TRUSTED SERVANTS
They are servants. Theirs is the sometimes thankless
privilege of doing the group's chores.
TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 134
In Zorba the Greek, Nikos Kazantzakis describes an
encounter between his principle character and an old
man busily at work planting a tree. "What is it that
you are doing?" Zorba asks. The old man replies: "You
can see very well what I am doing, my son, I'm planting
a tree." "But why plant a tree," Zorba asks, "if you
won't be able to see it bear fruit?" And the old man
answers: "I, my son, live as though I were never going
to die." The response brings a faint smile to Zorba's
lips and, as he walks away, he exclaims with a note of
irony: "How strange -- I live as though I were going
to die tomorrow!"
As a member of Alcoholics Anonymous, I have found that
the Third Legacy is a fertile soil in which to plant
the tree of my sobriety. The fruits I harvest are
wonderful: peace, security, understanding and twenty-four
hours of eternal fulfillment; and with the soundness of
mind to listen to the voice of my conscience when, in
silence, it gently speaks to me, saying: You must let go
in service. There are others who must plant the harvest.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
Before I met A.A. I was very dishonest. I lied to my wife
constantly about where I had been and what I'd been doing.
I took time off from the office and pretended I'd been
sick or gave some other dishonest excuse. I was dishonest
with myself, as well as with other people. I would never
face myself as I really was or admit when I was wrong. I
pretended to myself that I was as good as the next fellow,
although I suspected I wasn't. Am I now really honest?
Meditation For The Day
I must live in the world and yet live apart with God. I can
go forth from my secret times of communion with God to the
work of the world. To get the spiritual strength I need, my
inner life must be lived apart from the world. I must wear
the world as a loose garment. Nothing in the world should
seriously upset me, as long as my inner life is lived with
God. All successful living arises from this inner life.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may live my inner life with God. I pray that
nothing shall invade or destroy that secret place of peace.
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As Bill Sees It
Will Power
And Choice, p. 88
"We A.A.'s know the futility of trying to break the drinking
obsession by will power alone. However, we do know that it takes
great willingness to adopt A.A.'s Twelve Steps as a way of life that
can restore us to sanity.
"No matter how grievous the alcohol obsession, we happily find that
other vital choices can still be made. For example, we can choose to
admit that we are personally powerless over alcohol; that
dependence upon a 'Higher Power' is a necessity, even if this be
simply dependence upon an A.A. group. Then we can choose to try
for a life of honesty and humility, of selfless service to our fellows
and to 'God as we understand Him.'
"As we continue to make these choices and so move toward these
high aspirations, our sanity returns and the compulsion to drink
vanishes,"
Letter, 1966
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Walk in Dry Places
Stick with the winners
Making the Right Choices
In the world of drinking, people lead each other down paths of further
destruction. In the world of AA, that same destructive process can
still go on through wrong thinking. It's possible for AA members
to encourage resentments, criticism, gossip, and other dead-end
practices.
That's why people are urged to "stick with the winners" in order to
find and maintain sobriety. Seek out people who are doing well in
the program, people whose progress is noticeable and admirable. The can
be of real help as sponsors, as friends, or simply as role models.
It's important to remember that the winners can be from all walks of
life. The first AA member in Detroit earned only a modest living, while
the second Detroit member became a wealthy manufacturer after finding
sobriety. In AA terms, both men were winners. They stayed sober,
they stayed active in the fellowship, and they helped others.
"Sticking with the winners" does not mean we should shun people who are
having difficulty with the program. It does mean we should avoid
accepting ideas and ways of living that do not lead to sobriety.
I'll spend time in the company of people who have a good record of
following the program.
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Keep It Simple
Whatever is in the heart will come up to the
tongue.---Persian proverb
During our illness, we wouldn't let people get close to us. We spoke of
what was in our heart. And much of what filled our heart was sadness,
anger, and hopelessness. Those who want to be close to us heard what
was in our heart. In short, we had become our illness. Recovery is
about changing what's in our heart. We open our hearts up to our Higher
Power. The first three Steps are about honesty and needing others.
They're about turning our will and our lives over to a Higher Power.
If you're wondering where you are with these Steps, listen to the words
you speak.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, keep my heart open to the first
three Steps.
Action for the Day: Today, I'll work at really listening to what
I have to say.
