HOLD YOUR
FACE TO THE LIGHT
Believe more deeply. Hold your face up to the
Light, even though for the moment you do not see.
AS BILL SEES IT, p. 3
One Sunday in October, during my morning meditation,
I glanced out the window at the ash tree in our
front yard. At once I was overwhelmed by its
magnificent, golden color! As I stared in awe at
God's work of art, the leaves began to fall and,
within minutes, the branches were bare. Sadness
came over me as I thought of the winter months
ahead, but just as I was reflecting on autumn's
annual process, God's message came through. Like
the trees, stripped of their leaves in the fall,
sprout new blossoms in the spring, I had had my
compulsive, selfish ways removed by God in order
for me to blossom into a sober, joyful member of
A.A. Thank you, God, for the changing seasons and
for my ever-changing life.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
I no longer refuse to do anything because I cannot
do it to perfection. Many of us alcoholics use the
excuse of not being able to do something perfectly
to enable us to do nothing at all. We pretend to be
perfectionists. We are good at telling people how a
thing should be done, but when we come to the effort
of doing it ourselves, we balk. We say to ourselves:
I might make a mistake, so I'd better let the whole
thing slide. In A.A. we set our goals high, but that
does not prevent us from trying. The mere fact that
we will never fully reach these goals does not
prevent us from doing the best we can. Have I stopped
hiding behind the smoke-screen of perfectionism?
Meditation For The Day
"In the world ye shall have tribulation. But be of
good cheer. I have overcome the world." Keep an
undaunted spirit. Keep your spirit free and unconquered.
You can be undefeated and untouched by failure and all
its power, by letting your spirit overcome the world;
rise above the earth's turmoil into the secret chamber
of perfect peace and confidence. When a challenge comes
to you, remember that you have God's help and nothing
can wholly defeat you.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may have confidence and be of good cheer.
I pray that I may not fear the power of failure.
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As Bill Sees It
Humility
Brings Hope, p. 325
Now that we no longer patronize bars and bordellos, now that we bring
home the pay checks, now that we are so very active in A.A., and now
that people congratulate us on these signs of progress--well, we
naturally proceed to congratulate ourselves. Of course, we are not
yet within hailing distance of humility.
<< << << >> >> >>
We ought to be willing to try humility in seeking the removal of our
other shortcomings, just as we did when we admitted that we were
powerless over alcohol, and came to believe that a Power greater than
ourselves could restore us to sanity.
If humility could enable us to find the grace by which the deadly
alcohol obsession could be banished, then there must be hope of the
same result respecting any other problem we can possibly have.
1. Grapevine, June 1961
2. 12 & 12, p. 76
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Walk In Dry Places
The
only
reason
to
drink
Staying sober
"There's only one real reason I can ever have for taking a drink,
and that's because I want to."
This remark at a meeting sums up AA's position on why we drink.
We never really drink because of pressures and troubles. We drink
because we want to, because we feel like taking a drink.
It's true that a serious crisis, like going into bankruptcy, may make
us conscious of an urger to drink. But we know that we're also likely
to have such urges in the face of good fortune. The
alcoholic who would drink over a bankruptcy would also probably get
drunk if he or she won the lottery.
By refusing to accept all of these alleged "reasons" for drinking, AA
simplified our problem so we can deal with it. We either want to
drink or we don't want to drink, period. Even if we want to
drink... and some members do.. AA can show us how to stay sober
and eventually lose such desires.
Nothing has the power to make me drink today. It is only my own
willingness that can destroy my sobriety.
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Keep It Simple
Let
me
listen
to
me
and
not to them. ---Gertrude Stein
Often we try to please everyone around us. But this may not make us
happy, and so we get angry.
We feel taken advantage of.
We may be kind to others, but first we must love ourselves. How? By
learning to listen to ourselves. To our dreams. To our higher power. By
doing this we’ll be more happy. And those around us will probably be
more
happy too.
As our AA medallions say, “To Thine Own Self Be True.”
Prayer for the Day: I pray that I’ll listen to that gentle,
loving voice inside me. Higher
Power, help me make me make my “conscious contact” with You better.
