. . . AND NO MORE RESERVATIONS
We have seen the truth again and again: "Once an
alcoholic, always an alcoholic.". . . If we are
planning to stop drinking, there must be no reservation
of any kind, nor any lurking notion that someday we
will be immune to alcohol. . . . To be gravely affected,
one does not necessarily have to drink a long time nor
take the quantities some of us have. This is
particularly true of women. Potential female alcoholics
often turn into the real thing and are gone beyond
recall in a few years.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 33
These words are underlined in my book. They are true for
men and women alcoholics. On many occasions I've turned
to this page and reflected on this passage. I need never
fool myself by recalling my sometimes differing drinking
patterns, or by believing I am "cured." I like to think
that, if sobriety is God's gift to me, then my sober
life is my gift to God. I hope that God is as happy with
His gift as I am with mine.
***********************************************************
Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
Strength comes from the fellowship you find when you come
into A.A. Just being with men and women who have found
the way out gives you a feeling of security. You listen
to the speakers, you talk with other members, and you
absorb the atmosphere of confidence and hope that you
find in the place. Am I receiving strength from the fellowship
with other A.A. members?
Meditation For The Day
God is with you, to bless and help you. His spirit is all
around you. Waver not in your faith or in your prayers.
All power is the Lord's. Say that to yourself often and
steadily. Say it until your heart sings with joy for the
safety and personal power that it means to you. Say it
until the very force of the utterance drives back and
puts to naught all the evils against you. Use it as a
battle cry. All power is the Lord's. Then you will pass
on to victory over all your sins and temptations and you
will begin to live a victorious life.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that with strength from God I may lead an abundant
life. I pray that I may lead a life of victory.
***********************************************************
As Bill Sees It
Trouble
Becomes an Asset, p. 82
"I think that this particular General Service Conference holds
promise and has been filled with progress--because it has had
trouble. And it has converted that trouble into an asset, into some
growth, and into a great promise.
"A.A. was born out of trouble, one of the most serious kinds of
trouble that can befall an individual, the trouble attendant upon this
dark and fatal malady of alcoholism. Every single one of us
approached A.A. in trouble, in impossible trouble, in hopeless trouble.
And that is why we came.
"If this Conference was ruffled, if individuals were deeply
disturbed--I say, 'This is fine." What parliament, what republic, what
democracy has not been disturbed? Friction of opposing viewpoints is
the very modus operandi on which they proceed. Then what should
we be afraid of?"
Talk, 1958
***********************************************************
Walk in Dry Places
Act As If
Finding Direction
Though it sounds like a game or a trick, there's great power in "acting
as if." This means acting as if we've already succeeded, acting
as if we expect everybody to cooperate with us, acting as if we've
already reached whatever goal we're seeking.
The principle behind this approach is that such acting helps focus our
minds and energies on goals. It's also important to believe that
our success is inevitable if we are truly on the right path.
We should not employ this principle superstitously or assume it's a
substitute for intelligent work and good judgment. It will be a
substantial aid, however, in helping us eliminate the self-doubt and
pessimism that dog so many alcoholics during their quest for sobriety.
Too often, low self-esteem and a faulty belief that nothing will turn
out right have led us to sabotage our own efforts.
We should go into any venture with the idea that we've already
succeeded.... that much good is going to come out of it, even if the
exact outcome is somewhat different from what we had in mind.
"Acting as if" is just what we might need to summon our powers for the
duties ahead.
An old saying affirms that "if God be for me, who can be against
me?" I'll carry on today with the confidence that my Higher Power
is guidnig all my efforts in the right direction.
*************************************************
Keep It Simple
If anything, we have tended to be people who have wanted it all now. To
hope is not to demand. ---On hope
Maybe we were a bit demanding. Maybe we were a bit impatient. Maybe
that’s why we such little hope.
Hope is believing good will, even in bad times. Hope is knowing that
“this too, shall pass.” Hope is knowing that no mater how afraid we
are, God will be with us. Hope is knowing we never have to be alone
again. It is knowing that time is o our side. Hope is giving up
control. Hope is knowing we never had control in the first place. Hope
is believing in ourselves. Hope is what our program is all about.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, in our program we share our
experiences, our strengths, and our hopes. Thank you for giving all
three of these to me to share.
Action for the Day: I will share my hope for the future with
myself, my Higher Power, and my friends. I also will share this with
someone who has lost hope.
***********************************************************
Each Day a New Beginning
On occasion I realize it's easier to say the serenity prayer and take
that leap of faith than it is to continue doing what I'm doing.