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Each Day a New Beginning
Love is an expression and assertion of self-esteem, a response to one's
own values in the person of another. --Ayn Rand
The struggle to love one another may be a daily one for us, and it is
made more difficult because we are still stumbling in our attempts at
self-love. Many of us have lived our whole adult lives feeling
inadequate, dull, unattractive, fearing the worst regarding our
relationships with others.
But this phase, this struggle, is passing. We see a woman we like in
the mirror each morning. We did a task or a favor yesterday that we
felt good about. And when we feel good about our accomplishments, we
look with a loving eye on the persons around us. Self-love does
encourage other love.
Self-love takes practice. It's new behavior. We can begin to measure
what we are doing, rather than what we haven't yet managed to do, and
praise ourselves. Nurturing our inner selves invites further expression
of the values that are developing, values that will carry us to new
situations and new opportunities for accomplishments, and finally to
loving the woman who looks back at us every morning.
Self-love makes me vulnerable and compassionate towards others. It's
the balm for all wounds; it multiplies as it's expressed. It can begin
with my smile.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 8 - TO WIVES
We seldom had friends at our homes, never knowing how or when the men
of the house would appear. We could make few social engagements. We
came to live almost alone. When we were invited out, our husbands
sneaked so many drinks that they spoiled the occasion. If, on the other
hand, they took nothing, their self-pity made them killjoys.
p. 105
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
The Man Who Mastered Fear
He spent eighteen years in running away, and then found he didn't have
to run. So he started A.A. in Detroit.
Spring came. I went for first walk. Half a block from the
house. I tried to turn the corner. Fear froze me in my
tracks, but the instant I turned back toward home, this paralyzing fear
left me. This was the beginning of an unending series of such
experiences. I told our family doctor---an understanding man who
gave hours of his time trying to help me---about this experience.
He told me that it was imperative that I walk around the entire block,
cost me what it might in mental agony. I carried out his
instructions. When I reached a point directly back of our house,
where I could have cut through a friend's garden, I was almost over
powered by the desire to get home, but I made the whole journey.
Probably only a few readers of this story will be able, from personal
experiences of their own, to understand the exhilaration and sense of
accomplishment I felt after finishing this seemingly assignment.
p. 247
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step Ten - "Continued to take
personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it."
But in other instances only the closest scrutiny will reveal what our
true motives were. There are cases where our ancient enemy,
rationalization, has stepped in and has justified conduct which was
really wrong. The temptation here is to imagine that we had good
motives and reasons when we really didn't.
p. 94
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People
always
ask,
"How
did
you succeed?" Simply put, I chose not to
fail.
--Xernona Clayton
"Real friendship is shown in times of trouble; prosperity is full of
friends."
--Euripides
Honesty gets us sober, tolerance keeps us sober.
--Bill W.
"To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved."
--George MacDonald
"The principles you live by create the world you live in; if you change
the
principles you live by, you will change your world."
--Blaine Lee
"Many a man curses the rain that falls upon his head, and knows not
that it brings abundance to drive away hunger."
--St. Basil
"If the only prayer you say in your life is 'thank you,' that would
suffice."
--Meister Eckhart
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
OPINIONS
"Opinions cannot survive if one
has no chance to fight for them."
-- Thomas Mann
An opinion is worth fighting for, and I have opinions on a great number
of subjects --- as a result of sobriety.
Drugs have a tendency to make insane remarks appear brilliant; the
drunk is always the unsung poet or victimized genius when he is "in
alcohol". I did not have opinions when I was drinking but rather a
series
of chaotic and incoherent reactions.
But today I have considered opinions. I am able to think and make
decisions. I am able to make a contribution to life and the world in
which
I live. I am involved.
More than this, today I have the spiritual confidence to fight for what
I
believe and "speak out" my concerns in love. Today I am alive and I
love it --- also I love me.
Let me always hear the opinions of others but not fail to express my
own.
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Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the
renewing of your mind.
Romans 12:2
'Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be
saved; for thou art my praise."
Jeremiah 17:14
"No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God
is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.
But
when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can
stand up under it."
I Corinthians 10:13
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Daily Inspiration
Few things are worthy of worry and fewer are worthy of anger. Lord,
bless me with patience for my circumstances and wisdom to overcome the
obstacles.
We only have so much time and so much energy in a day. To use it
grumbling leaves less time for enjoyment and accomplishment. Lord, may
I focus on looking for Your blessings in every part of my life.
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NA Just For Today
Our Own True Will
"God's will for us consists of the
very things we most value. God's will... becomes our own true will for
ourselves."
