A "SANE AND
HAPPY
USEFULNESS"
We have come to believe He would like us to keep our
heads in the clouds with Him, but that our feet ought
to be firmly planted on earth. That is where our
fellow travelers are, and that is where our work must
be done. These are the realities for us. We have found
nothing incompatible between a powerful spiritual
experience and a life of sane and happy usefulness.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 130
All the prayer and meditation in the world will not
help me unless they are accompanied by action.
Practicing the principles in all my affairs shows me
the care that God takes in all parts of my life. God
appears in my world when I move aside, and allow Him
to step into it.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
We have been given a new life, just because we happened to become
alcoholics. We
certainly don't deserve the new life that has been given us. There is
little in our past to
warrant the life we have now. Many people live good lives from their
youth on, not getting
into serious trouble, being well adjusted to life, and yet they have
not found all that
we drunks have found. We had the good fortune to find Alcoholics
Anonymous and with it
a new life. We are among the lucky few in the world who have learned a
new way of life.
Am I deeply grateful for the new life that I have learned in A.A.?
Meditation For The Day
A deep gratitude to the Higher Power for all the blessings which we
have and which we
don't deserve has come to us. We thank God and mean it. Then comes
service to our
fellow men, out of gratitude for what we have received. This entails
some sacrifice of
ourselves and our own affairs. But we are glad to do it. Gratitude,
service, and then
sacrifice are the steps that lead to good A.A. work. They open the door
to a new life for
us.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may gladly serve others, out of deep gratitude for what I
have received. I
pray that I may keep a deep sense of obligation.
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As Bill Sees It
Individual
Responsibilities, p.262
Let us emphasize that our reluctance to fight one another, or
anybody else, is not counted as some special virtue which entitles us
A.A.'s to feel superior to other people. Nor does this reluctance
mean that the members of A.A. are going to back away from their
individual responsibilities as citizens. Here they should feel free to
act as they see the right upon the public issues of our times.
But when it comes to A.A. as a whole, that's quite a different matter.
As a group we do not enter into public controversy, because we are
sure that our Society will perish if we do.
12 & 12, p.177
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Walk In Dry Places
Jealousy
toward
loved
ones
Feeling
Though resentment gets more attention in AA than jealousy, both of
these ugly emotions can plague us in sobriety. Some of us can be very
distressed and ashamed when the green demon of jealousy suddenly
assaults us. Does this mean we're not working our program?
No, because the purpose of our program is to bring honesty and healing
into our lives, not denial of basic human emotions. It's very
understandable that we have pangs of jealousy even in sobriety. Quite
often, this jealousy will be felt toward loved ones and close friends.
One young AA father disclosed he was jealous of his wife when their
infant son seemed more responsive to her than to him. We can also
experience jealousy when others close to us receive things we'd like to
have. It's even possible to be jealous of another's standing in AA.
When such feelings arise, we always have the answer: We must discuss
our feelings with certain AA friends and turn these problems over to
our Higher Power. This, not denial, is always the solution.
If the green demon of envy and jealousy arises today, I'll let the
healing power of the Twelve Steps go to work on it.
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Keep It Simple
We
must
all
hang
together
or
we
will hang separately.---Ben
Franklin
We didn't get ourselves sober. And we don't keep ourselves sober. Our
program does this. That is why the Twelfth Step is important. We must
be
willing to give service to our program whenever it's needed. When a
friend calls and say he or she feels like using, we don't say we're
sorry. We get our friend and take him or her to a meeting. Our survival
depends on this kind of action. We are to carry the message. We carry
the
message by deeds, not words. We are part of a fellowship based on
action.
A fellowship guided by love. It is not words that keep us sober--it is
action.
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, help me be ready whenever
there's a need. Help me be ready
to put my self-will aside. Give me strength.
Action for the Day: I will think of my group members. Who could
use a supportive call or
visit? I will call or visit those who need my help.
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Each Day a New Beginning
Follow your dream . .
if you stumble, don't stop
and lose sight of your goal,
press on to the top.