--S.H.
The pain of change is a reality. But so is the pain of no change--when
change is called for. In spite of our desires, changing others will
never be an option, whereas changing ourselves takes only a decision
and is a choice always available.
We can take an inventory for a moment. What are we presently doing that
makes us ashamed or angry or fearful? We can let go of that behavior
and responsibly choose a new tack. If strength is needed, or confidence
to try a new behavior, we can simply ask that it be ours. The Third
Step promises that our lives are in God's care and our needs are always
being attended to--not always our wants, but in every instance our
needs.
Most of our struggles, today as in the past, are attached to persons
and situations we are trying to forcibly control. How righteous our
attitudes generally are! And so imposing is our behavior that we are
met with resistance, painful resistance. Our recourse is now and always
to "accept those things we cannot change, and willingly change that
which we can." Our personal struggles will end when we are fully
committed to the Serenity Prayer.
The wisdom "to know the difference" is mine today.
***********************************************************
Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
Chapter 8 - TO WIVES
But for every
man who drinks others are involved—the wife who trembles in fear of the
next debauch; the mother and father who see their son wasting away.
p. 104
***********************************************************
Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
Jim's Story
This physician, one of the earliest members of A.A.'s first black
group, tells of how freedom came as he worked among his people.
The following Sunday we met at Ella G.'s. It was Charlie and
three or four others. That was the first meeting of a colored
group in A.A., so far as I know. We held some two or three
meetings at Ella's home, and from there we held some two or three
meetings at her mother's home. Then Charlie or someone in the
group suggested that we try to get a place in a church or hall to hold
meetings. I approached several ministers and all of them thought
it was a very good idea, but they never relinquished any space.
So, finally, I went to the YMCA, and they graciously permitted us to
use a room at two dollars a night. At that time we had our
meetings on Friday nights. Of course, it wasn't very much of a
meeting in the beginning, most of the time it was just Vi and
myself. But, finally, we got one or two to come in and stick, and
from there, of course, we started to grow.
p. 244
***********************************************************
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step Ten - "Continued to take personal
inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it."
Now that we're in A.A. and sober, and winning back the esteem of our
friends and business associates, we find that we still need to exercise
special vigilance. As an insurance against "big-shot-ism" we can often
check ourselves by remembering that we are today sober only by the
grace of God and that any success we may be having is far more His
success than ours.
p. 92
***********************************************************
Don't
point
a
finger
-
lend a hand.
--Cited in Even More of...The Best of BITS & PIECES
Inventory taking is not all in red ink.
A recovering alcoholic without a sponsor is like a ship without a
rudder.
"Every great move forward in your life begins with a leap of faith, a
step into the unknown."
--Brian Tracy
"The healthy and strong individual is the one who asks for help when
he needs it."
--Rona Barrett
". . . just to be alive is a grand thing."
--Agatha Christie
We cannot sink so low that God cannot lift us to freedom.
--John Harrold
***********************************************************
Father Leo's Daily Meditation
SELF-LOVE
"No matter how old you get, if
you keep the desire to be
creative, you're keeping the
man-child alive."
-- John Cassavetes
When I was a child, I used to play in the sand and make castles. I
would build a strong and firm fortress around the castle so that it
could
withstand the force of the sea.
Today I also like to play in my life and I need to build strong and firm
behavioral structures that will withstand pressure and stress. Today I
need to build my life on a sure foundation --- and that foundation must
be me! I need to take care of me so that I can enjoy my life.
How do I take care of me? I watch what I drink. I am a recovering
alcoholic, and so I choose not to drink alcohol. I drink soda, orange
juice and milk --- but no alcohol. This is an important part of my
self-love program. I exercise regularly. I watch what I eat and I avoid
sugar and needless carbohydrates. I rest in the evenings and take
walks in the fresh air. The child that is in me still lives, but today
he is
healthy.
Help me to treat life responsibly, but not too seriously.
***********************************************************
"We give thanks to You, O God, we give thanks! For Your wondrous
works declare that Your name is near."
Psalms 75:1
"In You, O Lord, I put my trust; let me never be put to shame."
Psalms 71:1
Faith comes from hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ.
Romans 10:17
Yes, you are very special in the eyes of God. But you are what you are
by the grace of God.
1 Corinthians 15:10
***********************************************************
Daily Inspiration
How foolish it is to focus on our weaknesses and troubles, thereby
giving them more power than they deserve. Lord, I ask for your wisdom
and guidance in what I put into my mind.