Action for the Day: I will write down why I need to be true to
myself.
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Each Day a New Beginning
When you send out real love, real love will return to you.
--Florence Scovel Shinn
Real love is selfless love. It expects nothing in return. It is not
conditional. It doesn't keep score. It is too seldom given. Many of us
came into the program hurting, feeling unloved, looking desperately for
love, unable to love selflessly. But we are learning.
We are climbing the same mountain, all of us. Our particular paths will
cross the paths of many others before reaching the top, where we will
find full enlightenment. And any path we cross has a special
contribution to make to our own progress. We can be grateful for all
intersecting paths, no matter how adverse they seem at the time. We can
offer all our fellow-travelers real love, and our own trip will benefit
manyfold.
We need not be ashamed of our desire for love. Nor need we feel shame
that we've bargained for it. But we do need to understand that the kind
of love we seek can only be gained when we quit searching for it and
simply offer it to all the people in our midst.
I will look into the hearts of all the people I encounter today and
offer them love. I'll receive that which I give.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
BILL'S STORY
Abruptly in October 1929 hell broke loose on the New York stock
exchange. After one of those days of inferno, I wobbled from a hotel
bar to a brokerage office. It was eight o'clock-five hours after the
market closed. The ticker still clattered. I was staring at an inch of
the tape which bore the inscription XYZ-32. It had been 52 that
morning. I was finished and so were many friends. The papers reported
men jumping to death from the towers of High Finance. That disgusted
me. I would not jump. I went back to the bar. My friends had dropped
several million since ten o'clock-so what? Tomorrow was another day. As
I drank, the old fierce determination to win came back.
p. 4
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
Crossing The River
Of Denial
She finally realized that when she enjoyed her drinking, she
couldn't control it, and when she controlled it, she couldn't enjoy it.
One such companion led to my first arrest. If the driver of the car had
only pulled over when the police lights flashed, we would have been
fine. If, when I had practically talked our way out of it, the driver
had kept his mouth shut, we would have been fine. But no, he started
babbling about how he was in rehab. I got off with a misdemeanor, and
for years, I completely discounted that arrest because it was all his
fault. I simply ignored that I had been drinking all day.
pp. 329-330
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step Three -
"Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God
as we understood Him."
Maybe this all sounds mysterious and remote, something like Einstein's
theory of relativity or a proposition in nuclear physics. It isn't at
all. Let's look at how practical it actually is. Every man and woman
who has joined A.A. and intends to stick has, without realizing it,
made a beginning on Step Three. Isn't it true that in all matters
touching upon alcohol, each of them has decided to turn his or her life
over to the care, protection, and guidance of Alcoholics Anonymous?
Already a willingness has been achieved to cast out one's own will and
one's own ideas about the alcohol problem in favor of those suggested
by A.A. Any willing newcomer feels sure A.A. is the only safe harbor
for the foundering vessel he has become. Now if this is not turning
one's will and life over to a newfound Providence, then what is it?
p. 35
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Silence
is
also
a
form
of speech.
--West Africa Proverb
Each day comes bearing its own gifts.
Untie the ribbons.
--Ruth Ann Schabacker
Gratitude is our most direct line to God and the angels. If we take the
time, no matter
how crazy and troubled we feel, we can find something to be thankful
for. The more we
seek gratitude, the more reason the angels will give us for gratitude
and joy to exist in
our lives.
--Terry Lynn Taylor
"Our personal dispositions are as windowpanes through which we see the
world either as
rosy or dull. The way we color the glasses we wear is the way the world
seems to us."
--Bishop Fulton J. Sheen
"Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that
happens to you,
knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something
bigger and better
than your current situation."
--Brian Tracy
You will get nothing out of life unless you make the decision to go
after it. Persistence is
the key to winning.
--unknown
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
MEMORIES
"History is the seed bed of the
future."
-- Leo Booth
I talk about my drinking history, remembering the incidents and losses,
because I
believe "there is no gain without pain." To enjoy my sobriety I must
share, on a
daily basis, the reality of my disease. My pain is rooted in my
history. I must live with
my disease on a daily basis. I need to be aware of the disease process
in my life.