For only on top
Can we see the whole view . . .
--Amanda Bradley
Today, we can, each of us, look back on our lives and get a glimmering
of why something happened and how it fit into the larger mosaic of our
lives. And this will continue to be true for us. We have stumbled. We
will stumble. And we learn about ourselves, about what makes us stumble
and about the methods of picking ourselves up.
Life is a process, a learning process that needs those stumbles to
increase our awareness of the steps we need to take to find our dream
at the top. None of us could realize the part our stumbling played in
the past. But now we see. When we fall, we need to trust that, as
before, our falls are "up," not down.
I will see the whole view in time. I see part of it daily. My mosaic is
right and good and needs my stumbles.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
BILL'S STORY
I was to test my thinking by the new God-consciousness within. Common
sense would thus become uncommon sense. I was to sit quietly when in
doubt, asking only for direction and strength to meet my problems as He
would have me. Never was I to pray for myself, except as my requests
bore on my usefulness to others. Then only might I expect to receive.
But that would be in great measure.
p. 13
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
Because I'm An
Alcoholic
This drinker finally found the answer to her nagging question,
"Why?"
With my attempts to cut down, I stopped keeping alcohol around the
house, drank up whatever was there, over and over deciding not to get
more. Then on the way home after work or an evening out, I'd have to
see if I could scrape together enough money for a bottle. There were
liquor stores just about every block, and I rotated them so the
salesmen wouldn't know how much I drank. On Sundays when the liquor
stores were closed, I had to make do with beer or hard cider from the
grocery.
p. 342
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step Four - "Made a searching
and fearless moral inventory of ourselves."
Now let's ponder the need for a list of the more glaring personality
defects all of us have in varying degrees. To those having religious
training, such a list would set forth serious violations of moral
principles. Some others will think of this list as defects of
character. Still others will call it an index of maladjustments. Some
will become quite annoyed if there is talk about immorality, let alone
sin. But all who are in the least reasonable will agree upon one point:
that there is plenty wrong with us alcoholics about which plenty will
have to be done if we are to expect sobriety, progress, and any real
ability to cope with life.
p. 48
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Sharing
our
experiences
with
other
people
gives
them hope.
--unknown
What I am is God's gift to me.
What I make of myself is my gift to Him.
--unknown
"An apology is the superglue of life: it can repair just about
anything."
--Unknown
A man's true wealth is the good he does in the world. Beauty is
eternity gazing at
itself in a mirror. But you are eternity and you are the mirror.
--Kahlil Gibran
"Joy is not in things; It is in us"
--Richard Wagner
"Christmas gift suggestions: To your enemy, forgiveness. To an
opponent, tolerance. To
a friend, your heart. To a customer, service. To all, charity. To every
child, a good
example. To yourself, respect."
--Oren Arnold
"At this time of the year, we need to remind ourselves that what we
give from deep within
has a much greater worth than what we give from our wallets. Some
attempt to impress
others with their contributions, but the real acts of kindness are when
we give our time,
our talents, and gifts that are a reflection of our hearts.
-Neil Eskelinn
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
BROTHERHOOD
"I am a citizen, not of Athens or
Greece, but of the world."
-- Socrates
My recovery has enabled me to see that I belong; I belong not simply to
a race or
nation but to the world. The freedom experienced in my recovery enables
me to
embrace different cultures, races and religions. Spirituality has
brought harmony into
my life.
Today I can go where I please. I can learn languages and communicate
with people in
foreign lands. I can listen to ideas and philosophies that enrich God
"as I understand
Him". The healing that I have experienced in my recovery is more than
discovering
my choice around alcohol, it is discovering my choice around life.
Today I am not
content to exist in my life, I choose to live it. Welcome to my world!
May I always choose to see and appreciate the richness of my life.
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He
guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way. All the
ways of the
LORD are loving and faithful for those who keep the demands of his
covenant.
Psalm 25 9-10
"Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit
lead me on level
ground."
