you are in the dark."
--Dwight L. Moody
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
BELIEF
"Seek not to understand that you
may believe, but believe that you
understand."
--St. Augustine
For years I tried to understand my behavior around alcohol and I only
came away more confused. Sometimes my efforts to understand led
me into dishonesty and manipulation. I drank because I was lonely,
angry, happy, overworked or because I had problems with my parents.
You see, I tried to understand "why"!
Science has no definitive answer as to why some people are alcoholic
other than to postulate the disease factor, with the emphasized advice,
"Don't pick up the first drink." So today I don't understand why I am
an alcoholic. I also believe that I can never drink alcohol without
having alcohol problems. This cherished belief keeps me sober and
gives me a God I can understand; a life that I can love; and a world I
can live in.
Oh yes -- and I can remember where I have been today!
Help me to believe in what I know and to be content with the
imperfection of my knowledge.
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"Do
not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my
Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told
you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and
prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me
that you also may be where I am."
John 14:1-3
"Your word is a lamp to my feet And a light to my path."
Psalms 119:105
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Daily Inspiration
It's easy to give up, but no matter what the outcome
is, if you do your best, you are always the winner. Lord, may I truly
realize that it is the way I participate in life that counts for me.
Example is the best way to teach. Lord, may I teach Your goodness by
the way I live my life.
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NA Just For Today
A Simple Program
"The program is simply sharing,
working the Twelve Steps, attending meetings, and practicing the
principles of the program."
Basic Text, p.188
Our complicated lives can be made a
lot less complicated if we concentrate on a few simple things-sharing
our experience, strength, and hope with others, regular meeting
attendance, and practicing the principles of the program in our daily
lives.
By sharing our experience, strength,
and hope with other addicts, we provide a powerful example for
newcomers to follow. The effort we put into helping others also helps
keep self centeredness, the core of our disease, at bay.
Many of us pick one group, a "home
group" whose meetings we attend faithfully. This regularity gives some
routine to our lives, and lets others know where they can find us if
they need us.
Practicing the Twelve Steps in our
daily lives makes the difference between a balanced recovery and simply
not using. The steps give us some much-needed guidance in managing our
everyday affairs.
Yes, we are complex people. But the NA
program simplifies our lives, enabling us to live a life free from
active addiction. Our lives can be filled with serenity and hope when
we live by the guidance of the simple principles of our program.
Just for today: I will remember that,
while I am a complex person, NA is the simplest way for me to make my
life less complicated.
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You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
Those who contemplate the beauty of
the earth find reserves of strength that will endure as long as life
lasts. --Rachel Carson
Beauty is everywhere. It is in the
daisies, in the lavender wildflowers, in the new green grass of spring.
As we walk through life, noticing such beauty strengthens us. It
reminds us of the spiritual creative force alive in this world On
better days, we can feel our own creativity gaining power from such
beauty. On harder days, nature's sunset can help us step out of our
suffering for a moment to be comforted and inspired by its splendor.
Even storms, in their wild and angry
way, show us a power greater than ourselves. Such awesome beauty is
beyond our understanding, and yet it is part of the earth we live on.
What lessons will nature teach me
today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
If you are seeking creative ideas, go
out walking. Angels whisper to a man when he goes for a walk. --Raymond
Inmon
We all seek creative ideas from time
to time - perhaps when we have a problem resting heavily on our minds,
or when we are simply in a bad mood. We need to refresh ourselves at
those times. Refreshment doesn't solve a problem, but it can revitalize
our thinking. Sometimes when we are feeling hopeless, we neglect to
care for ourselves, forgetting a better environment will give us a
stronger attitude, even toward the most difficult problems.
We must learn our own best methods for
being refreshed - ways that allow angels to whisper to us. They should
be simple, inexpensive, and accessible daily. Going for a walk is a
very good example. Daily reading and study is another possibility.
Observing nature, doing handicrafts or hobbies are refreshing for some
men. These activities allow us to temporarily set aside our tasks and
concerns and open us to creative ideas.
Today, I will give myself a creative
break from the concerns I am facing.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
It's quite uncomfortable to be an
adolescent at age thirty-two. --Peggy Cahn
Our lives are in process every moment,
which means change is ever-present. As new information is sorted and
acquired, old habits are discarded. We don't let go of some old
behaviors easily, however. They are like comfortable shoes. They may be
worn thin, and they probably embarrass us in certain company, but we
slip them on unconsciously and then it's too late.
Maturity is an "as if" behavior,
initially. Emotional development was stunted, for most of us, with the
onset of our addictive behavior, thus, we often respond to situations
like adolescents. Application of the "as if" principle will result both
in new personal attitudes and unfamiliar, yet welcome, responses from
others. Acting as if we are capable, strong, confident, or serene will
pave the way for making those behaviors real, after a time. If we
believe in ourselves and our ability to become the women we strive to
be, we can then move forward confidently.
