INTO ACTION
A.A. is more than a set of principles; it is a society of
alcoholics in action. We must carry the message, else we
ourselves can wither and those who haven't been given the
truth may die.
AS BILL SEES IT, p. 13
I desperately wanted to live, but if I was to succeed, I
had to become active in our God-given program. I joined
what became my group, where I opened the hall, made coffee,
and cleaned up. I had been sober about three months when
an oldtimer told me I was doing Twelfth-Step work. What a
satisfying realization that was! I felt I was really
accomplishing something. God had given me a second chance,
A.A. had shown me the way, and these gifts were not only
free - they were also priceless! Now the joy of seeing
newcomers grow reminds me of where I have come from, where
I am now, and the limitless possibilities that lie ahead.
I need to attend meetings because they recharge my
batteries so that I have light when it's needed. I'm still
a beginner in service work, but already I am receiving
more than I'm giving. I can't keep it unless I give it
away. I am responsible when another reaches out for help.
I want to be there - sober.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
If we allow an alcoholic thought to lodge in our minds for
any length of time, we are in danger of having a slip.
Therefore we must dispel such thoughts at once, by refusing
their admittance and by immediately putting constructive
thoughts in their place. Remember that alcohol is poison to
you. Remember that it is impossible for you to drink
normally. Remember that one drink will lead to another and
you will eventually be drunk. Remember what happened to you
in the past as a result of your drinking. Think of every
reason you have learned in A.A. for not taking that drink.
Fill your mind with constructive thoughts. Am I keeping my
thoughts constructive?
Meditation For The Day
Always seek to set aside the valuations of the world which
seem wrong and try to judge only by those valuations which
seem right to you. Do not seek too much the praise and
notice of men. Be one of those who, though sometimes scoffed
at, have a serenity and peace of mind which the scoffers
never know. Be one of that band who feel the Divine Principle
in the universe, though He be often rejected by men because
He cannot be seen.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may not heed too much the judgment of men.
I pray that I may test things by what seems right to me.
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As Bill Sees It
Those
Other
People, p.268
"Just like you, I have often thought myself the victim of what other
people say and do. Yet every time I confessed the sins of such
people, especially those whose sins did not correspond exactly with
my own, I found that I only increased the total damage. My own
resentment, my self-pity would often render me well-nigh useless to
anybody.
"So, nowadays, if anyone talks of me so as to hurt, I first ask myself
if
there is any truth at all in what they say. If there is none, I try to
remember that I too have had my periods of speaking bitterly of
others; that hurtful gossip is but a symptom of our remaining
emotional illness; and consequently that I must never be angry at the
unreasonableness of sick people.
"Under very trying conditions I have had, again and again, to forgive
others--also myself. Have you recently tried this?"
Letter, 1946
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Walk In Dry Places
The
Lure
of
Greener
Pastures
Gratitude
One of our old-timers spent a great deal of time trying to find a new
job but never succeeding. When he finally retired, on a good
pension, it became clear that the job he had kept was probably better
and provided more benefits than any job he had been seeking. He
was fortunate that none of his proposed job searches ever worked out.
The fantasy of finding "greener pastures" is something many of us face,
in both drinking and sobriety.
We may be very well off where we are, yet feel that something rich and
exciting is over in the next meadow. We can feel this way about
our jobs, our lifestyles, and our locations.
The answer to this greener-pastures obsession is to feel more gratitude
for what we have here and now. We might also focus more upon today's
activities and less upon impossible dreams of other places.
There may be greener pastures somewhere, but I'll first look for the
opportunities and benefits of my own life and surroundings. I may
be richly blessed without knowing it.
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Keep It Simple
And
to
practice
these
principles
in
all
our
affairs. Third part of Step
Twelve.
This is a statement about us. We are now people of values. These values
reflect our spiritual growth. We know how to help others. We know how
to
admit our wrongs.
We know how to look at ourselves and change our defects. We know how to
live an honest life.
Step Twelve tells us. "Go use these tools for better living. Go be
all you can be. Enjoy life and live a life you can be proud of."
