DOING
ANYTHING TO HELP
Offer him [the alcoholic] friendship and fellowship. Tell
him that if he wants to get well you will do anything to
help.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 95
I remember how attracted I was to the two men from A.A.
who Twelfth-Stepped me. They said I could have what they
had, with no conditions attached, that all I had to do was
make my own decision to join them on the pathway to
recovery. When I start convincing a newcomer to do things
my way, I forget how helpful those two men were to me in
their open-minded generosity.
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Twenty-Four Hours A Day
A.A. Thought For The Day
Service to others makes the world a good place. Civilization
would cease if all of us were always and only for ourselves. We
alcoholics have a wonderful opportunity to contribute to the
well-being of the world. We have a common problem. We find
a common answer. We are uniquely equipped to help others
with the same problem. What a wonderful world it would be
if everybody took their own greatest problem and found the
answer to it and spent the rest of their lives helping
others with the same problem, in their spare time. Soon we
would have the right kind of a world. Do I appreciate my unique
opportunity to be of service?
Meditation For The Day
Today can be lived in the consciousness of God's contact,
upholding you in all good thoughts, words and deeds. If
sometimes there seems to be a shadow on your life and you
feel out of sorts, remember that this is not the withdrawal
of God's presence, but only your own temporary unwillingness
to realize it. The quiet gray days are the days for doing
what you must do, but know that the consciousness of God's
nearness will return and be with you again, when the gray
days are past.
Prayer For The Day
I pray that I may face the dull days with courage. I pray
that I may have faith that the bright days will return.
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As Bill Sees It
A.A.
In Two
Words, p.271
"All A.A. progress can be reckoned in terms of just two words:
humility and responsibility. Our whole spiritual development can
be accurately measured by our degree of adherence to these
magnificent standards.
"Ever deepening humility, accompanied by an ever greater
willingness to accept and to act upon clear-cut obligations--these are
truly our touchstones for all growth in the life of the spirit. They
hold up to us the very essence of right being and right doing. It is by
them that we are enabled to find and to do God's will."
Talk, 1965 (Printed In Grapevine, January 1966)
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Walk In Dry Places
Watching
our
boundaries.
Personal relationships
Setting boundaries in personal relationships is how we manage actions
that could otherwise get out of control. One firm boundary in AA, for
example, is maintaining other members' anonymity, as well as our own.
We are always overstepping boundaries if we disclose another's AA
membership without permission.
It's wise, too, not to expect the easy familiarity of the meetings to
carry over into all other activities. One member who was employed by
another AA member apparently wondered why his boss was so easygoing and
cordial at AA meetings and so remote and businesslike in the factory.
It made perfect sense, however; their relationship in the plant was
different from their AA relationship and required another set of
boundaries.
We can protect ourselves and others by being careful to establish
proper boundaries for all relationships. This means that what's
appropriate for one setting may not be for another.
I'll check to be sure that I'm observing proper boundaries, for myself
and others. I must not violate others' rights any more than I want my
own violated.
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Keep It Simple
As
ass
is
beautiful
to
an
ass, and a pig to a pig.-- English
proverb.
When we see someone drunk and out of control, can we see the beautiful
person inside them?
If we can't, who will? Step Twelve reminds us that we have to help the
alcoholic or other drug addict who suffers. This task has been given to
us because we, most of all, should be able to look past the drunkenness
and see the person. We were there. We know what it's like to be trapped
in a world without meaning. If these memories have faded, we may need
to
go back over Step One. We may find ourselves angry with the practicing
drunk or other drug addict. This is a sign that we have gotten too far
from our past. Remember, "But for the grace of God..."
Prayer for the Day: Higher Power, Help me remember my past and
what it's like now. This helps
me care about the person who still suffers.
Action for the Day: Today, I'll respect my illness. I'll look for
the beauty inside every
drunk and other drug addict.
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Each Day a New Beginning
Happiness is a form of freedom, and of all people I should be the
freest. I've earned this happiness and this freedom.
--Angela L. Wozniak
Life is a process, and we are progressing beautifully. We are no longer
abusing our bodies and minds with drugs. We are taking special time,
daily, to look for guidance. We are working the Steps of the program,
better and better as the abstinent days add up. We are free from past
behaviors. And we can be free from our negative attitudes too.
Making a decision to look for the good in our experiences and in our
friends and acquaintances frees us from so much frustration. It ushers
in happiness, no only for us but for the others we are treating
agreeably. Happiness is a byproduct of living the right kind of life.