This awareness requires a "rigorously honest" inventory of my past
attitudes and
behaviors; ignorance is bliss for the disease of addiction! The
acceptance and
awareness of my past is my treatment for today. The more I understand
about my
yesterdays the better my recovery will be today. My life has a history
and my spiritual
program demands that I understand it.
Teach me to face my past so that I can realistically live in my today.
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"The
Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him."
Lamentations 3:25
"And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of
the Lord Jesus,
giving thanks to God the Father through him."
Colossians 3:17
And the Holy Spirit helps us in our distress. For we don't even know
what we should pray
for, nor how we should pray. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with
groanings that cannot
be expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows what
the Spirit is
saying, for the Spirit pleads for us believers in harmony with God's
own will.
Romans 8:26 -27
Fools think they need no advice, but the wise listen to others. A fool
is quick-tempered,
but a wise person stays calm when insulted. An honest witness tells the
truth; a false
witness tells lies. Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of
the wise bring
healing. Truth stands the test of time; lies are soon exposed. Deceit
fills hearts that are
plotting evil; joy fills hearts that are planning peace!
Proverbs 12:15-20
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Daily Inspiration
One of life's greatest pleasures is meeting and conquering our most
difficult moments. Lord, teach me to trust myself and trust that You
will never abandon me or my needs.
See opportunity in your difficulties, not difficulty in your
opportunities. Lord, I will focus on the goodness today brings to me
and look for the many reasons I have to feel joy.
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NA Just For Today
God's Will
"The relief of 'letting go and letting
God' helps us develop a life that is worth living."
Basic Text pg. 26
In our addiction, we were afraid of
what might happen if we didn't control everything around us. Many of us
made up elaborate lies to protect our use of drugs. Some of us
manipulated everyone around us in a frenzied attempt to get something
from them so we could use more drugs. A few of us went to great lengths
to keep two people from talking to each other and perhaps discovering
our trail of lies. We took pains to maintain an illusion of control
over our addiction and our lives. In the process, we kept ourselves
from experiencing the serenity that comes with surrender to a Higher
Power's will.
In our recovery, it is important to
release our illusion of control and surrender to a Higher Power, whose
will for us is better than anything we can con, manipulate, or devise
for ourselves. If we realize that we are trying to control outcomes and
are feeling afraid of the future, there is action we can take to
reverse that trend. We go to our Second and Third Steps and look at
what we have come to believe about a Higher Power. Do we truly believe
that this Power can care for us and restore us to sanity? If so, we can
live with all of life's ups and downs - its disappointments, its
sorrows, its wonders, and its joys.
Just for today: I will surrender and
let a Higher Power's will happen in my life. I will accept the gift of
serenity this surrender brings.
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
Happiness is not a place to travel to.
It's a way of getting there. --Anonymous
Those of us who climb mountains find
joy in reaching the top. However, the climb would not make much sense
if there were not things to enjoy on the way up. If we groan and
complain, it will be hard to feel joy at the summit. However, if we are
able to enjoy each day's journey, it makes all the difference in the
world. In the midst of each chore, we can notice the sunset or the
unique and beautiful surroundings of each day.
Each of our days is different.
Happiness is not a goal we are struggling to reach some time in the
future. It is a gift we can give ourselves today. If we enjoy some
parts of each day of our hike, we will also feel joy at the summit.
What form will my gift of happiness
take today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
We shall not cease from exploration.
And at the end of all our exploring
Will be to arrive where we started
And know the place for the first time
---T. S. Eliot
Our spiritual path is like a search
leading home. We carry within us a yearning for the ideal, the perfect
acceptance and love from our fathers and mothers. We long for
fulfillment of our dreams, we long to feel strong and capable, and we
want to understand, to truly come into our own.
As we peel back the layers of our
defenses, we find what we knew all along. On a deep level, we knew no
man could be totally self-sufficient. Now we are coming back to it as
if it's brand new. The best images of our parents' love and acceptance
of us are what we return to as models for how we can be. It is true we
can never go home again. Yet our spiritual journey mysteriously leads
us back to explore what we knew deeply all along.