You are good and beautiful and intelligent and loved. Lord, may I
accept me for all that I am and focus on my goodness.
***********************************************************
NA Just For Today
God's Gift
"We do the footwork and accept what's
being given to us freely on a daily basis."
Basic Text pg. 46
Our relationship with our Higher Power
is a two-way street. In prayer, we speak and God listens. When we
meditate, we do our best to listen for the will of our Higher Power. We
know that we are responsible for our part of the relationship. If we do
not pray and listen, we shut our Higher Power out of our lives.
When we think about our relationship
with our Higher Power, it's important to remember which one we are: the
powerless one. We can ask for guidance; we can ask for willingness or
strength; we can ask for knowledge of our Higher Power's will-but we
cannot make demands. The God of our understanding-the one with the
power-will fulfill the half of the relationship by giving us exactly
what we need, when we need it.
We need to take action every day to
keep our relationship with a Higher Power alive, One way we do this is
by applying the Eleventh Step. Then we remember our own powerlessness
and accept the will of a Power greater than ourselves.
Just for today: In my relationship
with my Higher Power, I am the powerless one. Remembering who I am,
today I will humbly accept the gifts of the God I understand.
***********************************************************
You are reading from the book Today's Gift.
It feels so good to cry. . . . --Susan
Cygnet
Some of us were taught that it's bad
to express our feelings directly--crying, wailing, jumping up and down
for joy--that it's good manners to talk softly, slowly, and politely
and to sit still.
But what happens to our feelings when
we sit still? If they don't get expressed, they must be caught inside
our bodies. Trapped feelings are like birds in a cage, or a rabbit in a
trap--they try to get out any way they can. They peck on our heads and
give us headaches. They scratch at our stomachs and make us hurt.
We must let them out. We must laugh
and cry. Then our bodies will be happy, and our feelings will curl up
in our laps like happy puppies.
Am I ignoring the physical symptoms of
trapped feelings?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
If anything is sacred, the human body
is sacred. --Walt Whitman
A renewed relationship with our bodies
is part of our spiritual renewal. Perhaps we have not known our bodies
as part of our spiritual selves. We may have treated ourselves and
others as objects. Too often genitals were "tools" to be used, objects
of our egos, or a way of taking care of someone else. Maybe we have
used sex compulsively as an escape from other emotions. Men in recovery
commonly encounter problems with sexuality. Those problems often come
from knowing deep within that we must change, but not knowing how.
It helps to create new images in our
minds. We can imagine a totally relaxed playfulness with our partners,
with no goal in mind and no judgment. We can imagine our Higher Power
being with us. We can imagine talking in detail with someone - our
partner or a friend - about our feelings, anxieties, or frustrations
with sex. We can imagine ourselves as a whole body, alone, not with a
partner, and okay Bringing sexuality into the whole of our lives is a
spiritual thing to do.
May I find ways to include sexuality
in my spiritual awakening.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
On occasion I realize it's easier to
say the serenity prayer and take that leap of faith than it is to
continue doing what I'm doing. --S.H.
The pain of change is a reality. But
so is the pain of no change--when change is called for. In spite of our
desires, changing others will never be an option, whereas changing
ourselves takes only a decision and is a choice always available.
We can take an inventory for a moment.
What are we presently doing that makes us ashamed or angry or fearful?
We can let go of that behavior and responsibly choose a new tack. If
strength is needed, or confidence to try a new behavior, we can simply
ask that it be ours. The Third Step promises that our lives are in
God's care and our needs are always being attended to--not always our
wants, but in every instance our needs.
Most of our struggles, today as in the
past, are attached to persons and situations we are trying to forcibly
control. How righteous our attitudes generally are! And so imposing is
our behavior that we are met with resistance, painful resistance. Our
recourse is now and always to "accept those things we cannot change,
and willingly change that which we can." Our personal struggles will
end when we are fully committed to the Serenity Prayer.
The wisdom "to know the difference" is
mine today.
You are reading from the book The
Language Of Letting Go.
Flack from Setting Boundaries
We need to know how far well go, and
how far well allow others to go with us. Once we understand this, we
can go anywhere. --Beyond Codependency
When we own our power to take care of
ourselves- -set a boundary, say no, and change an old pattern - we may
get flack from some people. That's okay. We don't have to let their
reactions control us, stop us, or influence our decision to take care
of ourselves.
We don't have to control their
reactions to our process of self-care. That is not our responsibility.
