VITAL
SUSTENANCE
Those of us who have come to make regular use of prayer would no more
do without
it than we would refuse air, food, sunshine. And for the same reason.
When we refuse
air, light or food, the body suffers. And when we turn away from
meditation and prayer,
we likewise deprive our minds, our emotions, and our intuitions of
vitally needed
support.
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 97
Step Eleven doesn't have to overwhelm me. Conscious contact with God
can be as
simple, and as profound, as conscious contact with another human being.
I can smile.
I can listen. I can forgive. Every encounter with another is an
opportunity for prayer,
for acknowledging God's presence within me. Today I can bring myself a
little closer to
my Higher Power. The more I choose to seek the beauty of God's work in
other people,
the more certain of His presence I will become.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
I am less sensitive and my feelings are less easily hurt. I no longer
take myself so
seriously. It didn't use to take much to insult me, to feel that I had
been slighted or
left on the outside. What happens to me now is not so important. One
cause of our
drinking was because we couldn't take it, so we escaped the unpleasant
situation. We
have learned to take it on the chin if necessary and smile. When I am
all wrapped
up in A.A., I do not notice the personal slights so much. They do not
seem to matter so
much. I have learned to laugh at self-pity, because it's so childish.
Am I less sensitive?
Meditation For The Day
God's miracle-working power is as manifest today as it was in the past.
It still works
miracles of change in lives and miracles of healing in twisted minds.
When a person
trusts wholly in God and leaves to Him the choosing of the day and
hour, there is
God's miracle-working power becoming manifest in that person's life. So
we can
trust in God and have boundless faith in His power to make us whole
again,
whenever He chooses.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may be sure that there is nothing that God cannot
accomplish in
changing my life. I pray that I may have faith in His miracle-working
power.
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As Bill Sees It
Vision
Beyond
Today, p. 317
Vision is, I think the ability to make good estimates, both for the
immediate and for the more distant future. Some might feel this sort
of striving to be heresy against "One day at a time." But that
valuable principle really refers to our mental and emotional lives and
means chiefly that we are not foolishly to repine over the past nor
wishfully to daydream about the future.
As individuals and as a fellowship, we shall surely suffer if we cast
the
whole job of planning for tomorrow onto a fatuous idea of providence.
God's real providence has endowed us human beings with a
considerable capability for foresight, and He evidently expects us to
use it. Of course, we shall often miscalculate the future in whole or in
part, but that is better than to refuse to think at all.
Twelve Concepts, p. 40
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Walk In Dry Places
The
loss
of
choice
Freedom
Many alcoholics are vigorous defenders of free choice. We have to
concede, however, that our choices are not always limited by the
tyranny of others. Our own actions can take away from freedom of choice.
Recovering people in AA have learned that taking even one drink will
result in the loss of choice, and it is not just a temporary loss of
sobriety that one faces. It's always possible that the person who
drinks again may never recovery sobriety.
In the same way, other actions represent loss of choice in our
lives. other actions represent loss of choice in our lives. A
person who cheats, for example, may learn that he or she has no choice
over the unpleasant outcomes that follow.
We can protect our freedom of choice by deciding only to take actions
that will strengthen such freedom in the future. At no time
should we make any choices that rob us of our precious right to choose.
Every action I take today must help me keep favorable options open in
the future. My right to choose was restored by AA, and I must
help protect it.
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Keep It Simple
The best way to know
God is to love many things.---Vincent Van Gogh
Now that we're in recovery, we're learning to love people. We're
learning
to love nature.
We're learning to love new ideas about life. The result? We love the
way
we feel now that we're taking care of ourselves.
Is our Higher Power really so close? Can we really find our Higher
Power
just by loving many things? Yes! When we love, we wake up that part of
us
that is part of all creation---our spirit. We really come to life when
we
love!
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, remind me that You are near
when I love someone or
something. The energy of love come from You.
Action for the Day: I will list three things I love that help me
know my Higher Power is near
me.