Basic Text p. 46
It's human nature to want something
for nothing. We may be ecstatic when a store cashier gives us back
change for a twenty though we only paid with a ten. We tend to think
that, if no one knows, one small deception won't make any difference.
But someone does know—we do. And it does make a difference.
What worked for us when we used,
frequently doesn't work long in recovery. As we progress spiritually by
working the Twelve Steps, we begin to develop new values and standards.
We begin to feel uncomfortable when we take advantage of situations
that, when we used, would have left us gloating about what we had
gotten away with.
In the past, we may have victimized
others. However, as we draw closer to our Higher Power, our values
change. God's will becomes more important than getting away with
something.
When our values change, our lives
change, too. Guided by an inner knowledge given us by our Higher Power,
we want to live out our newfound values. We have internalized our
Higher Power's will for us—in fact, God's will has become our own true
will for ourselves.
Just for today: By improving my
conscious contact with God, my values have changed. Today, I will
practice God's will, my own true will.
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
Drag your thoughts away from your
troubles . . . by the ears, by the heels or any other way you can
manage it. It's the healthiest thing a body can do. --Mark Twain
It requires very little effort--and no
imagination--to start feeling sorry for ourselves. Often, it is easy to
feel sorry for ourselves in our families. Instead of being inspired by
the sports talents of an older brother, the popularity of a lovely
sister, or the fame of a parent or relative, we often take the easier
attitude: "I'm denied all that he or she has."
If we work hard at developing our own
abilities so that we can excel, we will find ourselves proud of, and
applauding, what others do. If a personal problem brings us self-pity,
we must remind ourselves that all people have problems. We can cope as
well as the best of people if we learn from them and think positively.
Who among those close to me can I be
proud of today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
Restless man's mind is,
So strongly shaken
In the grip of the senses...
Truly I think
The wind is no wilder.
--Bhagavad Gita
What passions have swept away our
reasoning powers? What lust have we pursued at the cost of our values
and better judgment? As men in this program, we know the ferocious
winds of addiction and codependency. Now we are in a program of
recovery, learning to combine our sensual side with our mind and our
morals.
Every day we feel the winds of our
senses, and they are part of what gives us life. We can let them blow
and not be carried away by them. In this way we take pleasure in being
human beings and men. We have our minds, our thoughts, and our
knowledge to turn to for guidance. And we have our inner voice - our
Higher Power - on which we can rely through even the wildest hurricane.
I am learning to make room in life for
my senses, my mind, and my Higher Power.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
Love is an expression and assertion of
self-esteem, a response to one's own values in the person of another.
--Ayn Rand
The struggle to love one another may
be a daily one for us, and it is made more difficult because we are
still stumbling in our attempts at self-love. Many of us have lived our
whole adult lives feeling inadequate, dull, unattractive, fearing the
worst regarding our relationships with others.
But this phase, this struggle, is
passing. We see a woman we like in the mirror each morning. We did a
task or a favor yesterday that we felt good about. And when we feel
good about our accomplishments, we look with a loving eye on the
persons around us. Self-love does encourage other love.
Self-love takes practice. It's new
behavior. We can begin to measure what we are doing, rather than what
we haven't yet managed to do, and praise ourselves. Nurturing our inner
selves invites further expression of the values that are developing,
values that will carry us to new situations and new opportunities for
accomplishments, and finally to loving the woman who looks back at us
every morning.
Self-love makes me vulnerable and
compassionate towards others. It's the balm for all wounds; it
multiplies as it's expressed. It can begin with my smile.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Getting Needs Met
Picture yourself walking through a
meadow. There is a path opening before you. As you walk, you feel
hungry. Look to your left. There's a fruit tree in full bloom. Pick
what you need.
Steps later, you notice you're
thirsty. On your right, there's a fresh water spring.
When you are tired, a resting place
emerges. When you are lonely, a friend appears to walk with you. When
you get lost, a teacher with a map appears.
Before long, you notice the flow: need
and supply; desire and fulfillment. Maybe, you wonder, someone gave me
the need because someone planned to fulfill it. Maybe I had to feel the
need, so I would notice and accept the gift. Maybe closing my eyes to
the desire closes my arms to its fulfillment.
Demand and supply, desire and
fulfillment - a continuous cycle, unless we break it. All the necessary
supplies have already been planned and provided for this journey.
Today, everything I need shall be
supplied to me.