We don't have to expect them not to react either.
People will react when we do things
differently or take assertive action to nurture ourselves, particularly
if our decision in some way affects them. Let them have their feelings.
Let them have their reactions. But continue on your course anyway.
If people are used to us behaving in a
certain way, they'll attempt to convince us to stay that way to avoid
changing the system. If people are used to us saying yes all the time,
they may start mumbling and murmuring when we say no. If people are
used to us taking care of their responsibilities, feelings, and
problems, they may give us some flack when we stop. That's normal. We
can learn to live with a little flack in the name of healthy self-care.
Not abuse, mind you, Flack.
If people are used to controlling us
through guilt, bullying, and badgering, they may intensify their
efforts when we change and refuse to be controlled. That's okay. That's
flack too.
We don't have to let flack pull us
back into old ways if we've decided we want and need to change. We
don't have to react to flack or give it much attention. It doesn't
deserve it. It will die down.
Today, I will disregard any flack I
receive for changing my behaviors or making other efforts to be myself.
Today, I no longer struggle to find my
answers alone. I welcome and am open to positive and healthy support
wherever I find it. --Ruth Fishel
******************************************
Journey to the Heart
Comfort Yourself
I was driving through Montana, on my
way to a town on the Flathead Indian Reservation. I was going there
because an old hotel, opened in 1928, noted for its medicinal mineral
waters had caught my attention. As I pulled off the highway and began
the drive down the side roads, I felt an environmental ambiance I
hadn’t experienced before.
The hills were huge mounds, covered
with a soft-green, grassy moss. Not steep sharp mountains; comforting,
rounded hills– one after another. A gentle energy emanated from them.
It was more than love. More than kindness. I felt comforted, embraced,
almost held by Mother Earth in her bosom. My body relaxed. My spirit
soared. I felt warm. Cared for. Nurtured. Comforted.
Comfort is a place we can visit often,
as often as we need to. Although certain places and objects help
comfort us, it is really a place within each of us. Some of us may have
thought that comfort was a waste of time, but now we know that there is
tremendous power in comfort, the power to heal. We no longer have to
deprive ourselves of comfort, of that warm feeling of being nurtured.
We can visit it for ourselves; we can take others there with us.
What brings you comfort? What makes
you feel safe, cozy, warm, loved? What places? What people? What
events? Learn to comfort yourself. Learn to accept comfort, and learn
to give it. Go to that special place of comfort whenever you need to.
Stay as long as you wish. The healing power of comfort will make life
better.
******************************************
More Language Of Letting Go
Let go of the trappings
We call it keeping up with the
Joneses. They buy a boat and we buy a bigger one. They get a new TV and
we get a big screen. They start a business and we start planning our
articles of incorporation and the first stock release. And while we’re
so busy keeping up, we ignore our soul, the inner voice, that’s telling
us that it really wants to teach children to read.
While it helps to identify with each
other, we’re not the same. So why compare ourselves on the basis of
material things?
Follow your own talent and heart. It
may be that you are a talented public speaker, able to sway hundreds of
people with your words. Or maybe you have the talent of friendship, and
you’ve been sent to quietly, one-on-one, help those close to you walk
their own path.
If you must compare yourself to
something, compare your daily life to your ideals and dreams. Do they
match? If those ideals and dreams bring great material wealth, that’s
great. If they mean a life of quiet, anonymous service, that’s
great,too. Yes, material goods can be fun. But they can also be a trap.
Are you walking a path with heart in
your own life, regardless of what others have?
God, help me let go of the trappings.
Teach me to walk my own path.
******************************************
Divergent Directions
Coping with People You Dislike
by Madisyn Taylor
When we are forced to deal with people
we dislike, a great learning opportunity is being put forth to us.
As much as most of us wish we could
exist in harmony with the people we encounter throughout our lives,
there will always be individuals we dislike. Some simply rub us the
wrong way while others strike us as deliberately unaware. We may judge
others as too mean or abrasive for us to interact with them
comfortably. Yet no person should be deemed a villain because their
beliefs, opinions, mannerisms, and mode of being are not compatible
with your own. You need not embrace the rough traits they have chosen
to embody. There may be times in which the best course of action
involves distancing yourself from someone you dislike. But
circumstances may require that you spend time in the company of
individuals who awaken your aversion. In such cases, you can ease your
discomfort by showing your foe loving compassion while examining your
feelings carefully.