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Each Day a New Beginning
Zeal is the faculty igniting the other mind powers into the full flame
of activity. --Sylvia Stitt Edwards
When enthusiasm is absent in our lives, no activity appears inviting.
In fact, most situations foster fear. With fear, we're ever so
familiar. The program we're committed to relieves us of all fear, when
we work it. And it offers us the enthusiasm that will guarantee
positive outcomes for our efforts, when we look to our higher power for
the right attitude.
An open, trusting, sincere relationship with our higher power equals
enthusiasm about life. But that relationship takes work on our part.
When we've done our homework we discover that no lesson will baffle us.
Prayer and meditation make all things understandable and guarantee that
we will "pass the course" on life.
I will begin this day, and every day, looking to God for the gift of
zeal to live fully every moment, to give fully what I have to give, and
to glory fully in all that I receive. My attitude of gratitude will
increase my happiness manyfold. I will look to this day with zeal.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
BILL'S STORY
We landed in England. I visited Winchester Cathedral. Much moved, I
wandered outside. My attention was caught by a doggerel on an old
tombstone:
"Here lies a Hampshire Grenadier
Who caught his death
Drinking cold small beer.
A good soldier is ne'er forgot
Whether he dieth by musket
Or by pot."
Ominous warning - which I failed to heed.
p. 1
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
Student Of Life
Living at home with her parents,
she tried using willpower to beat the obsession to drink. But it
wasn't until she met another alcoholic and went to an A.A. meeting that
sobriety took hold.
It is very important to my recovery to study and work
the Steps. To this day, I still make at least two Step meetings a week.
I have a sponsor who guides me through the Steps gently but firmly,
with a sure-handedness I hope I am able to emulate with the two women I
now sponsor. The Promises have begun to materialize for me, and there's
still so much work to do.
pp. 326-327
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step Two - "Came to believe
that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity."
"When we encountered A.A., the fallacy of our defiance was revealed. At
no time had we asked what God's will was for us; instead we had been
telling Him what it ought to be. No man, we saw, could believe in God
and defy Him, too. Belief meant reliance, not; defiance. In A.A., we
saw the fruits of this belief: men and women spared from alcohol's
final catastrophe. We saw them meet and transcend their other pains and
trials. We saw them calmly accept impossible situations, seeking
neither to run nor to recriminate. This was not only faith; it was
faith that worked under all conditions. We soon concluded that whatever
price in humility we must pay, we would pay."
p. 31
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"Holding
on
to
anger
is like grasping
a hot coal with the intent of
throwing it at
someone else; you are the one who gets burned."
--Buddha
The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but
in having new
eyes.
--Marcel Proust
Today I am learning to think and act in a positive way that is healthy
for my mind, body
and spirit.
--Ruth Fishel
"The wisest person is not the one who has the fewest failures but the
one who turns
failures to best account."
--Richard R. Grant
"I don't stay clean on yesterday's recovery."
--unknown
"We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The
amount of work
is the same."
--Carlos Castenada
"It may be that one reason a dog is a good friend is his tail wags and
not his tongue."
--unknown
Remember that God values you for who you are, not what you do.
--unknown
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
COMFORT
"No man knows of what stuff he
is made until prosperity and
ease try him."
-- A. P. Gouthey
I must be careful that I do not get too comfortable and self-confident.
I must be careful
that I do not plateau at this stage of my journey into sobriety and
relax in past
achievements. Sometimes I hear the disease of addiction saying to me,
"You've done all
you need now relax; take it easy."
Sometimes the sick voice says, "Listen to the stupidity of these newly
recovering
people: avoid them!" "You don't need meeting now just sit and talk with
your
friends." Historically I know that when things are going well for me,
that is when I
need to be careful. A complacent and indulgent sobriety is dangerous.
It leads to the
disarming slip of arrogance and false pride.
I need to remember the pain of my yesterdays; I need to hear the newly
recovering; I
need to hear the pain if I am to continue to gain. My disease will
forever speak, but
will I listen?
Teach me to embrace a humility that enables me to enjoy a realistic
sobriety.