God gives me all the strength and
courage to accept whatever happens in my life today. It is so freeing
to know that I am no longer a victim of people, places and things.
--Ruth Fishel
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Journey to the Heart
Move Gently into Forgiveness
“I never knew how much I blamed and
hated myself. I never knew how much shame and self-contempt I picked up
from situations I’d been through until I really forgave myself and felt
how that feels,” one woman said to me.
Loving yourself, forgiving yourself,
accepting yourself– all of these feel different from judging yourself.
Many of us have lived with so much judgement of ourselves that we take
these feelings for granted. We just think that’s how we’re doomed to
feel. Until we do forgive ourselves, we don’t realize how much we need
to, and how good, how great, how absolutely terrific that feels.
I was leery of forgiveness for many
years. I thought forgiving implied judging. And because judging was
wrong and I shouldn’t do it, I didn’t need to forgive. The problem was,
whether right or wrong, I had judged myself. And now I needed
forgiveness.
Self-judgements set us apart, separate
us from the rest of the world in an undesirable way. Forgiving
ourselves reconnects us to the world, to God, to ourselves.
We can forgive ourselves for what
we’ve done wrong, what we’ve done badly, and what we think we could
have done better. We can transcend our judgements of ourselves.
Move gently into forgiveness. Love,
forgive, and accept yourself. See how connected you feel. See how free
you really are and always have been. See how much better you feel!
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More Language Of Letting Go
Thy will be done
You can clear the land, plow the
field, spread the fertilizer, and plant the corn. but you cannot make
it rain. You cannot prevent an early frost. You cannot determine
exactly what will happen in your life. The rain may or may not fall,
but one thing is certain: you will get a harvest only if you planted
something in the field.
It’s important to do everything in our
power to ensure our success, but we also need to let the universe take
its course. Getting mad won’t help. Dwelling on a situation only takes
energy away from us, while yielding few positive results.
The Serenity Prayer comes to mind. It
begins:”Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change.”
Clear the land, plow the field, plant
the crop, and then let go. Things will work out, sometimes the way we
want them to, sometimes not. But they will work out.
Sometimes all you can do is shrug your
shoulders, smile, and say whatever.
Thy will, not mine, be done.
God, help me take guided action, then
surrender to your will. Help me remember that true power comes from
aligning my will, intentions, and desires with you.
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In God’s Care
We are born helpless. As soon as we
are fully conscious we discover loneliness. We need others physically,
emotionally, intellectually; we need them if we are to know anything,
even ourselves.
People today are taught at an early
age to be self-sufficient. Independence is considered a strength, and
dependence a weakness. As a result, we come to believe that we can make
it on our own. And we can, but at what cost? Many of us fill our
loneliness with chemical substances, Humans are social creatures; we
need each other for physical and emotional support, and for a healthy
exchange of ideas.
Even more, we need each other for
spiritual development. God loves us equally and often speaks to us
through one another. We truly learn about our spiritual nature in the
loving acts we exchange
I am never lonely when showing someone
that I care.
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Alive in Joy
Dispelling Drama
by Madisyn Taylor
Some people are so used to creating
drama that a peaceful existence seems uncomfortable for them.
There are scores of people in the
world who seem to be magnets for calamity. They live their lives
jumping from one difficult to the next, surrounded by unstable
individuals. Some believe themselves victims of fate and decry a
universe they regard as malevolent. Others view their chaotic
circumstances as just punishments for some failing within. Yet, in
truth, neither group has been fated or consigned to suffer. They are
likely unconsciously drawing drama into their lives, attracting
catastrophe through their choices, attitudes, and patterns of thought.
Drama, however disastrous, can be exciting and stimulating. But the
thrill of pandemonium eventually begins to frustrate the soul and drain
the energy of all who embrace it. To halt this process, we must
understand the root of our drama addiction, be aware of our reactions,
and be willing to accept that a serene, joyful life need not be a
boring one.
Many people, so used to living in the
dramatic world they create, feel uncomfortable when confronted with the
prospect of a lifetime of peace and contentment. The drama in their
lives serves multiple purposes. Upset causes excitement, prompting the
body to manufacture adrenaline, which produces a pleasurable surge of
energy. For those seeking affection in the form of sympathy, drama
forms the basis of their identity as a victim. And when drama is
familial, many people believe they can avoid abandonment by continuing
to play a key role in the established family dynamic. The addiction to
drama is fed by the intensity of the feelings evoked during bouts of
conflict, periods of uncertainty, and upheaval.