When my behavior embarrasses or shames
me, I will accept the responsibility for changing it. Changing it
offers immediate rewards. The people around me will react in refreshing
ways, and I'll feel more fully alive.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Receiving
Here is an exercise.
Today let someone give to you. Let
someone do something nice for you. Let someone give you a compliment or
tell you something good about yourself. Let someone help you.
Then, stand there and take it. Take it
in. Feel it. Know that you are worthy and deserving. Do not apologize.
Do not say, "You shouldn't have." Do you feel guilty, afraid, ashamed,
and panicky? Do not immediately try to give something back.
Just say, "Thank you."
Today, I will let myself receive one
thing from someone else, and I will let myself be comfortable with that.
Today I will listen to the messages
that go on in my head and decide for myself if they are healthy. Today
I will choose to follow positive messages that I tell myself or create
new messages that are positive and healthy. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Embrace Each Cycle of Your Life
It took me a long time to accept
wearing glasses. I am still surprised when I need my spectacles to read
a menu or scan the telephone directory. Sometimes I look in the mirror
expecting to see the body, the face of my youth because I remember her.
She’s still in me.
Now I’m learning to welcome aging, as
each decade of life brings its own challenges, joys, sorrows, and
teachings. I’m learning to trust the lessons of each cycle of my life.
I don’t fear aging, for I know that it’s as much, and as important, a
part of life as my youth.
“My mother just had her seventieth
birthday,” the woman at the lodge told me. “My sister and I asked her
what she wanted. She wanted a wet suit for diving because waterskiing
had strained her back.”
What does getting older mean to you?
Young and old. All part of the same.
Each moment is a moment of life, your life. Each cycle has its lessons.
Dig out your glasses, if you must, but laugh whe you do it. And
remember to make each moment count.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Learn to say how it feels
He no longer dreamed of storms, nor of
women, nor of great occurrences, nor of great fish, nor fights, nor
contests of strength, nor of his wife. He only dreamed of places now
and of the lions on the beach.
–Ernest Hemingway
Many teachers of our time attribute
consciousness– energy not just matter– to all creations that exist in
God’s marvelous world. Many teachers from ancient times espoused this
philosophy,too.
How does it feel when you sit next to
a sprawling oak tree? How does it feel when you lie in the hot sand at
the beach, listening to the waves splashing on the shore? How does it
feel in your kitchen in the morning? How does it feel when you’re with
your best friend? Or your spouse?
How does it feel to go into a store
filled with beautiful objects, stuffy salesclerks, and signs that
scream: DO NOT TOUCH?
Many of us are survivors. We learned
the art of leaving our bodies early on, perhaps in our childhood or
maybe later, as a way of coping with situations that didn’t feel good
and that didn’t feel right to us. We learned to deny how a situation
felt– and often how it felt to be with certain people– in order to cope
with situations we found ourselves in that we didn’t have the tools or
power to escape. We trained ourselves to ignore how things felt because
either we told ourselves we had no choice, or we truly didn’t have a
say in the matter.
We don’t have to survive anymore. That
time is past. Now, it’s time to live.
Come back into your body. Stretch your
senses, so that they fill up all of you– your sense of taste, smell,
touch, sight, and sound, and your intuitive senses,too. How do you feel
emotionally? If you can’t put words to it, just describe it as best as
you can. Then go to the next level. Tune into the feelings and moods of
the world around you, but not so much that you take these feelings on
as yours. Tune in just enough to recognize how the energy of each
situation feels to you.
Don’t judge your responses and
feelings as either good or bad. And you don’t have to do anything to
control how it feels– to you or anyone else. Just allow yourself to
experience and recognize how it feels to be you.
Part of speaking the language of
letting go means learning to delight and revel in all our senses,
including our inner knowing.
Learn to say with trust and
confidence, This is how I feel.
God, help me come fully to life.
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Food for Thought
Saying No
There are times when all of us find it
difficult to say no. Even though we realize intellectually that we
cannot have and do everything, we have trouble saying no to the foods,
activities, and people that are not good for us.
Abstaining means saying “No, thank
you” when offered something not on our food plan. We may think that we
are afraid of hurting someone else’s feelings by our refusal, but
usually it is our own compulsive desire that prevents us from giving a
firm no. Our sanity and health are more important than pleasing whoever
is offering what we should not have.
As we work the program, we become more
aware of the people and activities that use up our energies
unnecessarily. Avoiding them gives us more time and strength for what
means most to us. Learning when and how to say no is a very important
part of our recovery. Most often, the person we need to say no to is
ourself.