Step Twelve also tells us about how to have loving relationships. By
the
time we complete Step Twelve, we make or regain many relationships. The
most important one is with our Higher Power. As we grow in the program,
we realize all our relationships are spiritual gifts.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, I now have one face instead of
many masks. Help me be a
person who will stand before You with pride, not shame.
Action for the Day: Today, I'll talk with a friend and talk about
my new values. I will talk
about how much my life has changed.
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Each Day a New Beginning
I want to feel myself part of things, of the great drift and swirl; not
cut off, missing things, like being sent to bed early as a child.
--Joanna Field
Feeling apart from the action and always looking on; wanting attention,
and yet afraid of being noticed; no doubt these are familiar memories
to most of us. We may still struggle with our self-perception, but we
can celebrate that we no longer drown our moods. Connecting with the
people next to us, though difficult, is no longer impossible when we
rely on the program.
There is a way to be a part of the action, a way that never fails. It
takes only a small effort, really. We can simply look, with love, at
someone nearby today and extend our hearts in honest attention. When we
make someone else feel special, we'll become special too.
Recovery can help each of us move beyond the boundaries of our own ego.
Trusting that our lives are in the loving care of God, however we
understand God, relieves us of the need for self-centeredness. We can
let go of ourselves now that God is in charge, and we'll discover that
we have joined the action.
I will open my heart, and I'll be joined to all that's around me.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
BILL'S STORY
They did not need to tell me. I knew, and almost welcomed the idea. It
was a devastating blow to my pride. I, who had thought so well of
myself and my abilities, of my capacity to surmount obstacles, was
cornered at last. Now I was to plunge into the dark, joining that
endless procession of sots who had gone on before. I thought of my poor
wife. There had been much happiness after all. What would I not give to
make amends. But that was over now.
pp. 7-8
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
Crossing The River
Of Denial
She finally realized that when she enjoyed her drinking, she
couldn't control it, and when she controlled it, she couldn't enjoy it.
To this day I am amazed at people who get sober before the holidays. I
couldn't even attempt it until after the Super Bowl. One last blow-out
party when I swore I wouldn't get drunk. When I put alcohol in my body,
I'd lose the ability to choose how much I drank, and Super Bowl Sunday
that year was no different. I ended up on someone's couch instead of my
own bed and was sick to death all the next day at work. That week I had
to go to a hockey game. It was a work event, so I tried to watch my
drinking, consuming only two large cups of beer which, for me, wasn't
even enough to catch a buzz. And that was the beginning of my spiritual
awakening. Sitting near the ice, frustrated, and pondering the fact
that two tall beers didn't give me any relief, something in my
head--and I know it wasn't me--said, "So why bother?' At that moment I
knew what the Big Book meant about the great obsession of every
abnormal drinker being to somehow, someday control and enjoy his
drinking. On Super Bowl Sunday, when I enjoyed it, I couldn't control
it, and at the hockey game when I controlled it, I couldn't enjoy it.
There was no more denying that I was an alcoholic. What an epiphany!
p. 334
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step Three - "Made a decision
to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood
Him."
Then it is explained that other Steps of the A.A. program can be
practiced with success only when Step Three is given a determined and
persistent trial. This statement may surprise newcomers who have
experienced nothing but constant deflation and a growing conviction
that human will is of no value whatever. They have become persuaded,
and rightly so, that many problems besides alcohol will not yield to a
headlong assault powered by the individual alone. But now it appears
that there are certain things which only the individual can do. All by
himself, and in the light of his own circumstances, he needs to develop
the quality of willingness. When he acquires willingness, he is the
only one who can make the decision to exert himself. Trying to do this
is an act of his own will. All of the Twelve Steps require sustained
and personal exertion to conform to their principles and so, we trust,
to God's will.
p. 40
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Gratitude
is
one
of
the
sweet
shortcuts
to
finding peace of mind and
happiness
inside. No matter what's going on outside of us, there's always
something we could
be grateful for.