I will make peace with my past and
explore the deeper knowledge I've always held within me.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
When you send out real love, real love
will return to you. --Florence Scovel Shinn
Real love is selfless love. It expects
nothing in return. It is not conditional. It doesn't keep score. It is
too seldom given. Many of us came into the program hurting, feeling
unloved, looking desperately for love, unable to love selflessly. But
we are learning.
We are climbing the same mountain, all
of us. Our particular paths will cross the paths of many others before
reaching the top, where we will find full enlightenment. And any path
we cross has a special contribution to make to our own progress. We can
be grateful for all intersecting paths, no matter how adverse they seem
at the time. We can offer all our fellow-travelers real love, and our
own trip will benefit manyfold.
We need not be ashamed of our desire
for love. Nor need we feel shame that we've bargained for it. But we do
need to understand that the kind of love we seek can only be gained
when we quit searching for it and simply offer it to all the people in
our midst.
I will look into the hearts of all the
people I encounter today and offer them love. I'll receive that which I
give.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Healthy Sexuality
Many areas of our life need healing.
One important part of our life is our
sexuality. Our feelings and beliefs about our sexuality, our ability to
nurture, cherish, and enjoy our sexuality, our ability to respect
ourselves sexually, our ability to let go of sexual shame and
confusion, may all be impaired or confused by our codependency.
Our sexual energy may be blocked. Or
for some of us, sex may be the only way we learned to connect with
people. Our sexuality may not be connected to the rest of us; sex may
not be connected to love - for others or ourselves.
Some of us were sexually abused as
children. Some of us may have gotten involved in sexuality addictive
behaviors - compulsive sexual behaviors that got out of control and
produced shame.
Some of us may have gotten involved in
sexual codependency: not paying attention to what we wanted, or didn't
want, sexually; allowing ourselves to get involved sexually because it
was what the other person wanted; shutting off our sexuality along with
our other feelings; denying ourselves healthy enjoyment of ourselves as
sexual beings.
Our sexuality is a part of ourselves
that deserves healing attention and energy. It is a part of us that we
can allow to become connected to the whole of us; it is a part of us
that we can stop being ashamed of.
It is okay and healthy to allow our
sexual energy to open up and become healed. It is connected to our
creativity and to our heart. We do not have to allow our sexual energy
to control our relationships or us. We can establish and maintain
healthy, appropriate boundaries around our sexuality. We can discover
what that means in our life.
We can enjoy the gift of being human
beings who have been given the gift of sexual energy, without abusing
or discounting that gift.
Today, I will begin to integrate my
sexuality into the rest of my personality. God, help me let go of my
fears and shame around my sexuality. Show me the issues I need to face
concerning my sexuality. Help me open myself to healing in that area of
my life.
It feels so good to like myself today.
It feels so good to accept myself today. It feels so good to know that
I am exactly where I need to be, doing what is right for me in this
day. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey to the Heart
Open Up to Who You Are
Stop criticizing yourself. Stop
telling yourself everything you think, feel, want and do is wrong. Or
at least not quite right. You’ve been holding back, censoring yourself
for too long. Your creativity, your intuition, the voice of your soul
is the very voice you’ve been silencing.
For many reasons, we learn to
criticize and censor ourelves. We may have grown up with people who
stifled our inner voice, our wisdom, our knowledge of truth. Our sense
of the truth may have caused them to feel uneasy. So they told us to
hush. It met their needs to keep us quiet. So we learned to hush
ourselves. It was how we survived.
No longer do we need to meet other
people’s needs, not that way. We don’t have to be afraid of ourselves
or what we will find if we look inside. We don’t need to run from
ourselves. We don’t need to hide or hush ourselves. We are creative,
loving, purposeful beings.
It’s time to open up to yourself, to
your grandest dreams and aspirations, your real inclinations and
desires, your wisdom and knowledge about what is true and what is real.
Open up to who you are. Listen to yourself. Express yourself. Enjoy who
you are, and you will find others enjoying you,too.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Practice the basics
Not being codependent? That’s a
decision I need to make each day.