I pray for the strength to say no to
what is not good for me.
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A Refuge of Your Own
Creating a Garden Sanctuary by Madisyn Taylor
A personal outdoor sanctuary is an
important part of feeling connected to all of life.
Each of us has been blessed with an
innate need to celebrate and glorify life. At a most basic level, we
honor the forces that came together to bring us into being by caring
for our bodies and our souls. To truly rejoice in existence, we must
also learn to cultivate loveliness in those special places that
replenish the soul. When we create a garden sanctuary, we are reminded
that we are a part of both nature's essence and something more. An
outdoor retreat is a place we can surround ourselves in nature, beauty,
and the life force. It is not difficult to create a sanctuary—we should
endeavor, however, to create sanctuaries that speak to us as
individuals.
Whether we have a yard, a grassy
corner, a patio, or a porch at our disposal, our creative potential is
infinite. Any of these spaces can become a magnificent garden. When we
feel drawn to specific themes such as Zen, angels, paradise, or the
ethereal, we should explore them. Décor and furniture crafted
from natural materials like wood and stone blend seamlessly into
nature. Yet we can also augment the natural world by filling our garden
sanctuaries with statues, bells or gongs, or colorful flags. Running
water, like that in a created stream or fountain, helps energy flow
smoothly. If space is a concern, crystals and mirrors can fulfill the
same function. Hidden features like concealed swings and reflecting
pools veiled in shadow can surprise and delight. As your garden
sanctuary evolves, remember to invite the elemental spirits of nature
to assist you in your efforts to create a small pocket of harmony,
beauty, and peace in your own backyard. If you have not already felt
th! eir presence, sit quietly in your garden and reach out to them. You
will feel these earthly guides at your side as you continue to develop
your sanctuary.
In the refuge of brilliant color,
sweet scents, and stillness you create in your garden, the burdens
imposed upon you by a sometimes hectic world will melt away. The
splendor and tranquility of what you have brought into being will
entrance you, allowing you to forget the constraints of time and space.
No matter how large or small your garden sanctuary, the time you spend
reveling in its pleasures will refresh your spirit and provide you with
innumerable opportunities to celebrate life. Published with permission
from Daily OM
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A Day at a Time
Reflection for the Day
Fear may have originally brought some
of us to The Program. In the beginning, fear alone may help some of us
stay away from the first drink, pill, joint or whatever. But a fearful
state is hardly conducive to comfort and happiness - not for long. We
have to find alternatives to fear to get us through those first empty
hours, days or even weeks. For most of us, the answer has been to
become active in and around The Program. In no time, we feel that we
truly belong; for the first time in a long time, we begin to feel a
"part of" rather than "apart from."
Am I willing to take the initiative?
Today I Pray
May God please help me find
alternatives to fear - that watchdog of my earliest abstinence. I thank
Him for directing me to a place where I can meet others who have
experienced the same compulsions and fears. I am grateful for my
feeling of belonging.
Today I Will Remember
I am "a part of," not "apart from."
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One Day At A Time
THE BOTTOM
"Those who cannot remember the past
are condemned to repeat it."
George Santayana
Sometimes we have to go to the
absolute bottom. If we're extremely lucky, the absolute bottom is where
we find our inspiration. Sometimes I think that people who don't hit
absolute bottom are missing a valuable experience. Then again, living
life on the edge of that precipice is no fun at all. The greatest gift
is to be able to step away from the edge and live life without the fear
of falling.
If we aren't extremely lucky, what we
find at the absolute bottom is a trapdoor that opens to a vast, empty
space. The door opens and the empty space gratefully accepts the body
and the soul given to it.
One Day at a Time . . .
I will stop living on the edge;
I will stop regretting my past;
I will avoid the trapdoor.
~ Richard H.
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
Men and women drink essentially
because they like the effect produced by alcohol. The sensation is so
elusive that, while they admit it is injurious, they cannot after a
time differentiate the true from the false. To them, their alcoholic
life seems the only normal one. They are restless, irritable and
discontented, unless they can again experience the sense of ease and
comfort which comes at once by taking a few drinks -- drinks which they
see others taking with impunity. - Pg. xxix - 4th. Edition - The
Doctor's Opinion
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Mind is the path. Flesh is the
vehicle. We must establish a new mind through the creative power of
thought using the 12 steps. We must establish a new body, protecting it
from drugs. Only then do we become an aspirant of a whole life.
I ask my Creator to make me WHOLE in
body, mind, and spirit.