--Barry Neil Kaufman
If we wait for perfection before enjoying life, we will never enjoy
life.
--unknown
One moment of patience may ward off a great disaster; one moment of
impatience may
ruin a whole life.
--Chinese proverb
I am getting to know myself today.
I accept who I am today.
I like myself today.
--Ruth Fishel
The Lord will drench you with His showers, but He will dry you with His
sun.
--Czech Proverb
"Good morning, This is your Higher Power speaking.
I will not be needing your help today."
We win half the battle when we make up our minds to take the world as
we find it,
including the thorns.
--unknown
Angels can fly because they take themselves lightly!
--unknown
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
PREJUDICE
"Everyone is a prisoner of his own
experiences. No one can eliminate
prejudices just recognize
--them."
Edward R. Murrow
In recovery I am accepting that I am not perfect and some prejudices
are part of my
life what it is to be human. On a daily basis I am trying to deal with
them, and talking
about them helps. They don't go away just because I talk about them,
but I get them in
perspective and I grow in an understanding of myself through the
recognition of
my prejudices.
Alcoholism made me into a " fake ". I appeared to be what I was not and
my
prejudices were part of the camouflage. My prejudices revealed my fears
and my
need to "people-please". Slowly, in my daily spiritual program, I
am
discovering the
courage to stand alone.
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Teach
me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good spirit lead me on
level
ground.
Psalm 143:10
“But I tell you: Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good
to those who
hate you.”
Matthew 5:44
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Daily Inspiration
Be yourself in all that you do and you will soon learn that you are
very special. Lord, help me find the peace that You have already placed
within my soul.
Take less for granted and you will become very busy enjoying all that
you have. Lord, thank you for my blessings and for all those that I am
able to share them with.
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NA Just For Today
God's Will, Not Ours
"We know that if we pray for God's
will we will receive what is best for us, regardless of what we think."
Basic Text pg. 44
By the time we came to NA, our inner
voices had become unreliable and self-destructive. Addiction had warped
our desires, our interests, our sense of what was best for ourselves.
That's why it's been so important in recovery to develop our belief in
a Power greater than ourselves, something that could provide saner,
more reliable guidance than our own. We've begun learning how to rely
on this Power's care and to trust the inner direction it provides us.
As with all learning processes, it
takes practice to "pray only for knowledge of God's will for us and the
power to carry that out." The selfish, ego-driven attitudes we
developed in our addiction are not cast off overnight. Those attitudes
may affect the way we pray. We may even find ourselves praying
something like, "Relieve me of this character defect so I can look
good."
The more straightforward we are about
our own ideas and desires, the easier it will be to distinguish between
our own will and our Higher Power's will. "Just for your information,
God;" we might pray, "here's what I want in this situation.
Nonetheless, I ask that your will, not mine, be done." Once we do this,
we are prepared to recognize and accept our Higher Power's guidance.
Just for today: Higher Power, I've
learned to trust your guidance, yet I still have my own ideas about how
I want to live my life. Let me share those ideas with you, and then let
me clearly understand your will for me. In the end, let your will, not
mine, be done.
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
They were the first . . . self-created
people in the history of the world. And their manners were their own
business. And so were their politics. And so, but ten times so, were
their souls. --Archibald MacLeish
There once was a child named Yemaya.
Even before she could walk or talk, her mother introduced her to the
trees. Yemaya touched them and they accepted her. They told her she was
wonderful and she knew it was true.
As she grew up, Yemaya occasionally
met people who said unkind things to her. When this happened, she went
back to her trees, who continued to tell her she was just fine. She
couldn't understand what was wrong with those who were mean to her.
Whenever they appeared and insisted on being mean, she pretended what
they said was an arrow that sailed right by as she stepped out of the
way.
We can do the same. What others say or
think is part of them and their lives, not ours. When we are wise
enough to let go of things that don't belong to us, we will find our
own treasures.
What can I step out of the way of
today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
"He doesn't talk to me," says a woman.