Understanding where the subconscious
need for drama stems from is the key to addressing it effectively.
Journaling can help you transfer this need from your mind onto a benign
piece of paper. After repeated writing sessions, your feelings
regarding the mayhem, hurt feelings, and confusion often associated
with drama become clear. When you confront your emotional response to
drama and the purpose it serves in your life, you can reject it. Each
time you consciously choose not to take part in dramatic situations or
associate with dramatic people, you create space in your inner being
that is filled with a calm and tranquil stillness and becomes an asset
in your quest to lead a more centered life. Published with permission
from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
What is the definition of humility?
“Absolute humility,” said AA co-founder Bill W., “would consist of a
state of complete freedom from myself, freedom from all the claims that
my defects of character no lay so heavily upon me. Perfect humility
would be a full willingness, in all times and places, to find and to do
the will of God” Am I striving for humility?
Today I Pray
May God expand my interpretation of
humility beyond abject subservience or awe at the greatness of others
May humility also mean freedom from myself, a freedom which can come
only through turning my being over to God’s will. May I sense the
omnipotence of God, which is simultaneously humbling and exhilarating.
May I be willing to carry out His will.
Today I Will Remember
Humility is freedom.
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One More Day
Happiness should not depend on
physical wellness.
– K. o’Brien
Without even recognizing that we have
done so, we sometimes structure our entire lives on the foundation of
good health. We assume good health for our future. And we refuse to
even acknowledge that nature’s somewhat random selection process can
change the way we live. We may never even give a moment’s thought to
changing our habits because of illness. We feel exempt, confident it
will never happen to us.
And when it does and our lifestyle
changes — sometimes gradually, sometimes abruptly — we feel we’ve lost
the right to happiness. Then we begin to adjust. Family and friends
stick with us, and an awareness comes forth that they, not physical
activity, are the reasons for true happiness.
I accept and will adjust to chronic
illness. Poor health has changed my life not ended it.
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Food For Thought
Slow Success
We say that there are no failures in OA, only slow successes. Some of
us take longer than others to catch on to the program. It is important
to keep trying, to continue to attend as many meetings as possible, and
to refuse to become discouraged.
There are some of us who spent months and years experimenting before we
were finally able to accept abstinence and stay with it. Sometimes we
left the program for a time, until we realized how much we needed OA
and came back to try again.
When we have accepted the program and maintained abstinence, yet found
weight loss to be extremely slow, it is easy to become discouraged. It
helps to remember that we are not only losing weight--however
slowly--we are also learning a new way of life. Our spiritual and
emotional growth in this program is even more rewarding than the
eventual weight loss. By living each day as it comes and working the
Twelve Steps, we achieve the serenity and confidence that make us
satisfied with slow success.
May I be granted patience and persistence.
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One Day At A Time
ISOLATION
“Isolation is the sum total of
wretchedness to a man.”
Thomas Carlyle
This past summer I was forced to play
"catch-up" at work in order to compensate for time lost while
recovering from a serious ankle injury. As a result of my increased
responsibilities, I stopped touching base with my friends and family --
Program family included -- except via the occasional email or phone
call.
Fortunately, my friends and my sponsor
are not the "shrinking violet" types. They took me to task about my
whereabouts and well being. Because COE is a disease of isolation, it's
extremely important to make sure we're making contact with others. We
do this by using the tools of the Program: sharing with our support
group, meetings, and sponsor.
When we don’t allow ourselves to have
regular, daily social outflow and personal accountability – even with a
good excuse – we are more likely to relapse.
One day at a time...
I will make a determined effort to
connect and share with others.
Rob R.
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
If a mere code of morals or a better
philosophy of life were to overcome alcoholism, many of us would have
recovered long ago. But we found that such codes and philosophies did
not save us, no matter how much we tried. We could wish to be moral, we
could wish to be philosophically comforted, in fact, we could will
these things with all our might, but the needed power wasn't there. Our
human resources, as marshalled by the will, were not sufficient; they
failed utterly. - Pg. 45 - We Agnostics
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Anger is one letter short of Danger. (
Dolores )
I Will Be Me
I will be me, today. One thing I never
seem to do well at, is trying to be someone else. I can imitate and
learn from others, but I cannot be them. Only they know how to do that,
it's a natural outgrowth of all that they have experienced in life, of
all they are. That's the bad news. The good news is no one can be me as
well as me. Being me builds on who I already am. It's exercise for my
personality and my spirit. If I allow myself to actualize my own unique
gifts and visions they will have originality to them, a freshness.