The reasons we dislike some
individuals are often complex and, at first, indecipherable. Often, we
are automatically averse to people who are different because they
compel us to question our values, spirituality, culture, and
ideologies, threatening to undermine our self-assurance. Realistically,
however, those you dislike have no power to weaken your life’s
foundations. In fact, your aversion to specific individuals may
actually be your response to your fear that specific qualities you see
in them also exist within you. Their presence may force you to face
internal issues you would rather not confront. If you meet someone who
inspired an intense, largely negative response in you, ask yourself why
your reaction is so laden with powerful emotions. Remember that you
control your feelings and, if necessary, you can minimize this
individual’s impact on your well-being by choosing how you will respond
to them.
Though you may not have an immediate
breakthrough, your willingness to consider your dislike rationally can
help you better understand the root of your feelings. Your aversion to
certain individuals may not wane over time, yet the comprehension you
gain through reflection can help you interact with them
sympathetically, benevolently, and with a greater degree of kindness.
There is nothing wrong with recognizing that you are incompatible with
some people. You may never achieve a shared harmony with those you
dislike, but you can nonetheless learn to modulate your reactions to
these individuals and, ultimately, to coexist peacefully with them.
Published with permission from Daily OM
******************************************
A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
The Program teaches us, through the
experience, strength and hope of its fellowship, that the worst
situation imaginable does not warrant a return to our addiction. No
matter how bad a particular situation or set of circumstances, the
return to our old ways for even a minute will assuredly make it worse.
Am I Grateful for the sharing and caring of “The Program”
Today I Pray
May I insist that no stone can be
heavy enough to rag me back down into the pool of my addiction. No
burden, so disappointment, no blow to pride or loss of human love is
worth the price of returning to my old way of life. When I harbor
thoughts that life is “too much” for me, that no one should be expected
to “take so much and still remains sane” or that I am “the fall guy,”{
let me listen for the tone of my complaints and remember that I have
heard that whine before — before I concluded that I was powerless over
the chemical and gave my will over to the will of God. Such wailing
sets me up for getting high again. May God keep my ears alert to the
tone of my own complaining.
Today I Will Remember
Hear my own complaints.
******************************************
One More Day
There the weary cease from troubling,
and there the weary be at rest.
– Job 3:17
We never thought we would have to
learn to live with constant weariness. Our notions of illness may have
prepared us for pain, inconvenience, maybe even some negative emotions
like anger, but we had no way of anticipating the unrelenting drain of
illness. There is tremendous comfort just in knowing we are not alone,
that ultimately there is a Power greater than ourselves to whom we can
turn for comfort and strength.
We can’t always escape the physical
weariness of illness, but we can regenerate our spirituality, which may
have dissipated along with our good health.
I cannot control my illness, but I can
have a hopeful attitude.
************************************
Food For Thought
Awareness
To be aware is to be focused and alive. If we are truly alert to what
is going on within and around us, we will never be bored. Through
working the OA program, we develop greater awareness of ourselves,
other people, and our Higher Power.
Sometimes this new awareness brings pain; we realize that we have been
hurt and that we have hurt others. Through our daily inventories, we
recognize shortcomings and mistakes, which we may have ignored in the
past. Often it is too late to undo all of the damage, which has been
done by our compulsive overeating and general self-centeredness.
Here is where we pray for acceptance of what we cannot change and
courage to make amends where we can. It is then important to put what
is past behind us and concentrate on being more aware now, today, so
that we do not make the same mistakes again.
When we are not dulled by too much food and the wrong kinds of food, we
are more perceptive and aware in every aspect of our lives. Our
experiences are richer and we are better able to grow and change.
I pray for increasing awareness.
*****************************************
One Day At A Time
Progress, Not Perfection
"The maxim 'Nothing but perfection'
may be spelled "Paralysis."
Winston Churchill
I can't count the number of times I've
heard the expression, "progress not perfection" from my sponsor and
used it with my sponsees. We take little steps - one day at a time -
which gradually lead to greater steps. Small successes eventually will
lead to bigger successes. Often though, we want it all and we want it
NOW!
Recovery is a process - not an end
result. It requires a kind of a balancing act - if we try to juggle
more balls than what we're capable of comfortably balancing - we will
crash and this can lead to relapse. So rather than juggling five balls
and crashing - it's better to juggle three really well and gradually
work in a 4th or a fifth.
One Day at a Time . . .
I will focus on making progress rather
than trying to be perfect.