"I don't know what she wants me to talk about," says a man. --Lillian
B. Rubin
We have often heard that it's better
to be men of deeds, not words. In our relationships with other males,
we have learned to do things together, work together, or play a sport
together. But in our relationships with women, we often see the other
side of this coin. If we haven't learned to express our thoughts and
feelings, the women in our lives may request or demand that we learn
now. There is nothing wrong with our not yet having this skill, and
there is nothing wrong with women longing to talk with us.
A close relationship promotes talking,
and revealing thoughts and feelings. Words, when we are honest, are
ways of becoming clearer and being more personal. We have the right to
stumble around with our words. We also have the right to feel unsure of
ourselves or frightened of saying what we feel. That kind of fear is
the excitement of being close to someone we love.
Today, I will express my feelings and
ideas so others can know me better.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
I want to feel myself part of things,
of the great drift and swirl; not cut off, missing things, like being
sent to bed early as a child. --Joanna Field
Feeling apart from the action and
always looking on; wanting attention, and yet afraid of being noticed;
no doubt these are familiar memories to most of us. We may still
struggle with our self-perception, but we can celebrate that we no
longer drown our moods. Connecting with the people next to us, though
difficult, is no longer impossible when we rely on the program.
There is a way to be a part of the
action, a way that never fails. It takes only a small effort, really.
We can simply look, with love, at someone nearby today and extend our
hearts in honest attention. When we make someone else feel special,
we'll become special too.
Recovery can help each of us move
beyond the boundaries of our own ego. Trusting that our lives are in
the loving care of God, however we understand God, relieves us of the
need for self-centeredness. We can let go of ourselves now that God is
in charge, and we'll discover that we have joined the action.
I will open my heart, and I'll be
joined to all that's around me.
You are reading from the book The
Language of Letting Go.
Letting Go
"How much do we need to let go of?" a
friend asked one day.
"I'm not certain," I replied, "but
maybe everything."
Letting go is a spiritual, emotional,
mental, and physical process, a sometimes mysterious metaphysical
process of releasing to God and the Universe that which we are clinging
to so tightly.
We let go of our grasp on people,
outcomes, ideas, feelings, wants, needs, desires - everything. We let
go of trying to control our progress in recovery. Yes, it's important
to acknowledge and accept what we want and what we want to happen. But
it's equally important to follow through by letting go.
Letting go is the action part of
faith. It is a behavior that gives God and the Universe permission to
send us what we're meant to have.
Letting go means we acknowledge that
hanging on so tightly isn't helping to solve the problem, change the
person, or get the outcome we desire. It isn't helping us. In fact, we
learn that hanging on often blocks us from getting what we want and
need.
Who are we to say that things aren't
happening exactly as they need to happen?
There is magic in letting go.
Sometimes we get what we want soon after we let go. Sometimes it takes
longer. Sometimes the specific outcome we desire doesn't happen.
Something better does.
Letting go sets us free and connects
us to our Source.
Letting go creates the optimum
environment for the best possible outcomes and solutions.
Today, I will relax. I will let go of
that which is upsetting me the most. I will trust that by letting go, I
have started the wheels in motion for things to work out in the best
possible way.
I am getting to know myself today. I
accept who I am today. I like myself today. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
You Decide
This is an old lesson, but it bears
repeating and remembering. We don’t have to let anyone control our
lives, our choices, our joy.
No matter how well we thought we
learned that lesson, it often reappears. Another person starts to pull
our strings. We get involved, entangled, hooked in. We hear ourselves
singing an old tune– If only she would, if only he wouldn’t, then I
would be… We realize that once again we have given up too much control.
We have deferred our lives to the wishes, whims, and choices of another.
Yes, if we are living fully, we will
have reactions to those around us. Our relationships will help shape
us, teach us things. And yes, there are times we are so connected to
others, love them so much, that their path does affect ours. But we
don’t have to let another person control our choices, our behaviors, or
our lives.
Maybe she will. Maybe he won’t. But
what about you? What do you want? What course of action feels right for
you, for your life? Do you want to assign responsibility for whether
you take that course to another? Do you really?