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"You
hold my right hand. You guide me with your counsel."
Psalm 73:23-24
"As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than
your ways and my
thoughts than your thoughts."
Isaiah 55:9
"Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what
it says. Anyone
who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man, who
looks at his face in
a mirror and after looking at himself, goes away and immediately
forgets what he looks
like.
James 1:22-24
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Daily Inspiration
If you give up and let things just happen to you, you will open the
door to a helpless, passive existence and bring on needless sorrow.
Lord, open my eyes to see that You and I can determine the outcome of
my day and the direction of my life and that the result of refusing to
let my environment control me is a tremendous inner strength , a joyful
spirit and a constant reason to smile.
Often times that which we find difficult is that which teaches. Lord,
may I always be able to see the good that comes from even my trials.
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NA Just For Today
Letting Go
"Take my will and my life. Guide me in
my recovery. Show me how to live."
Basic Text p. 25
How do we begin the process of letting
our Higher Power guide our lives? When we seek advice about situations
that trouble us, we often find that our Higher Power works through
others. When we accept that we don't have all the answers, we open
ourselves to new and different options. A willingness to let go of our
preconceived ideas and opinions opens the channel for spiritual
guidance to light our way.
At times, we must be driven to the
point of distraction before we are ready to turn difficult situations
over to our Higher Power. Anxiously plotting, struggling, planning,
worrying - none of these suffice. We can be sure that if we turn our
problems over to our Higher Power, through listening to others share
their experience or in the quiet of meditation, the answers will come.
There is no point in living a frantic
existence. Charging through life like the house is on fire exhausts us
and gets us nowhere. In the long run, no amount of manipulation on our
part will change a situation. When we let go and allow ourselves access
to a Higher Power, we will discover the best way to proceed. Rest
assured, answers derived from a sound spiritual basis will be far
superior to any answers we could concoct on our own.
Just for today: I will let go and let
my Higher Power guide my life.
pg. 333
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
Growing is like running a twenty-six
mile marathon. If we give up on the twenty-fourth mile, we will never
know what it feels like to finish the race. --Anonymous
There will be times in our growth when
we will want to give up. Our pain seems to have no end to it. In a
sense, we are like the runner of a marathon on her twenty-fourth mile.
She may think she cannot finish the race; she may lose her ability to
see things as they are.
If she can remember previous
successes, she will no doubt make the decision to go on, to at least
give the race her best shot. It does not matter how may people come in
before or after her. It matters only that she has not given up. When
she crosses the finish line, the pain turns quickly into joy.
When we refuse to give up, we give
ourselves an accomplishment we can rejoice in, the reward of knowing we
have done our best.
What can I finish that I gave up on
earlier?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
To wait for moments or places where no
pain exists, no separation is felt and where all human restlessness has
turned into inner peace is waiting for a dream world. --Henri J. M.
Nouwen
Anytime we do a spot check on our
anxiety or personal restlessness we will probably find some. As long as
we are aware and alive we can expect to have some discomfort, some fear
of loss, some doubt. Our program does not totally rid us of these
pains. Perhaps our old ways sought absolute peace or escape through
abuse of chemicals or food or gambling or sex, but the serenity we seek
in our recovery comes through honesty with ourselves and acceptance of
the incompleteness of our lives.
When we make room for the pain in our
lives, we allow the river of our emotions to flow. It will carry us
along to other feelings like happiness and peace. Conflicting feelings
can exist side by side in our lives, and when we try to control true
feelings of restlessness or pain, we dam the flow of emotions and block
the pleasant ones as well as the difficult ones.
I am moving to a real world where I
know and accept my feelings.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
Zeal is the faculty igniting the other
mind powers into the full flame of activity. --Sylvia Stitt Edwards
When enthusiasm is absent in our
lives, no activity appears inviting. In fact, most situations foster
fear. With fear, we're ever so familiar. The program we're committed to
relieves us of all fear, when we work it. And it offers us the
enthusiasm that will guarantee positive outcomes for our efforts, when
we look to our higher power for the right attitude.