–Anonymous
Remember to practice the basics.
There’s a saying floating around that
people talk about a lot: Lessons won’t go away until they’re learned.
We can move, duck, hide, run, or escape by doing something else, but
that lesson will still follow us around.
There’s another saying,too, one that’s
not talked about as much. But it’s an important lesson to remember as
we go through our daily lives: Just because the lesson has been learned
doesn’t mean it will go away. Sometimes it appears in different shapes
and forms.
I used to believe that once a lesson
was learned, I had it under my belt. The pain from that lesson would
stop once I realized what it was. Then I could just go on with my life
and put that graduation certificate in a drawer.
It took me a while to realize that
that wasn’t necessarily true. I was learning these lessons because I
would need to use that skill, awakening, value, descipline, or practice
as a tool for the rest of my life.
If you’ve got some important life
lessons under your belt, congratulations. But don’t put that
certificate away quite yet. Instead, why don’t you leave it out in
plain sight?
When I first began skydiving, the
first fifty jumps or so were dedicated to basic training. I was
learning to save my life. After that, I began to add new skills to my
repertoire. I was able to move my body around and have some fun in the
air. I began to learn to fly. But each time I get to the door of the
plane and get ready to jump, it’s important to remember everything I
learned in the beginning– the basics– about how to save my life.
Practice the basics every day or as
often as you need. Whether you’re in recovery, working at a craft,
working on a relationship, or flying a plane, review your basics and
remember to apply these principles each day in your life.
Spread your wings. Learn to fly. Have
a ball with your life. Learn about all the mystery and magic the
universe has to offer. See how good you can get. But don’t forget what
you learned in the beginning.
Remember to save your own life.
God, help me remember to practice the
basics of self-care every day of my life.
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Bird Meditation
Witnessing Nature through Meditation
by Madisyn Taylor
When it becomes too cold to be outside
with nature, bring her inside through your meditation.
When the weather gets colder it can be
more difficult to get in touch with the marvel of nature as it exists
around us. Finding innovative ways to really connect with nature brings
us closer to the wonders that envelop our lives. One way to do this is
to perform a meditation with our feathered friends, the bird kingdom.
Just by taking a few moments each day
to watch the bird activity that goes on in our backyards through our
windows can bring a sense of calm and well-being to our lives. Watching
and being with the birds that we share our garden space with us allows
us to experience greater feelings of relaxation and gratitude for the
diversity that is always present around us. Simply watching, without
judgment or expectations, heightens our awareness of the beauty of
nature. If you watch the birds for a long enough period of time you
will begin to feel a great sense of deep joy within you knowing we are
all truly divine. Doing this with our family members will in turn
introduce a meditative practice that can easily be shared and
appreciated by all, as well as create deeper bonds with each other
through the joy of experiencing the healing power of nature.
Looking through our windows and
placing a feeder and bird bath in our gardens to attract the birds is a
way to call forth beauty into our lives. As we consciously connect with
our outer world—even when the weather inhibits us from physically being
in it—we see that the splendor we view outside of our windows is simply
a reflection of what lies within us. Published with permission from
Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
“We succeed in enterprises which
demand the positive qualities we possess,” wrote de Tocqueville, “but
we excel in those which can also make use of our defects.” We learn in
The Program that our defects do have value — to the extent that we use
them as the starting point for change and the pathway to better things.
Fear can be a stepping stone to prudence, for example, as well as to
respect for others. Fear can also help us turn away from hate and
toward understanding. In the same way, pride can lead us toward the
road of humility. Am I aware of my direction today? Do I care where I’m
going?
Today I Pray
I pray that my Higher Power will show
me how to use my defects in a positive way, because nothing — not even
fear or selfishness or greed — is all bad. May I trust that every
quality that leads me into trouble has a reverse side that can lead me
out. Pride, for instance, can’t puff itself up unduly without bursting
and demonstrating that it is, in essence, only hot air. May I learn
from my weaknesses.
Today I Will Remember
Good news out of bad.
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One More Day
Just pray for a thick skin and a
tender heart.