Sometimes, no matter how much you love
others, it’s time to let go, time to let them walk their path. Time to
realize that it is your responsibility to walk your own. Go in love. Go
in peace. Go in gentle power. You are responsible for your life. You
are responsible for your choices. It doesn’t matter what the other
person does. You are still responsible for you.
Take care of yourself, then take it
one step further. Love, nurture, honor, and respect yourself.
Only you can decide what you’re going
to do.
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More Language Of Letting Go
The miracle of rebirth
Birth is an exhilarating experience.
Walking into a hospital room seconds after a child has been born, you
can almost touch the emotion and power of the moment.
Rebirth is like that,too. Sitting in a
powerful religious ceremony, standing alone atop a high hill, or
walking in the footsteps of an ancient civilization, we can feel our
hearts being changed as our spirit is given new birth. “What have I
done to deserve this?” we whisper. And the universe whispers, “It’s to
move you along your path. It’s to teach you to live.” And we emerge
from our experience reborn.
Sometimes, it goes the other way,too.
In a single moment, all that we know can be stripped away– the death of
a loved one, a divorce, the loss of a job– and suddenly we’re left
standing at the mercy of the universe. “Why did this happen? What did I
do to deserve this?” we cry. And the universe answers, “It’s to move
you along your path. It’s to teach you to live.” And once again, we
rise from the ashes, reborn.
Surrender to the exhilarating moments
of creation in your life, both the uplifting and the heartrending ones.
Touch the emotion and power.
Trust that you’re being moved along
your path. You’re learning how to live.
Let yourself be reborn.
God, please help me to accept all the
life changing experiences that I may have. Help me to see the wonder in
rebirth and to learn your lessons.
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Now Is the Time
Bloom Where You Are Planted
by Madisyn Taylor
The time to blossom is now, not
sometime in the future when you believe the stars will be aligned for
you.
Having a vision for our future that
differs from our current circumstances can be inspiring and exciting,
but it can also keep us from fully committing to our present placement.
We may become aware that this is happening when we notice our thoughts
about the future distracting us from our participation in the moment.
We may find upon searching our hearts that we are waiting for some
future time or situation in order to self-actualize. This would be like
a flower planted in North Dakota putting off blooming because it would
prefer to do so in Illinois.
There are no guarantees in this life,
so when we hold back we do so at the risk of never fully blossoming.
This present moment always offers us the ground in which we can take
root and open our hearts now. What this means is that we live fully,
wherever we are, not hesitating because conditions are not perfect, or
we might end up moving, or we haven’t found our life partner. This can
be scary, because we might feel that we are giving up our cherished
dreams if we do not agree to wait for them. But this notion that we
have to hold back our life force now in order to find happiness later
doesn’t really make sense. What might really be happening is that we
are afraid to embrace this moment, and ourselves, just exactly as we
are right now. This constitutes a tendency to hold back from fully
loving ourselves, as we are, where we are.
We have a habit of presenting life
with a set of conditions—ifs and whens that must be fulfilled before we
will say yes to the gift of our lives. Now is the time for each of us
to bloom where we are planted, overriding our tendency to hold back.
Now is the time to say yes, to be brave and commit fully to ourselves,
because until we do no one else will. Now is the time to be vulnerable,
unfolding delicately yet fully into the space in which we find
ourselves. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
Most of us in The Program are far more
comfortable with the determination that we won’t take the first drink
today, than we are with the “vow” that we’ll never drink again. Saying
“I intend never to drink again” is quite different from the saying,
“I’ll never drink again.” The last statement is far too reflective of
self-will; it doesn’t leave much room for the idea that God will remove
our obsession to drink if we practice The Program’s Twelve Steps one
day at a time. Will I continue to fight against complacency, realizing
that I’ll always be just one drink away from disaster?
Today I Pray
“Never again” demands too binding a
commitment, even for the strongest among us. Our past lives were full
of “never agains” and won’t evers,” promises that were broken before
the next dawn. May I, for now, set my sites on just one straight, sober
day at a time.