Psalm 143:10
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Daily Inspiration
As you draw closer and closer to God, you won't have to tell anyone
because it will show in your face. Lord, teach me Your ways as I am
ready and let Your love and peace flow through me even in my difficult
moments.
When you live in the spirit of God you will always feel the love within
you. Lord, may I seek peace in You and not from the outside world.
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NA Just For Today
The Group
"The Twelfth Step of our personal
program also says that we carry the message to the addict who still
suffers.... The group is the most powerful vehicle we have for carrying
the message."
Basic Text pg. 65
When we first come to Narcotics
Anonymous meetings, we meet recovering addicts. We know they are
addicts because they talk about the same experiences and feelings we've
had. We know they are recovering because of their serenity - they've
got something we want. We feel hope when other addicts share their
recovery with us in NA meetings.
The atmosphere of recovery attracts us
to the meetings. That atmosphere is created when group members make a
commitment to work together. We try to enhance the atmosphere of
recovery by helping set up for meetings, greeting newcomers, and
talking with other addicts after the meeting. These demonstrations of
our commitment make our meetings attractive and help our groups share
their recovery.
Sharing experience in meetings is one
way in which we help one another, and it's often the foundation for our
sense of belonging. We identify with other addicts, so we trust their
message of hope. Many of us would not have stayed in Narcotics
Anonymous without that sense of belonging and hope. When we share at
group meetings, we support our personal recovery while helping others.
Just for today: I will reach out to
another addict in my group and share my recovery.
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
He is Father. Even more, God is
Mother, who does not want to harm us.
--Pope John Paul I
God is many things to different
people. Some call God "Father," others "Mother," still others "Higher
Power," "Inner Light," "Deeper Self," and "Supreme Being."
It doesn't matter what name we use. No
one name is ever fully adequate, and each of us has our own private way
of trying to understand that which we can't ever understand fully. We
give God names which attempt to express what God means to us
personally, what God does for us as individuals, and how we see
ourselves in relation to God.
Could it also be true that other
people can't be labelled and put into one box? Doing so limits them to
one particular way of being understood, and it limits the ways we can
get to know them. If we are all made in God's image, then we all
deserve the freedom to be seen differently by different people.
How does God look to me today?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
Celebration is a forgetting in order
to remember. A forgetting of ego, of problems, of difficulties. A
letting go. --Matthew Fox
A holiday presents us men with an
opportunity to practice the letting go of this program. This is a
special day to set aside our work and our routines, to put our problems
and burdens on the shelf. Let us join with others who are also letting
go on this day and celebrate. Maybe we can learn from them how they do
it.
We may have been too compulsive on
past holidays to celebrate. Or perhaps our holidays are clouded with
painful memories. We might miss loved ones or we may recall
disappointments or the chaos of earlier holidays. There is no need for
perfection in our celebration. We can have some tension, or pain, and
yet set it aside as we join with others for a special day.
Today, I will set my ego aside and let
go of the usual things in my life in order to reach out to others and
participate in celebration.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
Follow your dream . .
if you stumble, don't stop
and lose sight of your goal,
press on to the top.
For only on top
Can we see the whole view . . .
--Amanda Bradley
Today, we can, each of us, look back
on our lives and get a glimmering of why something happened and how it
fit into the larger mosaic of our lives. And this will continue to be
true for us. We have stumbled. We will stumble. And we learn about
ourselves, about what makes us stumble and about the methods of picking
ourselves up.
Life is a process, a learning process
that needs those stumbles to increase our awareness of the steps we
need to take to find our dream at the top. None of us could realize the
part our stumbling played in the past. But now we see. When we fall, we
need to trust that, as before, our falls are "up," not down.
I will see the whole view in time. I
see part of it daily. My mosaic is right and good and needs my stumbles.
You are reading from the book The
Language Of Letting Go.
Getting Through the Holidays
For some, the sights, signs, and
smells of the holidays bring joy and a warm feeling. But, while others
are joyously diving into the season, some of us are dipping into
conflict, guilt, and a sense of loss.