We can take a moment today, each time an action is called for, to
consider our response. The one that squares with our inner selves and
feels good, is the right one. Happiness will accompany it.
Happiness is always within my power. My attitude is at the helm.
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition
BILL'S STORY
The wars which had been fought, the burnings and chicanery that
religious dispute had facilitated, made me sick. I honestly doubted
whether, on balance, the religions of mankind had done any good.
Judging from what I had seen in Europe and since, the power of God in
human affairs was negligible, the Brotherhood of Man a grim jest. If
there was a Devil, he seemed the Boss of the Universal, and he
certainly had me.
p. 11
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Alcoholics Anonymous - Fourth
Edition Stories
Because I'm An
Alcoholic
This drinker finally found the answer to her nagging question,
"Why?"
So I continued spinning fantasies, and now alcohol fueled my dreams. I
would make great discoveries, win the Nobel Prize in medicine and in
literature as well. Always the dream was somewhere else, further off,
and I took a series of geographical cures in search of myself. I was
offered a job in Paris and jumped at the chance. I packed my trunk,
left my apartment to my boyfriend, and sailed off, thinking that at
last I would find my real home, my real self.
p. 339
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Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
Step Four -
"Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves."
If, however, our natural disposition is inclined to self righteousness
or grandiosity, our reaction will be just the opposite. We will be
offended at A.A.'s suggested inventory. No doubt we shall point with
pride to the good lives we thought we led before the bottle cut us
down. We shall claim that our serious character defects, if we think we
have any at all, have been caused chiefly by excessive drinking. This
being so, we think it logically follows that sobriety-- first, last,
and all the time--is the only thing we need to work for. We believe
that our one-time good characters will be revived the moment we quit
alcohol. If we were pretty nice people all along, except for our
drinking, what need is there for a moral inventory now that we are
sober?
p. 45
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Too
often we under estimate the power
of a touch, a smile, a kind word,
a listening
ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which
have the
potential to turn a life around.
--Leo Buscaglia
He who speaks sows, and he who listens harvests.
--Argentinean Proverb
God is my compass, may I follow direction.
--Shelley
"Don't dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next.
Spend your
energies on moving forward toward finding the answer."
--Denis Waitley
"The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting
otherwise and
thinking that having problems is a problem."
--Theodore Rubin
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation
POVERTY
"The poor you always have with
you."
-- Jesus (John 12:8)
Whoever said that life was going to be easy? A great number of people
are placed in
circumstances that are beyond their control and they die in helpless
poverty. The poor
are always with us. I cannot understand this dilemma and I have few
answers for
most of the world's suffering. However, I have a faith in God's love
being
realized beyond the grave for everyone.
But many of "the poor" are spiritually destitute by their own making.
They choose to
live lives that are consistently destructive and they refuse to change.
Alcoholics and
drug addicts are committing suicide by their lifestyle! I know because
for years I was
one. This produces a spiritual poverty that need not remain. This is a
poverty that
can be overcome. Recovery is finding the hidden treasure that is within.
Let me find Your treasure in the loving care I give myself.
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Now
may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that
you may
abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Romans 15:13
"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of
mercies and God
of all comfort; who comforts us in all our affliction so that we may be
able to comfort
those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we
ourselves are comforted by
God. For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so
also our comfort is
abundant through Christ."
2 Corinthians 1:3-5
"No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is
faithful;
he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you
are tempted,
he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it."
I Corinthians 10:13
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Daily Inspiration
Add excitement to the day by meeting everything as though it is your
very first time. Lord, give me the ability to change the ordinary into
something special, to do more than just slide through the moments of
the day and take time to notice that my life really is terrific most of
the time.
We have two ends; one for sitting and one for thinking. My success
depends on which one I use more. Lord, grant me the determination and
the necessary energy that I need to accomplish my goals for today and
for my future.
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NA Just For Today
The Joy Of Sharing
"There is a spiritual principle of
giving away what we have been given in Narcotics Anonymous in order to
keep it. By helping others to stay clean, we enjoy the benefit of the
spiritual wealth that we have found."
Basic Text pg. 47
Time and again in our recovery, others
have freely shared with us what was freely shared with them. Perhaps we
were the recipients of a Twelfth Step call. Maybe someone picked us up
and took us to our first meeting. It could be that someone bought us
dinner when we were new. All of us have been given time, attention, and
love by our fellow members. We may have asked someone, "What can I do
to repay you?" And the answer we received was probably a suggestion
that we do the same for a newer member when we were able.