An open, trusting, sincere
relationship with our higher power equals enthusiasm about life. But
that relationship takes work on our part. When we've done our homework
we discover that no lesson will baffle us. Prayer and meditation make
all things understandable and guarantee that we will "pass the course"
on life.
I will begin this day, and every day,
looking to God for the gift of zeal to live fully every moment, to give
fully what I have to give, and to glory fully in all that I receive. My
attitude of gratitude will increase my happiness manyfold. I will look
to this day with zeal.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Benefits of Recovery
There are two benefits from recovery:
we have short-term gains and long-term gains.
The short-term gains are the things we
can do today that help us feel better immediately.
We can wake up in the morning, read
for a few minutes in our meditation book, and feel lifted. We can work
a Step and often notice an immediate difference in the way we feel and
function. We can go to a meeting and feel refreshed, talk to a friend
and feel comforted, or practice a new recovery behavior, such as
dealing with our feelings or doing something good for ourselves, and
feel relieved.
There are other benefits from
recovery, though, that we don't see immediately on a daily or even a
monthly basis. These are the long-term gains, the larger progress we
make in our life.
Over the years, we can see tremendous
rewards. We can watch ourselves grow strong in faith, until we have a
daily personal relationship with a Higher Power that is as real to us
as a relationship with a best friend.
We can watch ourselves grow beautiful
as we shed shame, guilt, resentments, self-hatred, and other negative
buildups from our past.
We can watch the quality of our
relationships improve with family, friends, and spouses. We find
ourselves growing steadily and gradually in our capacity to be intimate
and close, to give and receive.
We can watch ourselves grow in our
careers, in our ability to be creative, powerful, productive people,
using our gifts and talents in a way that feels good and benefits
others.
We discover the joy and beauty in
ourselves, others, and life.
The long-term progress is steady, but
sometimes slow, happening in increments and often with much forward and
backward movement. Enough days at a time of practicing recovery
behaviors and piling up short term gains leads to long-term rewards.
Today, I will be grateful for the
immediate and long-term rewards of recovery. If I am new to recovery, I
will have faith that I can achieve the long-term benefits. If I've been
recovering for a while, I will pause to reflect, and be grateful for my
overall progress.
Today I am learning to think and act
in a positive way that is healthy for my mind, body and spirit. --Ruth
Fishel
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Journey to the Heart
The Light Will Illuminate Your Path
It was almost eleven o’clock at night.
I was driving down a highway in Colorado on the west side of the
mountains. I was exhausted, driving and driving, hoping I was going
somewhere, hoping the road led to someplace where I could rest and
replenish myself. Whenever I would become fearful, wondering if I had
taken complete leave of my senses, i’d look up in the sky. A crescent
moon was snuggled between two mountians. It seemed to urge me on,
beckoning me to drive toward it.
Finally, I reached the place marked by
the moon. It was a lodge not listed in any directory, in a town not
even on any map. It had a mineral bath on the grounds and, yes, an
available room.
Sometimes when I’m driving late at
night on a strange road and I’m not sure which turn to take, I look for
a light. The moon might be setting above a particular place, lighting
it with its glow. The lights of a city might brighten one direction
more than another. A certain road appears lighter, feels better, feels
right.
Often that’s what happens in our
lives. When we get to a fork in the road and we’re not certain which
direction to go, there’s usually one path that appears lighter than
another. Sometimes the light is dim. Sometimes it can only be seen with
the eyes of our soul, the eyes of our heart. But it’s also a light that
can be clouded and blocked by fear, tenseness, and lack of faith.
Relax. Tune into your body. Trust your
heart. Look around. When you don’t know which way to go next, wait.
Soon a path will open up. It will appear lighter. It will feel right.
When in doubt, go toward the light.
When you get to a fork in the road, choose the way that feels lightest.
The light will take you to the next place. The light will lead you home.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Teach others they can,too
One good way to help ourselves believe
we can is by helping others learn they can,too.