We read articles on how to enjoy the
holidays, we read about the Christmas blues, but many of us still can't
figure out how to get through the holiday season. We may not know what
a joyous holiday would look and feel like.
Many of us are torn between what we
want to do on the holiday, and what we feel we have to do. We may feel
guilty because we don't want to be with our families. We may feel a
sense of loss because we don't have the kind of family to be with that
we want. Many of us, year after year, walk into the same dining room on
the same holiday, expecting this year to be different. Then we leave,
year after year, feeling let down, disappointed, and confused by it all.
Many of us have old, painful memories
triggered by the holidays.
Many of us feel a great deal of relief
when the holiday is ended.
One of the greatest gifts of recovery
is learning that we are not alone. There are probably as many of us in
conflict during the holidays than there are those who feel at peace.
We're learning, through trial and error, how to take care of ourselves
a little better each holiday season.
Our first recovery task during the
holidays is to accept ourselves, our situation, and our feelings about
our situation. We accept our guilt, anger, and sense of loss. It's all
okay.
There is no right or perfect way to
handle the holidays. Our strength can be found in doing the best we
can, one year at a time.
This holiday season, I will give
myself permission to take care of myself.
Today I am willing to be increasingly
aware of my spiritual life. --Ruth Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Heal Yourself
Infuse healing energy into yourself,
into your being. For too long, we’ve been attracted to things that
drain us, exhausting our body, depleting our soul. That time has passed.
The world is a spa, a nature retreat,
a wealth of healing resources. Pour epsom salts and essential oils into
your bath. Sit quietly by a tree or in a garden. Walk around the block
in your neighborhood. Spend an afternoon in a nearby park or a day at
the lake or beach. Throw stones into the river while you sit on the
bank contemplating the eternal stream of life. Allow beautiful music to
quietly imbue the stillness with healing instead of the pounding of
your mind. Light a fire and awaken that darkened hearth to glowing
flames and soothing warmth.
Rise from your bed early in the
morning. Open the curtains. Watch the sunrise. Feel the sunrise. Let it
infuse you with its message. Let it energize you, invigorate you, fill
you with life. At day’s end return to the window. Or step outside.
Watch the sun set. Absorb its changing colors spreading beyond the
horizon. Feel how it changes the earth and all it touches.
Pet a puppy, stroke a piece of velvet,
listen to a symphony. If you can’t slow down long enough to absorb the
energy the first time, do it a second and a third. Absorb revitalizing
energy until you can hear your voice, hear your heart tell you what
would feel good, what would bring peace, what would bring stillness and
joy. Before long, doing what brings healing and joy will become as
natural as it used to be to do what drains, tires, depletes, and
exhausts.
It isn’t enough to draw near to the
light. Absorb it into you. Let it charge you and change you with its
energy and its power. Healing is all around you. Wherever you are,
whatever your resources, healing energy, and joy are there.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Let your family be
Timothy attended one of those
seminars, the kind that talks about personal growth and encourages
people to open their hearts. After the seminar, he was so moved by what
he’d heard that he called his father on the phone. He hadn’t talked to
his father for many years. They had a squabble years earlier when
Timothy left home. Neither one wanted tp make the first move or to
forgive the other person for the harsh words that had transpired.
Timothy made the first move. He and his father have been close ever
since.
Jessica had her share of troubled
times with her mother,too. Over the years there had been times when
they’d been close, times when they didn’t talk, and times when Jessica
just did the minimum in the relationship, mostly out of a sense of
obligation and guilt. As Jessica got older, she began feeling bad about
her troubled relationship with her mother. She’d done her family of
origin work. She knew her mother had been troubled; but after all, her
mother was just a person. Why not forgive and forget? Jessica planned a
big trip for the two of them to take, a mother-daughter vacation that
would melt away the irritation and conflict from all the years. Jessica
had so many hopes the day she met her mother at the airport. But when
they got together in the same room for their two weeks of joy, Jessica
realized she felt the same way she always had when she was around her
mother: irritable, ashamed, and not good enough.