Today I Will Remember
Never say “Never again.”
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One More Day
A tragedy means always a man’s
struggles with that which is stronger than man.
– G. K. Chesteron
Once the diagnosis of a long-term
illness is learned, some of us may use it as an excuse to be sad,
morbid, sullen, unfeeling, and uncaring. These behaviors are all
counterproductive to the fulfilling life we want to lead.
Those of us who undergo a major health
change may consider it a tragedy. It is; loss of good health is a
frightening change. But to keep our personal problems hidden, to never
reach out for help and for support — that is the truest tragedy.
We can reach out to those who love us
and extend our arms to our Higher Power. Rather than being bitter, we
can involve ourselves in the lives of others and allow our personal
tragedies to generate triumphs.
My faith in a Higher Power and my
faith in myself grow stronger each day.
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Food For Thought
Our Daily Bread
Doing the will of our Higher Power each day is what sustains us. We
trust Him to provide the food we need, both physical and spiritual. We
do not have to be anxious about our supply for the future. If we seek
to do God's will today. He will take care of us in the future as well.
Anxiety over material things arises when we forget to stay in touch
with the source of our existence. By ourselves, we cannot even assure
an adequate intake of oxygen; much less all of the other elements we
need for survival. Since we are dependent on our environment to sustain
us, we make life extremely difficult when we try to live a
self-centered existence.
Our daily sustenance comes from a Power greater than ourselves. As
children of God, we have faith that He will take care of us.
Exaggerated emotional dependence on physical food blocks us from the
spiritual nourishment, which our Higher Power offers us today and every
day.
Give us this day our daily bread.
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One Day At A Time
~ COURAGE ~
Courage faces fear and thereby masters
it.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
I've never been a brave person and was
always very fearful. I would watch movies where the hero would rescue
the heroine, or where someone would climb Mount Everest, or perform
some feat of daring, and I would be totally in awe. I was afraid of the
dark, of rejection, of failure and of most other things that I was
convinced took courage. No way would I go parasailing or deep sea
diving as that seemed to require the courage that I lacked. I didn't
understand then that people who do those kinds of things are not
totally without fear, but they have a way of overcoming their fear and
still doing it anyway.
When I came into the program and
learned that I would have to do an inventory and then, worse still,
make amends to the people I had harmed, I was paralyzed by fear.
Eventually I realized that, even though I feared doing these things,
all I had to do was ask my Higher Power for strength and guidance and
then do the things I'd most feared. Perhaps these weren't the feats of
daring that I had seen heroes perform, but for me they were great
victories, and in being able to do them, I knew that I was developing
courage.
One Day at a Time . . .
I will continue to walk through my
fear with my Higher Power at my side, knowing that I am developing the
courage that I thought I lacked.
Sharon S.
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
Having persevered with the rest of the
program, they wondered why they fell. We think the reason is that they
never completed their housecleaning. They took inventory all right, but
hung on to some of the worst items in stock. They only THOUGHT they had
lost their egoism and fear; they only THOUGHT they had humbled
themselves. But they had not learned enough of humility, fearlessness
and honesty, in the sense we find it necessary, until they told someone
else ALL their life story. - Pg. 73 - Into Action
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
We need special people in our lives so
that we can travel the path of recovery. The special people are easy to
find, they are right in front of you, your Higher Power puts them there.
Let me recognize and use the special
people my Divine Source has placed before me to walk beside me on this
road of recovery.
Feeling Good Inside
I am in the present, I can actually
see what the next right action might be and I can take it seamlessly,
easily, fruitfully. I will see my day as an opportunity to grow; to
learn to allow more of who I am to flow through me. Naturally, quietly
and without force. I will become worthy of the life I have been given,
grateful just to be alive for one more day. I will let life work out.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
'We weren't perfect at it. Sometimes
we rebelled, and rejected our sponsors' feedback or the guidance of the
Steps. Still, the recovery process was always there when we needed and
accepted it. (P 80, CDA First Edition)
I worked my using hard, so now I work
my recovery hard.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Strive for perfection; accept progress.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
I am getting to know myself today. I
accept who I am today. I like myself today.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
I ran out of the meeting screaming;
'You're not going to railroad me into being happy!' A while later I
realized what I'd said. - Serenity Sam.