Letting Go
Letting go of the past and moving on
is a tall order; it requires a kind of releasing that I still find
difficult to do. My past will always be in the shadows of my memory to
haunt me if I do not recognize it as a part of me. If I pretend it's
not important, grit my teeth and force myself to numb myself, I have
missed the point of this process. On the other had, if I am unwilling
to let go no matter how many times I have worked through certain
issues, I am also not allowing myself to be fully healthy and return to
life. The part of my healing that is a flowing through the stored pain
from the past is a decisive, forward-moving action.
I understand that, as part of my
process of healing, my responsibility to let go and move on.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
'You gain strength, courage and
confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in
the face. ...You must do the thing you cannot do.' -Eleanor Roosevelt
I do the thing I cannot do as I
overcome F.E.A.R. I Face Everything And Recover.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
The program fixes it so we don't have
to suffer from insanity anymore. Now we can enjoy it!
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I trust my instincts. Today I
trust I will know at the right time the right answer. Today I have the
faith to know that God guides me in my choices.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I only need one meeting a week, but I
go to seven because I don't know which one I need. - Anon.
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AA Thought for the Day
July 1
Challenges
There is no easier, softer way.
To bring the great escape act into
sobriety is to travel with a companion that led me to despair long ago.
The teaching I receive in Alcoholics
Anonymous about courage and love
helps me to continue to grapple with
the challenges of life as they are given to me, one day at a time.
- The Best of the Grapevine [Vol. 3],
p. 320
Thought to Ponder . . .
The peaks and valleys of my life have
become gentle rolling hills.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
A R T = Always Remain Teachable.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Puzzle
"By nature touchy and suspicious,
the alcoholic likes to be left alone
to work out his puzzle,
and he has a convenient way of
ignoring the tragedy
which he inflicts meanwhile upon those
who are close to him.
He holds desperately to a conviction
that,
although he has not been able to
handle alcohol in the past,
he will ultimately succeed in becoming
a controlled drinker.
One of medicine's queerest animals,
he is, as often as not, an acutely
intelligent person.
He fences with professional men and
relatives
who attempt to aid him and he gets a
perverse satisfaction
out of tripping them up in argument."
The Jack Alexander Article
>From the March 1941 issue of The
Saturday Evening Post
Thought to Consider . . .
There is no such thing as being 'a
little bit alcoholic.'
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
D E N I A L = Don't Even Notice I Am
Lying.
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Blindness
Step Seven: Humbly asked Him to remove
our shortcomings.
"This lack of anchorage to any
permanent values, this blindness to the true purpose of our lives,
produced another bad result. For just so long as we were convinced that
we could live exclusively by our own individual strength and
intelligence, for just that long was a working faith in a Higher Power
impossible."
1952, AAWS, Inc.; Printed 2005; Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions, pg. 72
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"As devastatingly difficult as they
have been, the last two years have been a giant Seventh Tradition
workshop. Never in my married life or in any time before it had I truly
understood what being self-supporting meant. I had relied on others to
take care of me, not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually,
too, and I let my life go to hell if they didn't."
Los Angeles, California, July 2007
"Self-Support,"
No Matter What: Dealing with Adversity
in Sobriety
*~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N'
Twelve Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"The greatest enemies of us alcoholics
are resentment, jealousy,
envy, frustration, and fear."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, To
Employers, pg. 145~
"Resentment is the "number one"
offender. It destroys more
alcoholics than anything else."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
How It Works, pg. 64~
"Opinions vary considerably as to why
the alcoholic reacts
differently from normal people. We are
not sure why, once a certain
point is reached, little can be done
for him. We cannot answer the
riddle."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
There Is A Solution, pg. 22~
“You will awaken to a new sense of
responsibility for others.”
-Alcoholics Anonymous p.120 (To Wives)
“When by devoted service to family,
friends, business, or community we attract widespread affection and are
sometimes singled out for posts of greater responsibility and trust, we
try to be humbly grateful and exert ourselves the more in a spirit of
love and service.”
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p.124 (Step Twelve)
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Perhaps you raise the question of
hallucination verses the divine imagery of a genuine spiritual
experience. I doubt if anyone has authoritatively defined what an
hallucination really is. However, it is certain that all recipients of
spiritual experiences declare for their reality. The best evidence of
that reality is in the subsequent fruits. Those who receive these gifts
of grace are very much changed people, almost invariably for the
better. This can scarcely be said of those who hallucinate.
'Some might think me presumptuous when
I say that my own experience is real. Nevertheless, I can surely report
that in my own life and in the lives of countless others, the fruits of
that experience have been real, and the benefactions beyond reckoning.
Prayer for the Day: My Creator, I am now willing that you
should have all of me, good & bad. I pray that you now remove from
me every single defect of character Which stands in the way of my
usefulness to you & my fellows. Grant me strength, as I go out from
here to do your bidding.