Clarence liked his dad when he was a
boy. But the older he got, the more he wanted to leave home. His father
had issues; Clarence did, too. After Clarence left home, he only spent
a few minutes each year talking to his father. One day, when Clarence
reached his thirties, he decided it was time for him and his father to
be friends. He planned a trip to his father’s house. He couldn’t wait
for the heart-to-heart talk they’d have. Clarence would talk about the
struggles of being a man and growing up, and surely his father would
identify with him. But when they got together, alone in the house,
after Clarence poured out his heart, all his father had to say was,
“Can you come outside and help me change the tire on the car?”
Families and parents come in all
different kinds. Do your family of origin work. Be grateful for the
good passed on to you from your ancestors and your heritage. Reach out,
if that’s what your heart leads you to do. Be the best son or daughter
you can, whatever that means to you. But don’t torture yourself if your
relationship with your parents is not what you dreamed. Let each member
of your family be who he or she is. Love them as much as you can. But
if you never got along all that well before, you might not get along
now, even after you open your heart.
Laugh. Smile. You don’t have to react.
You know how to take care of yourself.
God, heal my heart toward all my
family members. Help me accept each person for who he or she is. Then
help me genuinely accept myself,too.
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Beyond Counting Blessings
Being Truly Thankful by Madisyn Taylor
Our gratitude deepens when we begin to
be thankful for being alive during this time and living the life we are
living.
Often when we practice being thankful,
we go through the process of counting our blessings, acknowledging the
wonderful people, things and places that make up our reality. While it
is fine to be grateful for the good fortune we have accumulated, true
thankfulness stems from a powerful comprehension of the gift of simply
being alive, and when we feel it, we feel it regardless of our
circumstances. In this deep state of gratitude, we recognize the purity
of the experience of being, in and of itself, and our thankfulness is
part and parcel of our awareness that we are one with this great
mystery that is life.
It is difficult for most of us to
access this level of consciousness as we are very caught up in the ups
and downs of our individual experiences in the world. The thing to
remember about the world, though, is that it ebbs and flows, expands
and contracts, gives and takes, and is by its very nature somewhat
unreliable. If we only feel gratitude when it serves our desires, this
is not true thankfulness. No one is exempt from the twists and turns of
fate, which may, at any time, take the possessions, situations, and
people we love away from us. Ironically, it is sometimes this kind of
loss that awakens us to a thankfulness that goes deeper than just being
grateful when things go our way. Illness and near-miss accidents can
also serve as wake-up calls to the deeper realization that we are truly
lucky to be alive.
We do not have to wait to be shaken to
experience this state of being truly thankful for our lives. Tuning in
to our breath and making an effort to be fully present for a set period
of time each day can do wonders for our ability to connect with true
gratitude. We can also awaken ourselves with the intention to be more
aware of the unconditional generosity of the life force that flows
through us regardless of our circumstances. Published with permission
from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
We came to The Program as supplicants,
literally at the ends of our ropes. Sooner or later, by practicing the
principles of the Twelve Steps, we discover within ourselves a very
precious thing. We uncover something with which we can be comfortable
in all places and situations. We gain strength and grow with the help
of God as we understand Him, with the fellowship of The Program, and by
applying the Twelve Steps to our lives. Can anyone take my new life
from me?
Today I Pray
May my prayers of desperate
supplication, which I brought to my Higher Power as a newcomer to The
Program, change to a peaceful surrender to the will of God. Now that I
have seen what can be done through the endless might of a Higher Power,
may my gift to others be that strong conviction. I pray that those I
love will have the faith to find their own spiritual experiences and
the blessings of peace.
Today I Will Remember
Peace — inner and outer — is God’s
greatest blessing.
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One More Day
I have been sick and I have found out,
only then, how lonely I am. Is it too late? – Eudora Welty
At one time, we may have thought in
absolute terms. Either a person was our best friend or not. Things were
right or wrong. We may have driven people from us — people we could
have loved and who would have enriched our lives.