I am a better me than anyone else can
be
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
In the words of Wayne Dryer 'You will
be happy to know that the universal law that created miracles has not
been repealed.'
I Expect a Miracle today.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
There is an easy answer to your
problem that is neat, plausible, and wrong.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
God gives me all the strength and
courage to accept whatever happens in my life today. It is so freeing
to know that I am no longer a victim of people, places and things.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
Relationships: I've learned how to get
into them and now how to get out of them.
Now all I've got to do is learn how to
do the bit in the middle. - Lochie.
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AA Thought for the Day
March 29
Surrender
At one time the admission that I was
and am an alcoholic
meant shame, defeat, and failure to me.
But in the light of the new
understanding that I have found in AA,
I have been able to interpret that
defeat and that failure as seeds of victory.
Because it was only through feeling
defeat and failure,
the inability to cope with my life and
with alcohol,
that I was able to surrender and
accept the fact that I had this disease
and that I had to learn to live again
without alcohol.
- Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 295
Thought to Ponder . . .
We surrender to win.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
K I S S = Keep It Simple; Surrender.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Housecleaning
"Somehow, being alone with God
doesn't seem as embarrassing
as facing up to another person.
Until we actually sit down and talk
aloud
about what we have so long hidden,
our willingness to clean house
is still largely theoretical.
When we are honest with another person,
it confirms that we have been honest
with ourselves and with God."
Bill W., Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions, p. 60
Thought to Consider . . .
If we skip this vital step, we may not
overcome drinking.
Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 72
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
STEPS
Solutions To Every Problem in Sobriety
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Selfless
From "When A.A. Came of Age":
"As this tidal offering of top public
approval swept in, we realized that it could do us incalculable good or
great harm.
Everything would depend upon how it
was channeled. We simply could not afford to take the chance of letting
self-
appointed members present themselves
as messiahs representing A.A. before the whole public. The promoter
instinct
in us might be our undoing. If even
one such person publicly got drunk or was lured into using A.A.'s name
for his own
purposes, the damage might be
irreparable. At this altitude (press, radio, films, and television [and
the internet] ),
anonymity 100 per cent anonymity was
the only possible answer. Here principles would have to come before
personalities, without exception.
"These experiences taught us that
anonymity is real humility at work. It is an all-pervading spiritual
quality which today
keynotes A.A. life everywhere."
2001 AAWS, Inc.; Alcoholics Anonymous
Comes of Age, pg. 134
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"Until I was at my complete bottom,
alcohol wasn't even my problem. But thankfully, when I did hit bottom,
AA was not
hard to find."
November 2013
"Why Not Tell the World?"
AA Grapevine
~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N' Twelve
Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"The great fact is just this, and
nothing less: That we have had deep
and effective spiritual experiences
which have revolutionized our
whole attitude toward life, toward our
fellows and toward God's
universe. The central fact of our
lives today is the absolute
certainty that our Creator has entered
into our hearts and lives in a
way which is indeed miraculous. He has
commenced to accomplish
those things for us which we could
never do by ourselves."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
There Is A Solution, pg. 25~
"The age of miracles is still with us.
Our own recovery proves that!"
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, A
Vision For You, pg. 153~
But in A.A. we slowly learned that
something had to be done about our vengeful resentments, self-pity, and
unwarranted pride.
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
47
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
'Will Power and Choice'
'We A.A.'s know the futility of trying
to break the drinking obsession by will power alone. However, we do
know that it
takes great willingness to adopt
A.A.'s Twelve Steps as a way of life that can restore us to sanity.
'No matter how grievous the alcohol
obsession, we happily find that other vital choices can still be made.
For example,
we can choose to admit that we are
personally powerless over alcohol; that dependence upon a 'higher
Power' is a
necessity, even if this be simply
dependence upon an A.A. group. Then we can choose to try for a life of
honesty and
humility, of selfless services to out
fellows and to 'God as we understand Him.'
'As we continue to make these choices
and so move toward these high aspirations, our sanity returns and the
compulsion to drink vanishes.' LETTER,
1966
Prayer For The Day: Lord God, help me to remember that I may
not only be forgiven for my transgression, but with thy help I may be
led away from the wrong. May I be content to follow where thou dost
lead. Amen.