As we maintain our clean time and
recovery, we find ourselves wanting to do for others the things that
someone did for us, and happy that we can. If we heard the message
while in a hospital or institution, we can join our local H&I
subcommittee. Perhaps we can volunteer on the NA help line. Or we can
give of our time, attention, and love to a newcomer we are trying to
help.
We've been given much in our recovery.
One of the greatest of these gifts is the privilege of sharing with
others what's been shared with us, with no expectation of reward. It's
a joy to find we have something that can be of use to others, and that
joy is multiplied when we share it. Today we can do so, freely and
gratefully.
Just for today: I have been given much
in my recovery, and I am deeply grateful for it. I will take joy in
being able to share it with others as freely as it was shared with me.
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You are reading from the book Today's
Gift.
Great symphonies begin with just one
note. --Priscilla Young Pratt
Sometimes it's really hard to get
going. We put off things we don't want to do, or are afraid to try. We
occasionally feel overwhelmed by the size of a job to be done like
cleaning out the cellar or reading a long book for a class.
But think a minute. If Beethoven had
thought about how complicated it was to write his Ninth Symphony, with
all those instruments and voices and notes to blend together, do we
really think he would ever have started? But he didn't get overwhelmed.
He sat down and wrote just one small note, and then another, and a
third. It took him months, but writing one note led to a second, and,
one note at a time, he completed it.
We begin the same way with whatever
tasks we have ahead of us. Each tiny bit of progress helps us go on to
the next part. We begin by reading one page of that book, or taking one
box of junk from the cellar. That's all we have to do. The rest will
follow almost on its own. The trick is to begin.
What needs to be done today, and how
do I start?
You are reading from the book
Touchstones.
My mother was dead for five years
before I knew that I loved her very much.
--Lillian Hellman
Each day it helps us to remember that
we are always changing. Whatever is most clear to us today or is most
prominent in our feelings - the difficulties we may be having with
parents, wives or lovers, the worries we have about our children - is a
part of an unfolding of events we cannot foresee. Just when we think we
know exactly the direction things are going, they surprise us with
change. Relationships continue to evolve and mature as we do. Even when
separated from loved ones, our relationships may improve because we
continue to grow.
Our task for this day is to be honest
with ourselves, to be respectful to others, and to stay open to our
Higher Power. Continuing to go forward, we put one foot in front of the
other. We are changing internally, and circumstances around us are
changing too. We remain hopeful for the future because outcomes are in
the hands of God.
I cannot predict the direction of my
growth. I will simply remain true to myself today and stay open for
surprises.
You are reading from the book Each Day
a New Beginning.
Happiness is a form of freedom, and of
all people I should be the freest. I've earned this happiness and this
freedom.
--Angela L. Wozniak
Life is a process, and we are
progressing beautifully. We are no longer abusing our bodies and minds
with drugs. We are taking special time, daily, to look for guidance. We
are working the Steps of the program, better and better as the
abstinent days add up. We are free from past behaviors. And we can be
free from our negative attitudes too.
Making a decision to look for the good
in our experiences and in our friends and acquaintances frees us from
so much frustration. It ushers in happiness, no only for us but for the
others we are treating agreeably. Happiness is a byproduct of living
the right kind of life.
We can take a moment today, each time
an action is called for, to consider our response. The one that squares
with our inner selves and feels good, is the right one. Happiness will
accompany it.
Happiness is always within my power.
My attitude is at the helm.
You are reading from the book The
Language Of Letting Go.
Feelings
It's okay to have and feel our
feelings - all of them.
Years into recovery, we may still be
battling with ourselves about this issue. Of all the prohibitions we've
lived with, this one is potentially the most damaging and the most
long-lived.
Many of us needed to shut down the
emotional part of ourselves to survive certain situations. We shut down
the part of us that feels anger, sadness, fear, joy, and love. We may
have turned off our sexual or sensual feelings too. Many of us lived in
systems with people who refused to tolerate our emotions. We were
shamed or reprimanded for expressing feelings, usually by people who
were taught to repress their own.
But times have changed. It is okay now
for us to acknowledge and accept our emotions. We don't need to allow
our emotions to control us; neither do we need to allow our emotions to
control us; neither do we need to rigidly repress our feelings. Our
emotional center is a valuable part of us. It's connected to our
physical well being, our thinking, and our spirituality.
Our feelings are also connected to
that great gift, instinct. They enable us to give and receive love.
We are neither weak nor deficient for
indulging in our feelings. It means we're becoming healthy and whole.