Rob
*****************************************
AA 'Big Book' - Quote
We have three little mottoes which are
apropos. Here they are:
First Things First
Live and Let Live
Easy Does It
Pg. 135 - The Family Afterward
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Go look at yourself in the mirror.
What do you see? Look into your eyes. Say: I have the disease of
addiction. It's not horrible; it's not bad; it simply is. Right now,
this hour, I accept this fact.
Please lift any residual suspicion in
me that whispers that I am bad for suffering from addiction.
Opening to Abundance
I am ready, willing and able to open
my mind and heart to the abundance that the world has to offer me. This
world brings forth what I need. The sun shines, water from fresh
springs makes its way across rocky slopes to quench my thirst and
abundant varieties of food germinate from seeds to nourish my body.
Everywhere nature brings forth. The clouds, wind and rain draw me
toward their eternal mystery. This world is designed to nurture and
sustain life. I am part of that life, and I receive solace and comfort
knowing that the world and I are both alive and vibrant. Both imbued
with the same life force. This world nurtures me.
I am open to abundance
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
Listen to the message, not the
messenger! This is what Tradition Twelve is all about, looking past the
personality to the principle behind the message. There are some mighty
slick personalities out there talking trash and some Big Book thumpers
(irritating as they are) that have a true message of hope.
The slicker, the sicker.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Contempt is not a spiritual gift.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I no longer struggle to find my
answers alone. I welcome and am open to positive and healthy support
wherever I find it.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I don't change because I've seen the
light but because I have felt the heat. - Penny P.
*****************************************
AA Thought for the Day
March 23
Humility
"Humbly asked Him to remove our
shortcomings."
Without some degree of humility, no
alcoholic can stay sober at all.
- Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
p. 70
Thought to Ponder . . .
Learning is the very essence of
humility; the two walk hand in hand.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
A R T = Always Remain Teachable.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Isolating
"The less people tolerated us,
the more we withdrew from society,
from life itself.
As we became subjects of King Alcohol,
shivering denizens of his mad realm,
the chilling vapor that is loneliness
settled down.
It thickened, ever becoming blacker.
Unhappy drinkers who read this page
will understand."
Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 151
Thought to Consider . . .
Losers make promises;
winners make commitments.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
KISS
Keep It Simple, Surrender
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Whose
From "'How Do You Pray?'":
"One of the men stopped me and said,
'How do you pray?' I said that I asked God not to take her, but to take
me. He
then said, 'Why don't you ask that God
give you the strength and courage to accept His will? Say, "Thy will,
not mine, be done."'
"Yes, that was the first time in my
life that I prayed for His will be done. As I look back, I see that I
had always asked God
to do things my way."
1973 AAWS, Inc.; Came to Believe, 30th
printing 2004, pg. 23
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"I can't imagine anything that would
make me so mad, glad, or sad that I would want to go back to what I was
before AA."
Napa, Calif., February 1993
"The Meaning of Success"
AA Grapevine
~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N' Twelve
Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"...we then look at Step Six. We have
emphasized willingness as
being indispensable. Are we now ready
to let God remove from us all
the things which we have admitted are
objectionable? Can He now take
them all-every one? If we still cling
to something we will not let
go, we ask God to help us be willing."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Into Action, pg. 76~
"When we saw others solve their
problems by a simple reliance upon the
Spirit of the Universe, we had to stop
doubting the power of God. Our
ideas did not work. But the God idea
did."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, We
Agnostics, Page 52~
These distinguished men had the nerve
to say that most of the alcoholics under investigation were still
childish,
emotionally sensitive, and grandiose.
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions p.
123
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Trouble Becomes an Asset
'I think that this particular General
Service Conference holds promise and has been filled with
progress--because it has had trouble. And it has converted that trouble
into an asset, into some growth, and into a great promise.
'A.A. was born out of trouble, one of
the most serious kinds of trouble that can befall an individual, the
trouble attendant upon this dark and fatal malady of alcoholism. Every
single one of us approached A.A. in trouble, in impossible trouble, in
hopeless trouble. And that is why we came.
'If this Conference was ruffled, if
individuals were deeply disturbed--I say, 'This is fine.' What
parliament , what republic, what democracy has not been disturbed?
Friction of opposing viewpoints is the very modus operandi on which
they proceed. Then what should we be afraid of?' TALK, 1958
Prayer For The Day: Lord, it is in this place and in this time
that you want me to grow. You give me the time I need to live as you
want me to live. Help me to use my time and opportunities wisely. Help
me to value and treasure all the people you put into my life, and lead
me to live in thankfulness. Amen.