We have learned that if we are not
happy, we need not accept things as they stand. The first step is
always to admit there is a problem. Whether it’s loneliness, or we have
been too brusque with others, or we need a spiritual change, we can
admit it and do whatever is necessary to improve. We can turn to
friends or even professionals for help if we need it. We can do this
because it’s never too late.
Although the very thought of change is
frightening, I will assess my life and begin anew today.
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Food For Thought
Thinking Straight
Before we found this program, we did a great deal of thinking in
circles. Since we did not know how to stop eating compulsively, we
spent a lot of time thinking up reasons for our behavior, making plans
for change, and rationalizing another day's failure to eat normally.
Our thinking often wandered away into fantasy, spinning dreams of when
we would be thin and on top of things. Since we had to have reasons for
our inability to make the dreams materialize, we blamed our failure on
the people around us. "If they were only more loving, considerate,
capable, exciting, smarter..."
Such circular thinking got us nowhere. The more we fantasized, the more
we ate, and the more we ate, the more we withdrew from reality.
When our minds are not muddled by too much food, our thinking is
clarified. The Twelve Steps put us on the road to responsible action,
rather than irresponsible rationalization. Accepting the fact that we
have a disease keeps us in the world of reality instead of a
fantasyland.
With Your truth, keep my thinking straight.
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One Day At A Time
REGRET
“Regret is an appalling waste of
energy;
you can't build on it;
it’s only good for wallowing in.”
Katherine Mansfield
Before I came into the program, I
allowed fear to rule my life and prevent me from trying new things. I
was absent from my own life. I was emotionally unavailable to my
children and I stayed stuck in a deep hole of self-pity. I never really
heard beautiful music or gloried in the miracles of nature. Although I
had what people might perceive as a pretty normal life, it was actually
an empty shell and I merely existed. I feel so saddened now at the
thought of all the wasted years. I cannot bring them back, but I can
learn from them.
When I came into the program and read
the Promises in the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, I realized that
it was futile to regret the past or to shut the door on it. Those years
and all the pain I went through are what made me the person I am today.
I need to always remember where I came from, because if I don't, I can
just as easily go back there. I can also use my experience to help
others on this wonderful road to recovery. I am able to give away what
has been given to me so freely, because it’s only then that I can keep
what I have.
One Day at a Time . . .
I must always remember where I came
from so that I can help others in this program of recovery and keep
myself from going back into the patterns of my past.
Sharon S.
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
Men and women drink essentially
because they like the effect produced by alcohol. The sensation is so
elusive that, while they admit it is injurious, they cannot after a
time differentiate the true from the false. To them, their alcoholic
life seems the only normal one. They are restless, irritable and
discontented, unless they can again experience the sense of ease and
comfort which comes at once by taking a few drinks - drinks which they
see others taking with impunity. After they have succumbed to the
desire again, as so many do, and the phenomenon of craving develops,
they pass through the well-known stages of a spree, emerging
remorseful, with a firm resolution not to drink again. This is repeated
over and over, and unless this person can experience an entire psychic
change there is little hope of his recovery. - Pg. xxviii-xxix - 4th.
Edition - The Doctor's Opinion
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
In our recovery it is easy to forget
to listen. We get two weeks of clean time and suddenly 'got it made.'
Listening is actually our second greatest teacher, the horrors of
addiction being our first. If we forget to listen to those who have
gone before us, our first great teacher will take over again.
May I please keep my ears open, more
then my mouth during these initial learning months.
Inner Hearing, Inner Sight
Today, I will trust my own heart. The
clear message that whispers within me has more to tell me than a
thousand voices. I have a guide within me who knows what is best for
me. There is a part of me that sees the whole picture and knows how it
all fits together. My inner voice may come in the form of a strong
sense, a pull from within, a gut feeling or a quiet knowing. However my
inner voice comes to me, I will learn to pay attention. In my heart I
know what is going on. Though I am conditioned by the world to look
constantly outside myself for meaning, today I recognize that it is
deeply important for me to hear what I am saying from within. I give
myself the gift of listening.