– Ruth Graham
There are times when we become angry
or hurt or disappointed by the words or actions of our friends. When we
react in any of these ways, we are focusing on them instead of us. “He
hurt my feelings.” we might say, or “She made me angry.” These
statement point out the error in our reasoning. No one can “make” us
feel a certain way.
Our lives are happier and our emotions
more even when we realize we are choosing our reactions. “I let myself
be angry (or hurt or disappointed).” Knowing this, gives us a choice in
how we let others affect us. We can be less sensitive to real or
imagined wrongs. Instead, we can use our sensitivity to understand the
pain of others.
I will be more loving toward my
friends by overlooking their flaws and underlining their strengths.
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Food For Thought
Turning On
Before OA, many of us were in a self-centered rut. We had little
enthusiasm for anything except food, and food proved to be a false
friend. When we come to OA and admit that we are powerless over food,
we can turn on to a Power greater than ourselves.
Just as we do not need to understand the complexities of electricity in
order to benefit from it, we do not need to understand everything about
God in order to receive His power. Taking the Twelve Steps turns us on
to a new way of life, motivated by faith in a Higher Power.
Turning on to this Power means that we are no longer alone. We do not
have to try to run our lives by ourselves. God can and will relieve us
of our obsession with food and our obsession with self. He gives us
strength and enthusiasm for the living of our daily lives. Through
surrender, we become recipients of the Power of the universe.
Take away the blindness that prevents us from turning on to Your Power.
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One Day At A Time
~ Successful Recovery ~
I always remember an epitaph which is
in the cemetery
at Tombstone, Arizona. It says: 'Here
lies Jack
Williams. He done his damnedest.' I
think that is
the greatest epitaph a man can have.
Harry S. Truman
No matter what their drug of choice,
compulsives all have one thing in common. If we don't practice our
program, we run the risk of relapsing back into the disease.
What separates those who find recovery
and those who don't is this: those who don't find recovery slip and
fall, and don't get up again. They figure, "I've already relapsed, so
why not just continue using my drug of choice? Why not wallow in my
disease?"
Those who recover are like Jack
Williams...they do their damnedest. They continue to read program
literature, they continue to do service, they continue to reach out to
others and to their Higher Power. The winners in this program don't
wallow...they pick themselves up, dust themselves off, and keep on
keeping on.
One day at a time... . . .
I will do my damnedest. I will work my
program to the best of my ability, and if I fall, I won't stay down.
Jeff
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
There I humbly offered myself to God,
as I then understood Him, to do with me as He would. I placed myself
unreservedly under His care and direction. I admitted for the first
time that of myself I was nothing; that without Him I was lost. I
ruthlessly faced my sins and became willing to have my new-found Friend
take them away, root and branch. I have not had a drink since. - Pg. 13
- Bill's Story
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Are we remembering the so-called 'good
times' right now? How nice a 'high' would be? We use this hour to
REALLY think about what got us to this fight for sobriety. It wasn't
because we were having a lot of fun!
Help me to think a drink and drug all
the way through, not just the high but the hell it leads to.
Inside My Mind
Today, I am grateful to feel alive and
to recognize that life is a spiritual journey. All my life
circumstances are spiritual challenges, if I choose to look at them
that way. Getting free of my own over-attachment to people, places,
things and ideas, mistaking them for me, releases my spirit. Once my
spirit is released, it can travel and experience the real beauty of
life. Life surrounds me; it is inside, outside and everywhere. If I am
free and still inside, life is there. If I am not ruminating and
filling my mind with unnecessary preoccupations - life is there, spirit
is there - waiting to be seen and felt.
I allow my mind its freedom.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
'Imagine if at every moment we each
embraced the world as the gift it is: An apple is a gift; the color
pink is a gift; the blue sky is a gift; the scent of honeysuckle is a
gift. Hidden in every experience is a gift,' ~Marcia Prager, The Path
of Blessing: Experiencing the Energy and Abundance of the Divine
What is my gift right now?
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
When you feel your worst, try your
best.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
It feels so good to like myself today.