Some of us call this “being of
service.”
In Twelve Step programs, they call
this “carrying the message.” No matter how much recovery time we have,
we can share our experience, strength, and hope with others. We can
tell them how we were set free, how it felt in the beginning, and how
it feels now, so they’ll believe they can do it,too.
I’ve found even in skydiving that it
helps me to share my experience, strength, and hope with skydivers
newer to the sport than I am. When I am telling them that it’s okay,
that they can do it, I’m really telling myself I can do it,too.
Often in my everyday life, the things
I’m telling others they need to do, or can learn, are the very things I
need to be telling myself. Repetition forms belief. If we tell others,
we’re telling ourselves. The belief in them grows stronger. The belief
in us is strengthened,too.
Some people say, “When the student is
ready, the teacher will appear.” That may be true. But sometimes when
the student appears, it’s because the teacher is ready to learn the
lesson,too.
Sometimes helping others is how we
help ourselves. And giving it away is often how we get to have some
ourselves.
God, help me be of service. Help me
remember the value of serving others– that it strengthens and uplifts
them and blesses and helps me,too.
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Summon Your Aliveness
Being Fully Present by Madisyn Taylor
When we live fully in the moment there
is an aliveness that comes easily.
When we are fully present, we offer
our whole selves to whatever it is that we are doing. Our attention,
our integrity, and our energy are all focused in the moment and on the
task at hand. This is a powerful experience, and when we are in this
state, we feel completely alive and invigorated. This kind of aliveness
comes easily when we are absorbed in work or play that we love, but it
is available to us in every moment, and we can learn to summon it
regardless of what we are doing. Even tasks or jobs we don’t enjoy can
become infused with the light of being present. The more present we
are, the more meaningful our entire lives become.
Next time you find yourself fully
engaged in the moment, whether you are making art, trying to solve an
interesting puzzle, or talking to your best friend, you may want to
take a moment to notice how you feel. You may observe that you are not
thinking about what you need to do next, your body feels like it’s
pleasantly humming, or your brain feels tingly. As you enjoy the
feeling of being located entirely in the present moment, you can inform
yourself that you may try to recall this feeling later. You might try
this while driving home or getting ready for bed, allowing yourself to
be just as engaged in that experience as you were in the earlier one.
The more we draw ourselves into the
present moment, the more we honor the gift of our lives, and the more
we honor the people around us. When we are fully present, we give and
receive aliveness in equal measure. For today, try to be fully present
in your daily activities and watch a new reality open for you.
Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
As a newcomer, I was told that my
admission of my powerlessness over alcohol was my first step toward
freedom from its deadly grip. I soon came to realize the truth of that
fact. In that regard, surrender was a dire necessity. But for me that
was only a small beginning toward acquiring humility. I’ve learned in
The Program that to be willing to work for humility — as something to
be desired for itself — takes most of us a long, long time. Do I
realize that a whole lifetime geared to self-centeredness can’t be
shifted into reverse in a split second?
Today I Pray
May I search for my own humility as a
quality that I must cultivate to survive, not just an admission that I
am powerless over my compulsive behavior. Step One is just that — step
one — in the direction of acquiring an attitude of humility. May I be
realistic enough to know that this may take half a lifetime.
Today I Will Remember
Pride blew it; let humility have a
chance.
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One More Day
There is always room for improvement,
you know — it’s the biggest room in the house.
– Louise Heath Leber
Acceptance of criticism is very hard,
even when it’s given constructively. As small children we have bristled
at suggestions about our drawings or toy houses we made. We liked
things to be the way we wanted them to be.
Not everyone is so talented or
sensitive that they can offer criticism without it hurting. We do
ourselves justice when we learn to listen to most criticism. Of course,
we remain the right to disagree.
We understand that criticism is often
tempered with love and understanding. A Receptiveness to criticism
helps us become less rigid and more willing to change.
I can accept criticism and try to
change when it will benefit me.
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Food For Thought
Loving Truth
Since it is truth that sets us free - free from our addiction and free
from crippling fear - we come to love this truth, even when it hurts.