Today, I will allow myself to
recognize and accept whatever feelings pass through me. Without shame,
I will tune in to the emotional part of myself.
Today I am experiencing all of my
life. It is exciting to be alive in each moment. written by ~ Ruth
Fishel
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Journey To The Heart
Awaken Your Life Force
The Chinese call it chi. The
Japanese,ki. It refers to energy, the life force, the Divine spirit of
life that permeates all that is. That permeates you.
Awaken your life force. Do things that
stimulate it, bring it alive. Walk on the ground with your bare feet
and let the earth’s energy surge through you. Reach your hands toward
the heavens and let Divine energy come down to you. Move around.
Release the blocks.Feel. Love. Sing. Shout.
Come alive. Discover what it means to
become vital and fully alive. Feel the life force surge through you, up
through your legs, your spine, your head. Feel it wash down upon you
through your arms, your torso, down through your toes and into the
ground, rooting you to this planet like a tree. Know you have roots.
Know you have branches.
Fill yourself with chi. Fill yourself
until you feel vital, alive. Feel it until you become happy and joyful,
grateful to be alive on this planet. Feel it until you know you are one
with God, one with life, one with love. Feel it until you see how
connected you are with all that lives.
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More Language Of Letting Go
Fall in love with life
I was sitting in the chair at the
beauty shop getting my hair cut one day and listening to my beautician
chatter away. She showed me a picture of one of her friends, a woman
who had gotten married and recently had a baby girl.
“She’s been so in love since that
child was born,” she said, showing me a picture of the new mother’s
smiling face.
“In love with her husband?” I asked.
“No,” she said. “Well, that,too. I
mean in love with life.”
Have you ever been in love, had your
heart best fast when you anticipated the call of your lover, felt the
way the sun felt warmer on your face, the sky appeared bluer, the
clouds more fluffy, and the sunset more grand?
What if you could fall in love with
your life and feel that way each day? I’m not saying romantic
relationships are bad. They’re not. They’re part of being human and
getting our needs met. But what if we could take all that passion and
focus it into falling in love with life?
Maybe that is what is meant by
universal love. Maybe that’s the part we give back.
Fall in love with your life today.
God, help me feel passionate about my
life and all the possibilities that stretch out before me.
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Focused Value
Quality Vs. Quantity
We live in an age of quantity. The
media shapes us with the notion that larger, faster, and more are often
synonymous with better. We are told that we need to find more time,
more possessions, and more love to be truly happy. A smaller quantity
of anything that is high in quality will almost always be more
satisfying. A single piece of our favorite chocolate or a thin spread
of freshly made preserves can satisfy us more than a full bucket of a
product that we aren’t very fond of. Similarly, one fulfilling
experience can eclipse many empty moments strung together. It is not
the quantity of time that matters, but the quality that you experience
during each moment. Every minute is an opportunity to love yourself and
others, develop confidence and self-respect, and exhibit courage.
Ultimately, quality can make life
sweeter. When you focus on quality, all your life experiences can be
meaningful. A modest portion of good, healthy food can nourish and
satisfy you on multiple levels and, when organically grown, nourish the
earth as well. Likewise, a few hours of deep, restful slumber will
leave you feeling more refreshed than a night’s worth of frequently
interrupted sleep. A few minutes spent with a loved one catching up on
the important details about family, work, or community can carry more
meaning than two hours spent watching television together.
Often, in the pursuit of quantity we
cheat ourselves of quality. Then again, quantity also plays a
significant role in our lives. Certain elements, such as hugs, kisses,
abundance, and love, are best had in copious amounts that are high in
quality. But faced with the choice between a single, heartfelt grin and
a lifetime of empty smiles, most would, no doubt, choose the former.
Ultimately, it is not how much you live or have or do but what you make
of each moment that counts. Published with permission from Daily OM
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A Day At A Time
Reflection For The Day
Some people are such worriers that
they worry about the fact that they have nothing to worry about.
Newcomers in The Program sometimes feel, for example, “This is much too
good to last.” Most of us, however, have plenty of real things to worry
about — old standbys like money, health, death and taxes, to name just
a few. But The Program tells us that the proven antidote to worry and
fear is confidence — confidence not in ourselves, but in our Higher
Power. Will I continue to believe that God can and will avert the
calamity that I spend my days and nights dreading? Will I believe that
if calamity does strike, God will enable me to see it through?
Today I Pray
May I realize that the worry habit —
worry that grows out of broader, often unlabeled fears — will take more
than time to conquer. Like many dependent people, I have lived with
worry so long that it has become my constant, floor-pacing companion.