I will trust my inner voice.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
When we feel that fate has dealt us a
bad hand with chemical dependency, we simply remember that many people
have MS, cancer, diabetes, lupus, or a myriad of maladies that are not
so easily put into remission.
Because I count my blessings, my
blessings count.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Be kind to unkind people. It gets to
them.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I am willing to be increasingly
aware of my spiritual life.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
This guy had been dragged out of his
car drunk by the police. He was handcuffed and chained to a bench at
the police station, he'd just urinated on himself, and he looked up at
the cop and said; 'I have got to stop driving.' - Scott R.
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AA Thought for the Day
December 24
A Leap of Faith
We needed to ask ourselves but one
short question.
"Do I now believe, or am I even
willing to believe, that there is a Power greater than myself?"
As soon as a man can say that he does
believe, or is willing to believe, we emphatically assure him that he
is on his way.
- Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 47
Thought to Ponder . . .
Faith dares the soul to go beyond what
the eyes can see.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
F A I T H = Finding Answers In The
Heart.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Certainty
The great fact is just this, and
nothing less:
That we have had deep and effective
spiritual experiences
which have revolutionized our whole
attitude
toward life, toward our fellows, and
toward God's universe.
The central fact of our lives today is
the absolute certainty
that our Creator has entered into our
hearts and lives
in a way which is indeed miraculous.
He has commenced to accomplish those
things for us
which we could never do by ourselves.
c. 2001AAWS, Alcoholics Anonymous, p.
25
Thought to Consider . . .
I stood in the sunlight at last.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
Y A N A = You Are Not Alone.
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Aid
From "A Vision for You":
"God will constantly disclose more to
you and to us. Ask Him in your morning meditation what you can do each
day for
the man who is still sick. The answers
will come, if your own house is in order."
2001 AAWS, Inc., Fourth Edition;
Alcoholics Anonymous, pg. 164
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"It doesn't do too much good to carry
the Big Book on your arm all day if you don't open it up and read it."
Oceanside, Calif., June 2000
"As Unique as Ham and Eggs,"
Emotional Sobriety
~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N' Twelve
Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"Now we go out to our fellows and
repair the damage done in the
past. We attempt to sweep away the
debris which has accumulated out
of our effort to live on self-will and
run the show ourselves. If we
haven't the will to do this, we ask
until it comes. Remember it was
agreed at the beginning we would go to
any lengths for victory over
alcohol."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Into Action, pg.76~
"Doubtless you are curious to discover
how and why, in the face of
expert opinion to the contrary, we
have recovered from a hopeless
condition of mind and body. If you are
an alcoholic who wants to get
over it, you may already be asking
What do I have to do?"
It is the purpose of this book to
answer such questions specifically.
We shall tell you what we have done.
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
There Is A Solution, Page 20~
In meditation, we ask God what we
should do about each specific matter.
-Alcoholics Anonymous p.69
Prayer is the raising of the heart and
mind to God -- and in this sense it includes meditation.
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p.102
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
Watch any A.A. of six months working
with a Twelfth Step prospect. If the newcomer says, 'To the devil with
you,' the twelfth-stepper only smiles and finds another alcoholic to
help. He doesn't feel frustrated or rejected. If his next drunk
responds, and in turn starts to give love and attention to other
sufferers, yet gives none back to him, the sponsor is happy about it
anyway. He still doesn't feel rejected; instead he rejoices that his
former prospect is sober and happy.
And he well knows that his own life
has been made richer, as an extra dividend of giving to another without
any demand for a return.
Prayer for the Day: Dear God, I have no idea where I am going.
I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it
will end. Nor do I really know myself. .. and the fact that I think I
am following Your Will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I
believe this: I believe that the desire to please You does in fact
please You, I hope I have that desire in everything I do. I hope I
never persist in anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I
do this You will lead me by the right road, though I may do nothing
about it at the time, Therefore I will trust You always, for though I
may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death - I will not be afraid,
because I know you will never leave me to face my troubles all alone,
Handed to a Newcomer by an Oldtimer in 1988 with the notation "This
helps me on the days when none of it makes sense!"