It was mainly our fear that kept us from recognizing the truth about
ourselves. We needed help and support from a Higher Power before we
could face reality. Now that the OA program sustains us, we can devote
our time and energy to striving for truth in all that we think, say,
and do.
Our devotion to truth may bring us into conflict with those around us.
What we need to remember is that we are not responsible for convincing
anyone else of what we believe to be true. We are honest about where we
are, but we do not expect or demand agreement from anyone else. Since
each of us has a different perspective, we can only know the truth, as
we each understand it. Loving truth means that we acknowledge it to be
too big for any one of us to grasp completely.
Increase my devotion to Your truth.
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One Day At A Time
STEP TWO
"The definition of insanity is doing
the same thing over and over again
and expecting a different result."
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
While in the grip of my disease I
tried many things to deal with my compulsive overeating. I tried many,
many diets, fasting, exercise programs, treatment, therapy, church and
even resorted to weight loss surgery. I did the same thing over and
over again – I tried outward solutions to fix an inward problem. And
the sad thing was I somehow thought that I would get different results:
a permanent change of my compulsive overeating. But it did not work
that way. It was acting with insanity. I was frustrated and very, very
sad. All along, I knew there was something wrong with me, that I was
not “normal”, but I didn’t know what to do about it.
Then the blessing of the program came
to me. I learned about Step Two: “Came to believe that a Power greater
than ourselves could restore us to sanity.” I came to believe that was
true. I finally was doing something different. Never before had I
approached my compulsive overeating on three levels all at the same
time. I had never seen my disease as a physical, emotional and
spiritual disease that needed addressing at the same time, one day at a
time. I began to slowly learn how to do this through the steps and the
tools, with the help of sponsors and friends in the program. I found
myself doing something different and getting different results. I found
my sanity returning, piece by piece.
One Day at a Time . . .
I will do something different, knowing
I will get different results.
~ Carolyn
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
We doctors have realized for a long
time that some form of moral psychology was of urgent importance to
alcoholics, but it's application presented difficulties beyond our
conception. What with our ultra-modern standards, our scientific
approach to everything, we are perhaps not well equipped to apply the
powers of good that lie outside our synthetic knowledge. - Pg. xxvii -
4th. Edition - The Doctor's Opinion
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Whatever time it is that we are
reading this, we may feel anxious about what the rest of the day will
bring. But our program is a 'now' program. Later will bring what later
will bring, right now we're clean and sober!
I will meditate briefly on the phrase
'Be Here Now' to better understand my new way of life.
Being in the Moment
Today, I see that the only real point
of power is in the present, which is to say that life cannot be lived
backward or forward, but only in the context of today. If I truly let
myself have this moment and all that it contains, I will be in quiet
possession of great eternal wealth. All that is, is in this moment
where all the waters meet and all the wisdom of the ages lies; it is
the now that calls me to it with open arms. I work out my past, not
because it is right or good or proper, but because it allows me to be
in fuller possession of my present. By releasing and returning to me
those parts of me that remain prisoner in my own psychic and emotional
jail, I can have access to the now. I allow myself this moment.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
We not only attempt geographical
'cures' while drinking, but often while clean and sober too. When you
make a move 'for the better,' unless you can honestly say you are
running to something positive, then you are running from something that
you haven't faced.
No matter how fast or how far I go, I
can't outrun myself.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Not drinking is a symptom of your
recovery.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I am learning to think and act
in a positive way that is healthy for my mind, body and spirit.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
Laughter is the music of Alcoholics
Anonymous. - Angie D.
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AA Thought for the Day
November 15
Gratitude
Today I am grateful for a new life,
one in which my prayers are those of thanksgiving.
My prayer time is more for listening
than for talking.
I know today that if I cannot change
the wind, I can adjust my sail.
- Daily Reflections, p. 314
Thought to Ponder . . .