May my Higher Power teach me that making a chum out of worry is a waste
of my energy and fritters away my constructive hours.
Today I Will Remember
Kick the worry habit.
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One More Day
The greatest of faults, I should say,
is to be conscious of none.
– Thomas Carlyle
We really know that we are not
perfect. We are, like everyone else, beings capable of millions of
behaviors. We can develop a humble self-awareness that takes all of our
pluses and minuses into account. When we examine ourselves gently, but
honestly, we find ourselves in a position where we can correct our own
faults and become more tolerant and accepting of the faults of others.
The unconditional love we give
ourselves — and everyone we care for — isn’t blind to imperfection;
instead, it openly accepts strengths and weaknesses.
Today, my love of myself and others
will be shown in my tolerance of imperfections.
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Food For Thought
We Are Sick
Until we realize fully that we are
sick, we do not begin to recover. As long as we feel that all we need
is a good diet and some willpower, we do not understand the nature of
our disease. We would have been able to stop eating compulsively long
ago if the answer had been willpower and diet.
When we examine the history of our
obesity in the light of the OA program, we see that we are in the grip
of an incurable illness, which gets progressively worse, never better.
Once we accept the fact that there is no cure for our disease, we can
begin to develop control. Until we recognize the seriousness of our
illness, we do not succeed in controlling it.
By acknowledging that our very life
depends on maintaining abstinence and practicing the OA principles, we
come to terms with the reality of our situation. We can live
satisfying, full, rewarding lives if we do not forget that we are sick
and that our recovery will never be complete.
Each day, may I not forget that I am
sick.
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One Day At A Time
~ACCOMPLISHMENT~
The central fact of our lives today is
the absolute
certainty that our Creator has entered
into our hearts
and lives in a way which is indeed
miraculous.
He has commenced to accomplish those
things for us
which we could never do by ourselves.
Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous
The one thing that I am absolutely
certain of today is that our Creator, God, lives in my heart and works
miracles in my life daily. The biggest miracle, I believe, is having an
awareness of Him, and knowing that He is in control of all that happens
in my life. His power is infinite. If I were not aware of God, then I
don't believe I could work this program. It is the realization that God
can accomplish anything that is helping me to work daily toward
achieving my goal of continued abstinence and a changed attitude
regarding food.
I cannot change what's in my heart,
but God can. I cannot, of myself, break lifelong habits, but God can
motivate me to change. I cannot forgive myself all the pain I've
inflicted on myself and others, while suffering from this disease, but
God can soften my heart, and help me to forgive by letting me know that
He forgives me. There is nothing that I can't accomplish when I take
God's hand and let Him lead me.
One Day at a Time . . .
I will let God guide me into an
ever-deepening relationship with Him so that I may accomplish the great
feat of arresting my compulsion to overeat.
Joycelyn
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AA 'Big Book' - Quote
We doctors have realized for a long
time that some form of moral psychology was of urgent importance to
alcoholics, but it's application presented difficulties beyond our
conception. What with our ultra-modern standards, our scientific
approach to everything, we are perhaps not well equipped to apply the
powers of good that lie outside our synthetic knowledge. - Pg. xxvii -
4th. Edition - The Doctor's Opinion
Hour To Hour - Book - Quote
Whatever time it is that we are
reading this, we may feel anxious about what the rest of the day will
bring. But our program is a 'now' program. Later will bring what later
will bring, right now we're clean and sober!
I will meditate briefly on the phrase
'Be Here Now' to better understand my new way of life.
Being in the Moment
Today, I see that the only real point
of power is in the present, which is to say that life cannot be lived
backward or forward, but only in the context of today. If I truly let
myself have this moment and all that it contains, I will be in quiet
possession of great eternal wealth. All that is, is in this moment
where all the waters meet and all the wisdom of the ages lies; it is
the now that calls me to it with open arms. I work out my past, not
because it is right or good or proper, but because it allows me to be
in fuller possession of my present. By releasing and returning to me
those parts of me that remain prisoner in my own psychic and emotional
jail, I can have access to the now. I allow myself this moment.
- Tian Dayton PhD
Pocket Sponsor - Book - Quote
We not only attempt geographical
'cures' while drinking, but often while clean and sober too. When you
make a move 'for the better,' unless you can honestly say you are
running to something positive, then you are running from something that
you haven't faced.
No matter how fast or how far I go, I
can't outrun myself.
"Walk Softly and Carry a Big Book" - Book
Not drinking is a symptom of your
recovery.