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AA Thought for the Day
December 4
Hope
Hope is the priceless ingredient for
recovery. This, AA gives most frequently not in mere words.
Upon the alcoholic's first contact
with AA, as he looks across the room
and sees men and women respectably
clothed and in their right minds, enjoying themselves,
that flicker of hope begins to burn.
And he says to himself, "If those
jokers can do it, I can."
The first need, beyond any other, is
hope. Without it, there is nothing.
- The Best of the Grapevine [Vol 1],
pp. 156-157
Thought to Ponder . . .
Hope sees the invisible, feels the
intangible, and achieves the impossible.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
H O P E = Heart Open; Please Enter.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Rewards
"The rewards of sobriety are bountiful
and as progressive as the disease they
counteract.
Certainly among these rewards for me
are release from the prison of
uniqueness,
and the realization that participation
in the AA way of life
is a blessing and a privilege beyond
estimate --
a blessing to live a life free from the
pain and degradation of drinking
and filled with the joy of useful,
sober living,
and a privilege to grow in sobriety
one day at a time
and bring the message of hope as it
was brought to me."
>From the new Fourth Edition of
Alcoholics Anonymous
AAGrapevine, December 2001, p. 47
Thought to Consider . . .
Sobriety is a choice and a treasure.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
G I F T S = Getting It From The Steps.
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Gift
Step Twelve: Having had a spiritual
awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message
to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
"When a man or a woman has a spiritual
awakening, the most important meaning of it is that he has now become
able to do, feel, and believe that which he could not do before on his
unaided strength and resources alone. He has been granted a gift which
amounts to a new state of consciousness and being. He has been set on a
path which tells him he is really going somewhere, that life is not a
dead end, not something to be endured or mastered."
1952, AAWS, Inc.; Printed 2005; Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions, pgs. 106-07
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"No matter how truthful the words of
my message, there could be no deep communication if what I said and did
was colored by pride, arrogance, intolerance, resentment, imprudence,
or desire for personal acclaim -- even though I was largely unconscious
of these attitudes"
AA Co-Founder, Bill W., July 1960
"The Language of the Heart"
~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N' Twelve
Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"So our troubles, we think, are
basically of our own making. They
arise out of ourselves, and the
alcoholic is an extreme example of
self-will run riot, though he usually
doesn't think so."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
How It Works, pg. 62~
"...the main problem of the alcoholic
centers in his mind, rather than
in his body."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
There Is A Solution, Page 23~
Just to the extent that we do as we
think He would have us, and humbly rely on Him, does He enable us to
match calamity with serenity.
-Alcoholics Anonymous p.68
And when humility and serenity are so
combined, something else of great moment is apt to occur.
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p.62
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
It was discovered that when one
alcoholic had planted in the mind of another the true nature of his
malady, that person could never be the same again. Following every
spree, he would say to himself, 'Maybe those A.A.'s were right.' After
a few such experiences, often before the onset of extreme difficulties,
he would return to us convinced.
In the first years, those of us who
sobered up in A.A. had been grim and utterly hopeless cases. But then
we began to have success with milder alcoholics and even some potential
alcoholics. Younger folks appeared. Lots of people turned up who still
had jobs, homes, health, and even good social standing.
Of course, it was necessary for these
newcomers to hit bottom emotionally. But they did not have to hit every
possible bottom in order to admit that they were licked.
Prayer for the Day: Tenth Step Prayer -
I pray I may continue:
To grow in understanding and
effectiveness;
To take daily spot-check inventories
of myself;
To correct mistakes when I make them;
To take responsibility for my actions;
To be ever aware of my negative and
self-defeating attitudes and behaviors;
To keep my willfulness in check;
To always remember I need Your help;
To keep love and tolerance of others
as my code;
And to continue in daily prayer how I
can best serve You, my Higher Power.