There is a calmness to a life lived in
gratitude, a quiet joy.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
H J F = Happy, Joyous, Free.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Pain
"Though I still find it difficult to
accept
today's pain and anxiety with any
great degree of serenity
-- as those more advanced in the
spiritual life
seem able to do --
I can give thanks for present pain
nevertheless.
I find the willingness to do this
by contemplating the lessons learned
from past suffering
-- lessons which have led to the
blessings I now enjoy.
I can remember how the agonies of
alcoholism,
the pain of rebellion and thwarted
pride,
have often led me to God's grace, and
so to a new freedom."
Bill W., Grapevine, March 1962
c. 1967AAWS, As Bill Sees It, p. 266
Thought to Consider . . .
Joy isn't the absence of pain -- it's
the presence of God.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
A B C = Acceptance, Belief, Change
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Wrong
>From "When A.A. Came of Age":
"After a long interval we heard from
the promoter. He wrote, 'You told us that outside enterprises can be
fine and very helpful. But you also said that they could not be mixed
with A.A. I figured that they could be, and should be. Well, you folks
at Headquarters were right and I was wrong.'
"With his letter, the promoter sent us
a card, which he had already mailed to every group in the United
States. It was folded like a golf score card, and on the outside was
printed, 'Group so-and-so, place so-and-so. Rule No. 62.' When the card
was unfolded a single pungent sentence met the eye: 'Don't take
yourself too damned seriously.'"
2001 AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics Anonymous
Comes of Age, pg. 104
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"More than a million of us who suffer
from the disease of alcoholism have found not just the ability to live
with or survive this insidious disease, but a joyful way of life as new
as this morning and as old as mankind. We can gain sobriety, aspire to
serenity, at no greater price than caring for our fellow sufferers and
sharing with them what has been freely given to us. We can experience
the true joy of love that we once tried to destroy by not giving it
away, and we can learn the truth that the more we give away, the more
we will have."
Brick Town, N.J., January 1977
"Because One Man Was Lonely,"
AA Grapevine
~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N' Twelve
Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"We never apologize to anyone for
depending upon our Creator. We can
laugh at those who think spirituality
the way of weakness.
Paradoxically, it is the way of
strength. The verdict of the ages is
that faith means courage. All men of
faith have courage. They trust
their God. We never apologize for God.
Instead we let Him
demonstrate, through us, what He can
do. We ask Him to remove our
fear and direct our attention to what
He would have us be. At once,
we commence to outgrow fear."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
How It Works, pg. 68~
When working with a man and his
family, you should take care not to
participate in their quarrels. You may
spoil your chance of being
helpful if you do. But urge upon a
man's family that he has been a
very sick person and should be treated
accordingly. You should warn
against arousing resentment or
jealousy. You should point out that
his defects of character are not going
to disappear over night. Show
them that he has entered upon a period
of growth. Ask them to
remember, when they are impatient, the
blessed fact of his sobriety.
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Working With Others, pg. 100~
We will comprehend the word serenity
and we will know peace.
-Alcoholics Anonymous p.84
Can we accept poverty, sickness,
loneliness, and bereavement with courage and serenity?
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p.112
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Many people wonder how A.A. can
function under a seeming anarchy. Other societies have to have law and
force and sanction and punishment, administered by authorized people.
Happily for us, we found that we need no human authority whatever. We
have two authorities which are far more effective. One is benign, the
other malign.
There is God, our Father, who very
simply says, 'I am waiting for you to do my will.' The other authority
is named John Barleycorn, and he says, 'You had better do God's will or
I will kill you.'
The A.A. Traditions are neither rules,
regulations, nor laws. We obey them willingly because we ought to and
because we want to. Perhaps the secret of their power lies in the fact
that these life-giving communications spring out of living experience
and are rooted in love.
Prayer for the Day: Against Temptations - May the strength of
my Higher Power guide me. May the power of my Higher Power preserve me.
May the wisdom of my Higher Power instruct me. May the hand of God
protect me. May the way of God direct me. May the shield of God defend
me. And may the presence of, and belief in, my Higher Power guard me
against the temptations of the world.