It feels so good to accept myself today. It feels so good to know that
I am exactly where I need to be, doing what is right for me in this day.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I spent fifteen years out there
looking for my girlfriend. Then I came to the program and got sober,
and I went home one day and I found her; She was my wife. And ain't
that the story of the alcoholic? I spent all that time looking for
something I had all along. - Norm A.
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AA Thought for the Day
November 23
Perspective
Until I could honesty look at myself
and see that I was the problem in many situations and react
appropriately inside
and out;
until I could discard my expectations
and understand that my serenity was directionally proportional to them,
I could not experience serenity and
sound sobriety.
- Daily Reflections,p. 71
Thought to Ponder . . .
My perspective will change my
perception. My perception will change my experience. My experience is
my life.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
A A = Attitude Adjustment.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Faith
"We had seen spiritual release,
but liked to tell ourselves it wasn't
true.
Actually we were fooling ourselves,
for deep down in every man, woman, and
child,
is the fundamental idea of God.
It may be obscured by calamity, by
pomp,
by worship of other things,
but in some form or other it is there.
For faith in a Power greater than
ourselves,
and miraculous demonstrations
of that power in human lives,
are facts as old as man himself."
c. 1976AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, pp.
55
Thought to Consider . . .
Faith is putting all your eggs in
God's basket,
then counting your blessings before
they hatch.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
F A I T H = Finding Answers In The
Heart
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Reliable
>From "God Is Good":
"Each day, God gives us a new
challenge. Sometimes, it is prosperity; sometimes, adversity.
Prosperity can lead to complacency; adversity, to self-pity. Either one
of these reactions is a luxury I cannot afford. I do not always fully
accept my adversities as good while I am going through them, but the
mere fact that I am now able to write these words proves the logic in
my faith that God is good."
1973 AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe,
30th printing 2004, pg. 87
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"The Twelve Steps are deceptively
simple but provide limitless spiritual growth for anyone with the
patience to stay the course."
Riverside, Ill., September 2007
"It Works for Me,"
Voices of Long-Term Sobriety
~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N' Twelve
Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
3rd Step Prayer:
"God, I offer myself to Thee to build
with me and to do with
me as Thou wilt. Relieve me of the
bondage of self, that I may better
do Thy will. Take away my
difficulties, that victory over them may
bear witness to those I would help of
Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy
Way of life. May I do Thy will always!"
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
How It Works, pg. 63~
"I earnestly advise every alcoholic to
read this book through , and though perhaps he came to scoff , he may
remain to pray" Dr. W.D. Silkworth M.D.
Alcoholics Anonymous p.xxx
For if an alcoholic failed to perfect
and enlarge his spiritual life through work and self-sacrifice for
others, he could not survive the certain trials and low spots ahead.
-Alcoholics Anonymous p.15
When, with God's help, we calmly
accepted our lot, then we found we could live at peace with ourselves
and show others who still suffered the same fears that they could get
over them, too.
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p.122
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
The immediate object of our quest is
sobriety-freedom from alcohol and from all its baleful consequences.
Without this freedom, we have nothing at all.
Paradoxically, though, we can achieve
no liberation from the alcohol obsession until we become willing to
deal with those character defects which have landed us in that helpless
condition. In this freedom quest, we are always given three choices.
A rebellious refusal to work upon our
glaring defects can be an almost certain ticket to destruction. Or,
perhaps for a time, we can stay sober with a minimum of
self-improvement and settle ourselves into a comfortable but often
dangerous mediocrity. Or, finally, we can continuously try hard for
those sterling qualities that can add up to fineness of spirit and
action - true and lasting freedom under God.
Prayer for the Day: Teach Me -
Teach me, God, so that I might know
The way to change and the way to grow.
Give me the words to ask You how
To handle the here and live in the now.
Tempt me not with valleys of death,
Give me freedom from fear in every
breath.
And though mistakes I make in my daily
life,
Deliver me from aiding strife.
Understand me, God, as I am now
And show me the furrows I need to plow
To reach my goal as a ripening food,
So I might feed others all that is
good.
Fill me with energy known as the Power,
Until I come to rest at the midnight
hour.