Time for Joy - Book - Quote
Today I am learning to think and act
in a positive way that is healthy for my mind, body and spirit.
Alkiespeak - Book - Quote
Laughter is the music of Alcoholics
Anonymous. - Angie D.
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AA Thought for the Day
December 15
Pass It On
I'll never forget the first time I met
Bill Wilson.
I was a couple of months sober and so
excited, so thrilled to meet the co-founder
that I gushed all over him with what
my sobriety meant to me and my undying gratitude for his starting AA.
When I ran down, he took his hand in
mine and said simply, "Pass it on."
- 'Pass It On', preface
Thought to Ponder . . .
Gratitude is not a word in AA; it's an
action.
AA-related 'Alconym' . . .
N O W = No Other Way.
~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
Pride
We scarcely need to be reminded that
excessive guilt
or rebellion leads to spiritual
poverty.
But it was a very long time before we
knew
we could go even more broke on
spiritual pride.
When we early AAs got our first glimmer
of how spiritually pride full we could
be,
we coined this expression:
"Don't try to get too damned good by
Thursday!"
That old-time admonition may look like
another of those
handy alibis that can excuse us from
trying our best.
Yet a closer view reveals just the
contrary.
This is our AA way of warning against
pride-blindness,
and the imaginary perfection's that we
do not possess.
Bill W., June 1961
c. 1988 AAGrapevine, The Language of
the Heart, p. 255
Thought to Consider . . .
Pride without gratitude is arrogance.
*~*~*AACRONYMS*~*~*
S O B E R = Simply Observe Bill's
Exemplary Recovery
*~*~*~*~*^Just For Today!^*~*~*~*~*
Ideas
>From "'Suggested' Steps":
"I remember my sponsor's answer when I
told him that the Steps were 'suggested.' He replied that they are
'suggested' in the same way that, if you were to jump out of an
airplane with a parachute, it is 'suggested' that you pull the ripcord
to save your life. He pointed out that it was 'suggested' I practice
the Twelve Steps, if I wanted to save my life."
1990 AAWS, Inc.; Daily Reflections,
pg. 344
*~*~*~*~*^ Grapevine Quote ^*~*~*~*~*
"My drinking career was all about
running away. I could pack up and vanish in a flash. Now, I can make
commitments and become part of something. I can let myself belong."
Kingston, N.Y., May 1997
"At Home in a Home Group"
Beginner's Book: Getting and Staying
Sober
~*~*~*~*^ Big Book & Twelve N' Twelve
Quotes of the Day ^*~*~*~*~*
"When ready, we say something like
this: 'My Creator, I am now
willing that you should have all of
me, good and bad. I pray that you
now remove from me every single defect
of character which stands in
the way of my usefulness to you and my
fellows. Grant me strength, as
I go out from here, to do your
bidding. Amen.' We have then
completed Step Seven."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
Into Action, pg. 76~
"God has abundantly supplied this
world with fine doctors,
psychologists, and practitioners of
various kinds. Do not hesitate to
take your health problems to such
persons. Most of them give
freely of themselves, that their
fellows may enjoy sound minds and
bodies."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
The Family Afterward, pg. 133~
Will he take every necessary step,
submit to anything to get well, to stop drinking forever?
-Alcoholics Anonymous p.142
So it is that we first see humility as
a necessity
-Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
p.73
Misc. AA Literature - Quote
As a society we must never become so
vain as to suppose that we are authors and inventors of a new religion.
We will humbly reflect that every one of A.A.'s principles has been
borrowed from ancient sources.
A minister in Thailand wrote, 'We took
A.A.'s Twelve Steps to the largest Buddhist monastery in this province,
and the head priest said, 'Why, these Steps are fine! For us as
Buddhists, it might be slightly more acceptable if you had inserted the
word 'good' in your Steps instead of 'God.' Nevertheless, you say that
it is God as you understand Him, and that must certainly include the
good. Yes, A.A.s Twelve Steps will surely be accepted by the Buddhists
around here.'
St. Louis oldtimers recall how Father
Edward Dowling helped start their group; it turned out to be largely
Protestant, but this fazed him not a bit.'
Prayer for the Day: Prayer During Turmoil - Dear Higher Power,
During times when my world becomes unhinged, and the foundations of
what I believe crack and dissolve, give me the grace to believe that
Your power is at work in the turmoil of my life. Lead me to remember
that Your power is greater than all evil, and though the world may rock
and sometimes break, it will in time, be transformed by Your love.